Is gunjan's reaction justified?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Okay before i even post my thoughts... one thing all gunjan bashers stay away from the topic.. no2 i myself am a gunjan lover so if u dnt agree with my thought dnt take it to heart and give ur views

well guys we have being seeing gunjan is not behaving properly with samrat.... i was with her in the beginning once a person goes through such trauma of loosing a dear one.. we tend to blame others even though they may not have been at fault..
however now i think its high time that gunji forgives him..
the reason is that we see whenever gunjan still needs him, he comes running to her.. to help her o console her...
but there is a point where she is not agreeing with him or not actually needs him.. she says hurtful things to him...
first when she said tumhare sar se di ki maut ka bhoj utar jayega...
okay she did say sorry the next day... we can still accept it but last day she said she had no one except mayank was not justified.. she has hurt samrat time and again.. dont u think she took samrat forgranted and for once samrat should be angry with her so that she realises she was wrong...
may be she realises how much has hurt him..
okay.. this is totally my POV... if u guys think i am wrong or disagree with my thoughts to give in urs... and u guys know that i am a huge gunji fan so this is not bashing i am just saying that now cvs should do something so that we get to see sajan union but not not because nupur is back her di is back but the sole reason because... she knows what samrat has done for her... the pain he has gone through from 3yrs.. and that she cannot live without her him.. because she still cares for him and coz she still loves him
plss do give in ur comments 😛
love pragya

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey pragz …..nice topic hon!😳

I understand where you are coming from and truth to tell Gunjan's attitude towards Samrat pisses me off too sometimes….in fact everytime I see a episode where Gunjan does something like blame Samrat, I just get so mad at her😆….what can I say, I am aries..I react first and then think later🤣….

Anyways after I cool down a bit I understand why Gunjan is acting the way she is too….I mean to actually understand Gunjan you have to put yourself in her position and think like her….thats not easy but after doing that I have realized that Gunjan acts the way she does not because she blames Samrat or her love is not enough for her to get through this situation…..its because She loves him with everything in her is the reason why she was unable to come to terms with the reality….if she loved him any less, it would have been easy for her to forgive and move on or get together with him….

What I mean is for Gunjan, Samrat is everything to her….but even if he didn do anything on purpose, he was still the guy who was driving the car that lead to her sister's death…..so now she stuck in a vicious circle because she loves her sister so she cant let go of how she died... but nothing, not even this huge a reason can stop her love for Samrat, makes her hate herself…because in her thinking, how can she love a guy who was even in a tiniest way responsible for her sister getting killed….let alone love him so much that she can never stop thinking about him or stop wanting to be with him….

So that love is making her lash out at him because hurting him, hurts her and she thinks she deserves it for feeling the way she does……and I also realized that Samrat is taking all this pain from her because he knows what she is doing and since he cant make her happy, the least he can do is share some of her pain…so if that's all she can give him then he would gladly take it….

It took a a while to understand what the CVs are trying to show here and I have to say that I applaud the CVs for showing the depth and complexities of these two characters in such a beautiful way….

And looking at the way the track is going, I really don't think they will show Sajan reunion as a direct result of nupur's return….I don't know how they are going to show it but it wont be this simple…because I think that if samrat and gunjan loved each other any less then it would have been easier for them to get past this…..but the immensity of the love they feel for each other is their strength and their weakness….this love keeps them together even when they are apart and sometimes keeps them apart even when they want to be together….

Wow…that was a long bhashan!!😲....sorry about that hon😳….didn mean to go on and on and on😆….and come to think of it, did that make any sense?😆

Edited by gina87 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok first of all 🤗 for this awesome post....great work dear...

Wel we all know that Gunjan is soft hearted, vulnerable girl...she has a heart which is very fragile... n now she has lost her mother like elder sister Nupur!!!!

She isnt able to cope with this loss....

She loves Samrat a lot no doubt...in fact she is the one who taught Sam the irony of life, made him realize the hw important a relation is!!! So no doubt on her love....

but at this point of tym, where she lost her sister n unfortunately her lover was on wheel at that tym, she is confused....

One cant blame her, she still loves Sam, but at some point she feels that if Sam was bit cautious that day then her sis wud have been alive!!!!!

Though it isnt logical,bt its her war between her heart n mind.....wenever she tries to come closer to Sam, that fateful incident comes infront of her eyes.....n her mind once again forces her to bliv that its Sam fr whom her di is dead today!!!!!

She actly needs some tym to settle down....though her action isnt justified but one cant help.....she herself needs to understand that its not Sam's fault its destiny, it was Nupur's destiny....

Anyways enf of my bak bak.....now I shud stop I think!!!

Thanx once again Pragz fr this wonderful topic!!!!!


ur's
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Edited by Dr.Zombie - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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res😛
& though i love mayur..me not a gunjan hater
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Posted: 15 years ago
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waiting for all u guys to unreserve.. :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i guess you right
humesha samrat apni chashmish ko manata hai ab chashmish ne apne samrat ko manana chahiye hai
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Posted: 15 years ago
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U may know that i m not a gunjan fan..but I have some views on this...not bashing ( defo not doing chance pe dance 😆..)

I actually think that Gunjan not believing mayank is perfectly fine..she doesn't want to get herself hurt by believing in what could possibly be an illusion and it's not easy to have ur heart broken again...
though initially I felt she should believe mayank..but then it's so difficult to lose ur sister once..

I don't however understand some of the lines that she has said to samrat though..ESP where she says she has nobody but mayank.. That is kind of sad ... Maybe she has her reasons but I thought it was really very harsh..considering how much samrat was trying to not hurt her... Some of the lines like ..u want di alive just because that will free u off the guilt was too shocking ... Samrat dint kill nupur...it was an accident...but I csn understand that gunjan was terribly hurt and may be fighting hurt with hurt.. But it really doesn't go well with me ...
Edited by myownarea - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nice post dear
totally agree with u
i want now that samrat give her attitude after nupur's return
m not against anyone
just my pov
sajan roxxxxxx
Edited by chilluppp - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Gunjans behaviour towards Mayank was justified...
buti however think the bitter things she said to Samrat are also justified....
Samrat going and talking about Nupur etc were like opening a tigresses wounds she would obviously shout at him....
im very tempramental and highly emotional myslef...so sometimes in a furry of emotions you do(even i do)...say things that will hurt a person real bad...if someone comes and talks about a hurtful topic to me i would have given the same answer...
Gunjan is human-she lost her mother,she lost her second mother the closest person she ever had her sister....i have a didi too im very fierce about her-when you love someone so dearly you cant see the diffrence between being right and wrong...
even though Gunjans behavious if justifies at the same time it isnt right...she has hurt Sam a lot...and i would love it if Gunjan tries to ask forgiveness from Samrat...but i would love it even more if they showed Samrat-rather than Gunjan accepting her with all her follies..beacuse thats what enetrnal love is about!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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its not dat dude but she still lovs sammy....aur pyaar mein unch neech toh hoti rehti hai.................

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