Is gunjan's reaction justified? - Page 3

Originally posted by: baby_doll_2305

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To be honest, I can sorta see where she's coming from. For the past three years, she has living in the false pretense that her sister is dead.

The reason for her death? Samrat! or at least, that is what she has been thinking. I suppose it would be wrong to judge her. I mean, it's very difficult even accepting the fact that someone so close to u...someone who u have shared all ur secrets...fears...hopes and dreams with...is no more....

And to top it all off, the never ending guilt that if it weren't for ur boyfriend, she would still b alive!

Gunjan has always been the kind of person to take all the blame upon herself... even if she had nothing to do with the situation... The same thing applies here.

She's punishing herself for loving the very person, who, in her mind, is responsible for her sister's death.

Yes, I agree, there were times when I felt quite angry at Gunjan.... But I cn see where she was coming from.

And then now.... When she knows that her sister is alive... I agree, she should forgive him now....It's high time she did so! But u know what yaar? I don't want her to forgive him becoz her sister i alive....

I want her to realize her faults and understand that Samrat wasn't responsible for the accident that occured three years ago.

I think it would be a vey crummy ending to a beautiful track if they ended it in such a way. It's way too wierd. It's like, oh, my sister is alive, so I'm not mad at u anymore!

She should understand how he has also been suffering for the past three years!

What say? Great post btw jaan!

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Originally posted by: myownarea

U may know that i m not a gunjan fan..but I have some views on this...not bashing ( defo not doing chance pe dance 😆..)

I actually think that Gunjan not believing mayank is perfectly fine..she doesn't want to get herself hurt by believing in what could possibly be an illusion and it's not easy to have ur heart broken again...
though initially I felt she should believe mayank..but then it's so difficult to lose ur sister once..

I don't however understand some of the lines that she has said to samrat though..ESP where she says she has nobody but mayank.. That is kind of sad ... Maybe she has her reasons but I thought it was really very harsh..considering how much samrat was trying to not hurt her... Some of the lines like ..u want di alive just because that will free u off the guilt was too shocking ... Samrat dint kill nupur...it was an accident...but I csn understand that gunjan was terribly hurt and may be fighting hurt with hurt.. But it really doesn't go well with me ...

Originally posted by: gina87

<font size="3" face="Calibri">Hey pragz …..nice topic hon!😳</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">I understand where you are coming from and truth to tell Gunjan's attitude towards Samrat pisses me off too sometimes….in fact everytime I see a episode where Gunjan does something like blame Samrat, I just get so mad at her😆….what can I say, I am aries..I react first and then think later🤣….</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">Anyways after I cool down a bit I understand why Gunjan is acting the way she is too….I mean to actually understand Gunjan you have to put yourself in her position and think like her….thats not easy but after doing that I have realized that Gunjan acts the way she does not because she blames Samrat or her love is not enough for her to get through this situation…..its because She loves him with everything in her is the reason why she was unable to come to terms with the reality….if she loved him any less, it would have been easy for her to forgive and move on or get together with him….</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">What I mean is for Gunjan, Samrat is everything to her….but even if he didn do anything on purpose, he was still the guy who was driving the car that lead to her sister's death…..so now she stuck in a vicious circle because she loves her sister so she cant let go of how she died... but nothing, not even this huge a reason can stop her love for Samrat, makes her hate herself…because in her thinking, how can she love a guy who was even in a tiniest way responsible for her sister gettingkilled….let alone love himso muchthat she can never stop thinking about him or stop wanting to be with him….</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">So that love is making her lash out at him because hurting him, hurts her and she thinks she deserves it for feeling the way she does……and I also realized that Samrat is taking all this pain from her because he knows what she is doing and since he cant make her happy, the least he can do is share some of her pain…so if that's all she can give him then he would gladly take it….</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">It took a a while to understand what the CVs are trying to show here and I have to say that I applaud the CVs for showing the depth and complexities of these two characters in such a beautiful way….</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">And looking at the way the track is going, I really don't think they will show Sajan reunion as a direct result of nupur's return….I don't know how they are going to show it but it wont be this simple…because I think that if samrat and gunjan loved each other any less then it would have been easier for them to get past this…..but the immensity of the love they feel for each other is their strength and their weakness….this love keeps them together even when they are apart and sometimes keeps them apart even when they want to be together….</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">Wow…that was a long bhashan!!😲....sorry about that hon😳….didn mean to go on and on and on😆….and come to think of it, did that make any sense?😆</font>

Originally posted by: gina87

Hey pragz ?..nice topic hon!😳

I understand where you are coming from and truth to tell Gunjan's attitude towards Samrat pisses me off too sometimes?.in fact everytime I see a episode where Gunjan does something like blame Samrat, I just get so mad at her😆?.what can I say, I am aries..I react first and then think later🤣?.

