A Follow-up to Mohit as Devdas Thread - Page 4

hmmm...Interesting..well I don't know if you know me..coz I haven't really been a part of any of your threads..for specific reasons..coz either I dint have any inputs.. or I just didn't care enough for it.. e.g Nupur Return post.. well whatever the reasons the results are clear now..she is here..so that's it..whats the point in speculating..

Coming to the next part..that I have to talk about... 😆 for the love of myself and my individuality.. ppl who know me know how imp tht is to me 😆 A friend of mine ffwded me the link to your Mayank and Sam as Devdas post..but for different reasons..A member insinuated that I was conveniently missing from the discussion and hence may be both of us are one and the same.. Well If one noticed my style of writing and my perspectives...they are starkly different from yours and I couldn't be both of us..unless I suffered from MPD or had eons of time in hand..Unfortunately in my case neither hold ground...

Now moving to your current post.. well a wise scientist said.. Most people dont care to FIND THE TRUTH..they care to SEARCH FOR PEOPLE WHO AGREE... that is exactly this forum.. I post my views at times..just to add a dimension that has been unexplored by few friends.. but I never really care to comment on actors as NONE of them in the show are impressive to say the least.. Sanaya is the sole reason I watch the show..and just coz I love her I am her biggest critic.. but I share my criticisms only with people who inspite of loving her can have an open mind to hear it..not people who are looking for reasons to demean her..well her skin color is one such reason apparently..where people openly exercise racism.. fanaticism is a small thing...

As for being a minority I am privileged as I have always abided by the exclusive club in my life.. and as for mods taking care of the majority..I don't again care..coz Its definitely more profitable to please the masses than few people... then again if 70% of the minority are peaceful and not impulsive they would not attract attention and solicitation..our country India is suffering from unnecessary reservation for the minorities...I defo don't want it to happen in any sphere...for me its simple if you want some rights you have to earn it..

all the best..I hope you do make more posts.. but one word of advise.. you have the guts to express and the advantage of practical expression.. (if you know what I mean)all you need is wisdom.. to not expect civility.. and it just doesn't pertain to this forum but to people in general.. so just take them for what they are..and make your niche.. 😉

Sonya1986 I completey agree wid u. Samrat did do the scene better than Mayank.

Brilliantly said Sonya!! I agree with each and every word of your post.


I really don't feel you should stop posting your thoughts, your opinions because of a bunch of immature people who have no respect for others... In any case, people who are bothered more about fictional characters, at the cost of abusing, disrespecting, cursing real human beings aren't worth being spoken to, and should make no difference to you. Why should you not post your opinion? Just because it doesn't go down well with some people? I really think you should continue posting.

As for this forum, it's always been like this. You can find thousands of topics, which are filled with the same content, people having not much to say, endless drooling, and sensible posts are very hard to find. I can cite so many threads which are exactly the same, but they aren't ever closed down.

You do have a point Sonya, and i love the way you've expressed yourself here.

Sonya
I dont know you and I dont write a lot. Neither of the statement is intended to mock at you (this is just a precautionary statement incase this get twisted).


I used to be active in the MJHT forum in november 2008 to april 2009 period. In a way obsessed with the forum then. There was one attitude which still is prevalent here- groupism. Individual voices get lost here.

The other thing ofcourse is an overflow of adolescence. There are not many around here who you can have a healthy conversation with- I have seen intelligent 11 year olds and really irritating 25 year olds. Eventually, comparison leads to really ugly verbal wars which none of us would be interested in facing.
The only section where in a perfect conversation with opposing views can be held on IF is the Debate Mansion- it has the most fabulous Moderator(I sometimes become Sarina's undercover Promoter) and a great bunch of members with a lot of decency.

I am happy you do not generalise Mayank Nupur fans because once upon a time I was categorised as Ex-MN. I am one of those who probably wanted MJHT shut and never wanted rati to return so does this make me a good fan or a bad fan- I dont know.

I do want to recount one scenario I faced in here. I am a critic- When I criticize Mayank-Nupur sometimes for the idiocy prevalent in a certain sequences, MN fans jump at me(not all of course), and a few SG fans join me. WHen I criticize Samrat-Gunjan, I see an attitude from a lot(not all) of SG fans as well who just tell me that all my actions are because I am an MN fan and im probably jealous blah blah blah. We just have to take it in stride I think and continue to do what we like to do and what makes us happy.

we are not even going to meet most the people who disagree with us and curse us to hades and beyond anytime. We can never please everyone ofcourse.

Why punish/restrain yourself just because of a few random people?


I am not even sure if i made sense.

Hey sonya... nicely said...

well what can we say... and i do really hope the average age of this form is 12-13... and sincerely hope for the sake of sanity... its defo not 20+....

Agreed. Just like most of the times people try to criticize an actor's acting abilities, they're termed as bashers. And this goes both ways. MN fans even speaking about Mohit's acting are termed as bashers, and vice versa. I don't think comparing two actors is an offense, but ofcourse, only if the comparison could take place in a more civilized way, which in our forum, is IMPOSSIBLE. Because trust me, going by the history of this forum, one thing's for sure, the times when we could all actually have civilized discussions and arguments is long gone. And good thing you didn't generalize all MN fans into one category, cause we do have some really good MayUrians who know very well how to discuss things in a positive way.

👏Heya :)
Its actually a rare thing to find a discussion topic on d 1st PG of dis discussion forum:)Coz mostly,d 1st PG has those topic which "not every person" can discuss wid other as dey r not dat couple fan or it has too much offensive word dat a member "wouldn't" like to go 4dat topic..

