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hey guys,

Originally posted by: aashizin

i think with neil cvs make all fantastic four very confident and focused as they r college students and have no proper ambitions in their life but with this track they will get their life's main aim for sure

Originally posted by: princessyashika

i agree but again in parts...yes there can be no better inspiration or i shud say no better instication than seeing ur peer being successful...but actually speaking i didnt like this...i wud have loved it if they showed mayank getting inspired thru his own aspirations rather than from someone else'ssuccess...i dont think mayank sharma is a guy who needs inspiration from someone else...his heights shud be his own dreams and not anyone else's success.I wud have loved if they wud have shown something like there is some seminar organised in the college abt which mayank always dreamt abt...and that too getting training under some of his idol...whom he had always idolised since beginning...that makes mayank realize all over again abt what his dreams and aspirations were for college lyf...what he struggled n aspired for'I wud have loved him reliving his dreamz but by self-realization.so this getting inspiration from someone else...it doesnt seem to go down my throat too well coz its abt no one but MAYANK SHARMA.

coming to nupur...yes she is again reliving her dreams...but thats not coz of neil I think but coz of the fact that she is constantly being put into an environment where she expected herself but still she is not a part of it'n that's what pushing her to go to that extra mile to achieve what she aspires.

and finally coming to sam...yes he has this unexplained fear of losing gunjan...but pls dont get me wrong guys'i actually dont understand why its always expected that sajan have to commit their love just thru an engagement or a marriage?????cant the relationship of love be deep n strong enough just like that...??? yes entering of neil in sajan's lyf will tend to make sam stronger'coz he is still a vulnerable soul regarding relationships'he still fears if his loved ones will ever be with him..n that's why he said no 2 marriage'he is not scared 2 take the responsibility of marriage'but the very fact that even marriage cant keep ppl together'makes him lose trust in this type of commitment'n that's why for him commitment comes from heart..it comes from soul'he has committed his soul to gunjan...n i wonder if any other commitment can be pureenough to overpower this one.n so in my view'neil's presence making sam realize of the significance of a superficial commitment thru a ring or a marriage proposal'seems less intelligent to me.From this tarck...I just wanna sam 2 realize that marriage isn't just a commitment which u have to do "to keep together with the person u love"'rather it's "a beautiful choice u make willingly to spend ur whole life'with the person u love." Simply putting I want sam to realize that'

"Marriage isn't done coz u don't have any other option 2 keep ur beloved closer to u'.but marriage is done bcoz this is the most beautiful way u want 2 keep ur beloved closer to u'like an equal partner in all times of joy and in sorrow,in health and in sickness'in lyf and beyond."