Anyways after I cool down a bit I understand why Gunjan is acting the way she is too?.I mean to actually understand Gunjan you have to put yourself in her position and think like her?.thats not easy but after doing that I have realized that Gunjan acts the way she does not because she blames Samrat or her love is not enough for her to get through this situation?..its because She loves him with everything in her is the reason why she was unable to come to terms with the reality?.if she loved him any less, it would have been easy for her to forgive and move on or get together with him?.

What I mean is for Gunjan, Samrat is everything to her?.but even if he didn do anything on purpose, he was still the guy who was driving the car that lead to her sister's death?..so now she stuck in a vicious circle because she loves her sister so she cant let go of how she died... but nothing, not even this huge a reason can stop her love for Samrat, makes her hate herself?because in her thinking, how can she love a guy who was even in a tiniest way responsible for her sister getting killed?.let alone love him so much that she can never stop thinking about him or stop wanting to be with him?.

So that love is making her lash out at him because hurting him, hurts her and she thinks she deserves it for feeling the way she does??and I also realized that Samrat is taking all this pain from her because he knows what she is doing and since he cant make her happy, the least he can do is share some of her pain?so if that's all she can give him then he would gladly take it?.

It took a a while to understand what the CVs are trying to show here and I have to say that I applaud the CVs for showing the depth and complexities of these two characters in such a beautiful way?.

And looking at the way the track is going, I really don't think they will show Sajan reunion as a direct result of nupur's return?.I don't know how they are going to show it but it wont be this simple?because I think that if samrat and gunjan loved each other any less then it would have been easier for them to get past this?..but the immensity of the love they feel for each other is their strength and their weakness?.this love keeps them together even when they are apart and sometimes keeps them apart even when they want to be together?.

Wow?that was a long bhashan!!😲....sorry about that hon😳?.didn mean to go on and on and on😆?.and come to think of it, did that make any sense?😆

wowwwwwwwww i am completely bowled over by your analysis ...........everything was bang on......... all of us are not realizing that by hurting samrat gunjan is hurting herself

Originally posted by: CandYlicious_SG

@shruti and sonu.. Completely agree with u both!

Yes, Gunjan is definitely outta the DENIAL MODE.. She has entered the phase of acceptance and her first step in ths regard was the Devdas play.. At first, i was also confused with her behaviour but when, after the play, she said I Love you and I hate myself for doing so..
She ACCEPTED that now it is nt possible for her to run away frm her feelings.. She had to accept that cuz she had no odr way round.. She was completely aware of the fact that HE knows ths too.. And thus, her vulnerable side got exposed! Now her only weapon, her only chance to stay away frm him is to be As Much Harsh With Him As Possible.. Her venomous words..

But our Samrat, is 2 steps ahead than our Gunjan, as he has hs Unbeatable Weapon i.e He UNDERSTANDS her inside n out.. We cn say that he has done PhD in Gunjan.. 😆 He knows that Gunjan is rejecting all happiness even her LOVE becuz she doesnt want to b happy anymore as her di is no more.. She thnks that it wud b an insult to Nupur, if she re unites with Sam n lead a happy life..

And u kno vat? I have said ths thng again n again, Lovers like Samrat with endless love has the level of patience which has got no boundaries.. Instead of showing off his ego, He SHOWERS his beloved with the most beautiful act Ever and i.e FORGIVENESS..

So i wont say that Gunjan is right in her regard.. But.. I can say that i know the reason for her bitterness and i understand it.. Human mind is indeed too complicated to be understood by us people with limited area of thnking and analysing situations..
And understanding Gunjan's character is nt an Easy job! Too deep n complex.. U have to go in depths to her character to understand her..
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bang on dear...........samrat is being very patient with her..........now that is what makes sajan soulmates......they are called so for this very reason........before gunjan says it samrat knows it..........there is this unsaid understanding between the two which makes their relationship work..............love the whole essence of their relationship.........it makes me want to believe in the existence of love