Ok here r my 2cent.
Yes,u cant share ur views only as "Ur" views in dis forum..Ur viewws 'll be only acceptable only if it goes wid d "Majority"Let me give u some simple example : ( im a SG fan so im saying dis form my exprience)

As a SG fan if u critisize SG in a SG criticizm thread ,Der r few ppl who 'll laugh @ u,By saying what happen to her,Oh finally may be she came out 4m her SG la la land-Gud gud 4her.N SG fan 'll only think is she a loyal SG fan?

As a SG fan if u enter in a non-SG topic/an other charecter appriciation thread,1stly ur comment wont be appriciate,rather ppl 'll laugh @ u,mock @ ur POV,Dey 'll comment such as- Haha how come suddenly she 's appriciating dis thing Lol bla bla bla..useing some various emmotions :S ( Want prove? )

Now groupism-I've seen so many groups after joining India-forum but i've to say SG v/s MN fights r worse among all..n trust me ppl outa here can go worse dan "worse" just 4d sake of der Fan-ship :S

Ok,just bcoz im a SG fan i wont say SG fan dont argue,dey dont fight.But yes i'd say dey r not d 1st one who create fights in a topic.
By saying dis im also not saying its MN fan who create fights.But yes,to be honest der r some ppl u'll find dem start d fight in a topic,which is usually der not-so-favourite topics but yet dey come n mock @ dat topic n meanwhile d fight start.n unfortunetly dey belong to MN fan group.(If any DT member or any member has any problem wid my dis statement feel free to ask me d reason,i'd probably end up giving u a full list of d names who do this,widout even wasting a moment,coz it's really not hard to say those name as most of d time d members r d same.)

now abt bashing n all : Its common..really common.as in ur post u said something abt Gunjan v/s Nupur,Who should die thing? so yes 1 should n't comment like Gunjan should die if one has to to..I mean y? If one can love Nupur,y dey dont think other can love Gunjan too? If Rati has fans y other dont think Sanaya has too?

Abt actors acting : Yes dats been a huge isssue wid dis forum member,N i wont give any deplomatic ans on dis thing..as its simple ,ppl outa here think..Mohit as an actor Gud 4nothing n Arjun is god of acting.Oh well !! I,personally not a fan of Arjun nor fond of Mayank/ AB.4me he's an actor who is a Imp part of MJHT as he's playing one of d leads,so is dat really need 4me to bash him up just coz i dont like him n all.No its not needed,inspite of being a SG n Mohit fan i less bother going to a MN-filled topic or AB appriciation thread.I can hardly remember if i said anything bad abt AB n MN jodi..If any1 can find it 4me,i would be glad dat NO im also not ant dud ka dhula huya. but NO,Some ppl like made a rule 4demself,We r not a SG/Monaya/Mohit Samrat fan,so after every epi if der is a post abt dem,we have to go der n bash,we have to mock etc..

"If u dont have anything nice to say,Dont spoil other mood,If u dont like a certain actor,n cant criticize him in a healthy manner y cant u stay from der fan who like discuss abt him in peace..is it too hard to understand?
Der r many rules which r only applicable only on a group,n dis rule r made by fan group only.

Name-calling is like a new mantra 4 bashers. Saying TRP is not too high when ur fav is not a part of d show its fun but when ur fav is part of d show n TRP is not high..Its ok.not a big deal.If anytime TRP goes high during Ur fav.couple scene its bcoz of der fav,n d reason dey give is -dey have d bigger fan following unlike d other couple! Oh common-If a interesting track come up,a interesting scene going on PPL would like to watch dat thing so TRP should go high.But if u like to say this den again what is d need of bringing d other couple in b2in !

PPL can do every cheap thing do made der fav look d best,no matter if dey r making demself look too bad.Dey hurt real ppl feelings 4 Just a charecter..n den say..Oh u r too sensitive 4dis forum babes. :S

I wont say every MN fan is bad n every SG fan is nice,I've seen some nice MN fan as well n has some nice SG fan as friends as wel but der r few ppl who make d thing worse 4others.

Criticizm/Comparision r ok wid me untill der is no - vives.I mean if intend to open a comparison post just to prove how d actor is lest gud dan ur fav,dats not dont.

As per as d moderators behaviours thing concerned-I would say,In past when i use to be active on dis forum,i've goten evey help dat i needed,Gagan di- did every possible thing do make dis forum a better place to discuss..DB also been every helpful..Preeti di who were more of a friend wid whom we used to discuss topics..

but yet i do have some issue wid mods regarding rules,I saw many topic where a certain group of ppl bash a couple like anything,dey make dat sweet,plesant topic a hell,n enjoy der own comments n mocking but end of d day y guyz just give dem a word of warnning nothing else ..I saw many threads as such in recent time n honestly dat made me think same as d TM..Everytime u say its a last warnning next time u'll take action but i never seen u taking any actions againts dis members.Be its just a member or a member who is a part of DT.

PS-Mods if u think im saying bad thingsn my above statements is NO true ,or I bashed any 1 in dis post,feel free to ban me or raise my warnning level but i guess i've to say thing today.

Edit: i didn't realize i wrote such a long post😕😆

I have a question to raise. Why aren't we even allowed to criticize a CHARACTER? I understand actors, but characters? I remember quite a lot of times I'd raised questions about Gunjan, I won't deny that, whether she has been a good sister to Nupur or no, and I was supposedly bashing. I mean, actors are real, but characters are not. So I don't understand why even criticizing characters is called bashing?😳

@ Rach- Umm i dont think its not allowed here although in forum COC it says we can criticize a charecter in a healthy manner but not ... n ... u know what i mean..although in this forum mostly ppl intend to bash saying we r just critizing :) n i actually saw many thing as such like caption n all :)But as i said its ok to criticize n compare untill u dont intend to mock or bash :P did i made any sense ? :P n i dont know abt other ppl thinking abt it

PS-I replied to u as ur post were below me LOL