honestly the so called HELL DOWNN UNDER has created so many doubts nd so much confusion in my mind nd the most confusing being as ayesha u mentioned wat nauman said in the video.just dont understand wat 2 trust nd wat not 2.even now i am confused abt wat the argument there was all abt(i mean wat we saw on television) whether it was abt nomi sayin watever he said abt tammy or whether it was abt tammy's vote-out nd nomi not doin enough 2 save her nd that he just used her.
yar u can clearly c the negativity in the video right from the start.at no point did noman say smthng gud abt other roadies.atleast he ud hav had smthng very gud 2 say abt sufi, tammy nd vari that is 4 sure.definately he ud have been asked abt his opinion nd i just hav a feelin that wat he said was maybe his initial feelings or the 1st impressions as u gendrally call them.i dont think we can simply go by that video nd start hating him.atleast when it comes 2 tammy it always looked his feelings 4 tammy were genuine if not others.i mean if noman's intention was 2 just use tammy 4 the game nd his sole purpose was 2 win he cud hav simply stayed away frm tammy esp when others warned him nd that 2 a no. of times.there was no need 4 him 2 risk being with her nd goin out of the show.this is obviously the 1st most genuine thought that comes 2 mind.there r even other reasons like nomn's body language during tammy's vote out.during sandy's vote out just bcz tammy said maybe noman voted he was just so shocked .nd yeah also the letter u just mentioned while noman was leaving.u dont write smthng like that if u dont have any feelings.there r numerous instances like this.
when raghu said u broke tammy's heart i just dont no wat he was referring 2.i meam noman says i did not break her heart i just had 2 save myself nd in the back ground as the conversation goes on u can hear slightly noman say that" i told palak 2 vote or smthng" nd raghu interrupts sayin ok u did if 4 game nd asks them 2 look at each other nd smthng .so it might be abt tammy's vote out nd wat he said 2 samrat that they can vote agnst her.it was as if noman backstabbed tammy but in actual fact it is not.
nd rite frm beginning the 1 thng others were talking abt noman was him reaching finals bcz of tammy nd how she was saving him frm vote outs( natasha nd pradeep were sayin this).so my feelin is these mtv guys just combined various clippings in such a way so as 2 make nomi a villan which in actual fact may not be.if u look at the video shown 2 the roadies u can understand this very clearly.the video was created just 2 create a atmosphere so that others will hav a go at nomi.i u remember palaks video this girl said wat not which she should not hav said but wat was shown was very sweet part of palak.not even 1 tenth of was she said was shown.also when she said i wanted 2 get rid of this sufi ka baccha the next frame was palak shouting in happiness after she completed the walking b/n the baloon task.she was happy cz she was afraid of heights nd still completed it not bcz sufi went out.if u look at the video it is smthng else.so it is clear it was made 4 a purpose.
(anyway rannvijay himself said 2 roadies u will be given time 2 talk 2 noman nd clear the whole thng nd when the next day noman was called rannvijay enquires whether the differences were sorted nd when noman says yes they hav sorted the differences he was like gud nd stuff.now wat does all this mean.it is very clear nd evident it was just 4 the finale nd drama nd nothng else.its gud mtv guys do take care of certain aspects esp like this which r quite sensitive nd hurting.u need 2 be quite honest nd trusworthy 2 win over such situations.)
of course noman when he saw tammy,vari nd others ud hav felt ok tammy is short polo nd vari r little fat nd so on.noman did mention initially in the video that "when i 1st came on show i felt most of guys were dumb nd so on........".so he started sayin watever he said frm wat he felt right at the beginning.so i feel watever he said abt tammy was the initial thng.obviously u go with a plan so he might hav thought tammy ud be the right girl 2 go with as this time there was this group thng nd also he had 2 make frnds with others nd vari nd tammy were the 1's esp after sufi left as both of them were very close 2 each other.
