Why Nupur still angry... - Page 3

Originally posted by: DiyaS

I loved Nupur today.

Yes, I did. I found her completely realistic - she's angry, upset hurt - for one, her father was forcing her into marriage because he misunderstood what Mayank was like - ok, not totally his fault, but that's her pov, remember - then her younger sister SEEMS to be supporting her dad - and Nupur is upset at the thought that Gunjan can be anything less than 100% on her side.

I liked Gunjan - I still think that she's in a very tight place - between father and sister, and Nupur is not understanding Gunjan's pov at all ... So Gunjan to my mind is justified in saying exactly what she said - both of you (bauji and Nupur) are not ready to understand each other ...

But Nupur's married life has not started off the way she always dreamed it would, they've been turned out of the college, they're struggling and the reality of life is just beginning to sink in after all her dreams of "married and living happily ever after" ... so her level of upset was already high - in spite of being blissfully happy with Mayank. And I thought she portrayed that beautifully and very realistically. Including the last bit of the precap with Mayank ... it's so difficult for a newly married girl to balance between her sister, who was her confidante all through, and a new husband who has just started becoming that. That's why in spite of being so upset with Gunjan, she was not ready to badmouth her to Mayank - she said it's between me and my sister.

It's a very mature track ... and I am so far liking it. I loved the Gunur tension today - it was very well done by both the girls - and both girls are right as far as I'm concerned.

Nupur can never turn negative cuz even with all this anger inside her, she is a really good person and she still loves her sister and her family…but unlike gunjan, nupur had all these dreams about her wedding and now that reality is so different from it, she is really angry and upset….she is not showing her hurt in front of mayank cuz she prolly doesn want him to get more worried about things…but I don't like the fact that she is taking it out on gunjan, the one person in this whole world who has been there with her every step of the way…nothing gunjan has said until now or done warrants this kind of reaction from nupur....i loved how gunjan was so honest with nupur and told her everything she was thinking…she loves her sister and her dad..and because of that the poor thing is stuck in the middle now…cuz neither one of them is willing to understand the other person's prospective….but its wrong of nupur to expect gunjan to completely be on her side cuz right now nupur has mayank and his mom with her but their dad is all alone..and it doesn matter now who was wrong or who was right, the fact is that in front of the whole society, adha-raj's dad humiliated nupur's dad….so now gunjan has to be there for her dad as well cuz he is just as angry and upset as nupur..

Originally posted by: gina87

Nupur can never turn negative cuz even with all this anger inside her, she is a really good person and she still loves her sister and her family'but unlike gunjan, nupur had all these dreams about her wedding and now that reality is so different from it, she is really angry and upset'.she is not showing her hurt in front of mayank cuz she prolly doesn want him to get more worried about things'but I don't like the fact that she is taking it out on gunjan, the one person in this whole world who has been there with her every step of the way'nothing gunjan has said until now or done warrants this kind of reaction from nupur....i loved how gunjan was so honest with nupur and told her everything she was thinking'she loves her sister and her dad..and because of that the poor thing is stuck in the middle now'cuz neither one of them is willing to understand the other person's prospective'.but its wrong of nupur to expect gunjan to completely be on her side cuz right now nupur has mayank and his mom with her but their dad is all alone..and it doesn matter now who was wrong or who was right, the fact is that in front of the whole society, adha-raj's dad humiliated nupur's dad'.so now gunjan has to be there for her dad as well cuz he is just as angry and upset as nupur..

Originally posted by: champakiran

Well said Diya!! Nupur's character was very realistic.

I'm glad they didn't show her being falsely sweet - Nupur's emotions show on her face - what you see is what you get with Nupur - so if she was upset with her sister it will show! For Nupur, she took the first opportunity to clarify with Gunjan - because she herself still can't believe that Gunjan would take Bauji's side against hers. Nupur does believe that Bauji was wrong in this case - remember what she told Mayank on the wedding night - that we will show Bauji our love is right. So for her when Gunjan is supporting Bauji - it means that she's not supporting MN love - which is a big blow to her - because she has stood by Gunjan all her life - and she always expected Gunjan to be by her side. It's not easy for Nupur to accept Gunjan's explanation so quickly - I know when I've had tiffs with my sister - if she explains - it's not immediate - forgive and forget! It takes time (maybe not weeks - but at least a couple of days)

Gunjan of course is caught in the middle. When one is not directly involved - it is human to see the side of both her loved ones - and she's caught between a stone and a rock!!

I felt for Nupur - when she said "Baahar bhi mera koi apna nahin"! The realization is dawning on her - that she's given up everything to marry Mayank - and yes she'd do it again in a heart beat - but it still hurts. That hurts come out as anger - and then to the nearest person to you. Though I do wish she would share her emotions with her husband!! I don't want her to have secrets or have topics that she does not discuss with her husband!! Those are signs of future discord. I want her to v.much make Mayank her "confidante" (to use Diya's terminology) - but it does take time. It cannot happen overnight!!

Mayank used the word "Sherni" - and I think Nupur would be that w.r.t Gunjan - because she feels v.protective towards her. If she ever felt anyone was hurting her sister - she would jump to her defense - no matter how hurt she feels - That is just how siblings are!!

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Exactly, gina, BOTH Nupur and her dad were hurt in the whole thing ... and so they're not ready to see each others' point of view. As for Nupur taking it out on Gunjan - who else can she take it out on? Not her dad, he's not there, not Mayank, because all said and done, they're newly married ... so it's only poor Gunjan, who has to bear the brunt - which included Nupur's reaction at Sajan's kiss - because at that point everything Gunjan does is wrong, because she's not supporting Nupur, and Nupur always reacts in extremes. And for not confiding in Mayank, I can soooo understand that ... NO girl will like to badmouth her family to her husband or inlaws ... so although Nupur is very hurt both with Gunjan and Bauji, she's not telling Mayank exactly how hurt she is, but that is coming out as anger. Again very Nupur-ish - may not be right, but when you're so upset and hurt, you can't see what's right or wrong. Gunjan can, because she's the cooler headed one, plus she's not the one directly hurt, so she can actually see both pov's - both are equally dear to her, and she's really stuck between the two.

Originally posted by: riteshhere

Hi All,

I dont understand why Nupur is still angry after her confrontation with Nupur and their hug.
In the precap, she was totally angry...
But I liked how soon their confrontation was shown.. they did not stretch it for 2-3 months like Saans Bahu drama..

Originally posted by: kiran--madi

Creatives r jst finding a reason 2 make GunUr n then MayUr fight... GunUr misunderstanding was stl a lil fine....bt mayur....!!!😕