as sufi left nd groups were made tammy nd vari were with him nd he had 2 become frnds with both of them.this is just natural as any1 ud do the same.i guess this is wat he referred 2 as choice.later vari was out nd he was with tammy.maybe as noman started spending more time with tammy he ud hav started liking her more nd more.nd this is probably wat we hav been cin on T.V 4 so long.its just the editing work these mtv guys r doin which is so intelligent that is making us feel all sort of thngs.even watever he said abt sufi makes u suspect.during the episode of tammy's vote out it is palak who comes 2 noman nd says sufi is planning agnst u.it is only then noman goes 2 samrat nd says sufi is planning agnst u bcz sufi is worried abt palak nd samrat's bond as probably by that time sufi has realized samrat is not as gud as he expected nd that he way playin lot of games.there r videos in mtvindia site where sufi says he hought samrat was very straight forward but he started showing his true colors after he(sufi) returned 2 australia.after tammy lef it was clear nomi wanted samrat out.nd y ud he not want him 2 go out of the show.he was never with nomi.so now nomi had 2 plan the foundation 4 which was laid down before tammys vote out nd that 2 was initiated by palak. not noman.so i just ud not falut him at all.also if the blame was on sufi i guess noman made very sure sufi was not in any danger as no 1 at that time was agnst sufi.it ud have been a mistake if during tammys vote out noman said he ud vote agnst sufi.but it did not happen.
without showing the whole thng they just showed a part of it obviously 4 ppl watching it it is as if noman is the biggest cheat nd backstabber on the show but it is not true at all.even the other clippings were some wat similar 2 this incident.nd also i feel was noman was referring 2 abt tammy was just frm shows point of view not personal view abt her.
watever noman said in the video in my view is him just being very honest nd probably wat he felt.i dont feel he said any thng bad abt tammy.ofcourese truth is always hard 2 digest but fact is always a fact whether 1 likes or not.tammy ud not have expected noman 2 say wat he said abt her.during the talk time she said very clearly she does not say shit thngs abt her frnds nd expects same frm her frnds.just bcz noman was honest she ud have been hurt by it.of course we did not c the whole thng so cant say 4 sure wat is wat.but 1 thng is 4 sure till now watever we have cn at no point did it look as if noman is a mean guy who ud do anythng 2 achieve his purpose nd this was the guy who supported dev when no 1 cud even bear him 4 a second.he just valued frndship this was evident even yesterday when he said he wanted sufi in final nd i guess he was quite honest abt it.if sufi was there till the end he ud hav definately choosen sufi 2 go with him before every1 else.i just hope sufi, tammy nd vari undersatand him nd sort out their differences.by the way kiri wrote that noman never backstabs so atleast we can trust.kiri if not noman as kiri is probably the most honest guy.
finally wat i rote was based on wat i hav cn on tv nd i hav cn each nd every episode till now.there is so much we do not know so i cant be very confident nd say wat ever i hav written is the absolute truth.atleast there r chances it can be so fingers crossed.
very disappointed sufi is not in final.it was a real heart break 4 me.anyway that's life if not this smthng else much better 4 sufi later on.hope sufi understands noman as he was sayin watever is there is only frm ouside not inside.i guess noman likes sufi a lot.anyway i feel it was gud that mtv guys made such a video nd showed it 2 other roadies.it is esp gud 4 sufi nd tammy.even though facts do hurt initially they make a person feel much better later on.cmin 2 tammy its the best thng 4 her.i feel this incident ud give her a chance 2 understand nomi much better.nd i guess if tammy's feelings r really genuine she really deserves smthng very gud in her life esp frm noman.though it hurts a bit its better she heard wat noman thinks abt her probably wat he felt at beginning or watever.i dont think noman has any bad sort of bad intensions though.its intentions that matter not actions nd wat a person says.u can act foolish nd be cruel or rude 2 sm1 u love in the heat of the moment.it necessarily does not mean u want 2 hurt that person.at that moment it just happens.so its ok nd can be forgiven.but its not the same when u do it intentionally.i hav this feeling that frm the time noman came back on the show he was just so determined 4 wtever reason it might be to win the show.but necessarily it does not mean he ud do those thngs that he should not suppose 2 do like backstabbing nd stuff.
Edited by michael09 - 16 years ago
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