collecting thoughts - Page 2

Originally posted by: kavya.b

dont think that i'm arguing with u... i'm jus saying my views acc my knowledge abt gunjan's character n MJHT

Originally posted by: xaviara

If you never understood Gunjan that its a little unfair for you to make such a comment about her ? U said she didnt need to dress up !! So disrespecting her elders and causing them embaressmeent would have helped nupur tonight ??? Just because she dressed up, doesnt mean she is happy with what's going on ?

U said Gunjan has said one honest thing that is that here life ends and begins with Samrat, so if that was the case than when Suhaani's truth was out and Sam wasnt talking to her and was going through one of the most hellish period of his time and was fighting inner deamons, why wasnt she with Samrat ? Why was she first comforting Nupur and then answering back to Bui laters saying that Nupur is in love, she hasnt done anything wrong !!! If she is so self centered then why was she trying to contact Mayank and to tell him about Bauji coming and then trying to stop him !!! She is self centered na !! she should have been trying to mend her relationship with Samrat !! But she didnt because she is the most selfless person in the whole show !!

U said you prefer diya over Gunjan because she has tried to talk to Adhiraj !! When didnt she and Samrat went to do tonight after Nupur's talk to Mayank ??

U said why didnt she tell Suhaani to go and tell Adhiraj about her love for him ? Why should Suhaani tell him !! She has tried countless times before this to call him up to ask him to listen to her once !!! she has literally begged !! Duhaani knows and even Gunjan, so what would make Gunjan and even Suhaani believe that he will listen to her now ?? When a guy is in love, she doesnt marry some other gurl !! How is Gunjan suppose to know that he is waiting for Suhaani to break his engagement !! Isnt that supposed to be the guys dept ???

Originally posted by: np18

no. i dont mind...i know there r lots of nice stuff about gunjan its just that i cant lik her dont know y and today seeing her nicely dressed when nupur was in distress put me off more..ive never felt badbefore when she took her own sweet time to realise nupur was feeling bad during the breakup morena time...today she knew what was at stake and ..............

Originally posted by: DiyaS

np ... am disappointed in your post ... you don't like gunjan, but normally you are far more balanced than this ... you really haven't understood her character at all. im sorry too...but i ve never liked gunjan i mean ive tried to understand her and while my dimaag does understand lots of stuff my dil still doesnt agree ...maybe im just extremely upset with mayank today and im taking it out more on gunjan coz i love mayank.usually i hardly bother about gunjan.i feel when people lik her take a stand, it works wonders and this time she didnt do her bit. i know she liks no make ir adores and looks upto nupur and even with sam being all imp, she has stood by nupur and all that but today her dress irked me badly...she sometimes cant do stuff for nups bcoz nups is big sister but this just isnt the time for all that
Also ... I hated what mayank told Nupur ... but I think Mayank is acting in character tonight ... liked his statement that ek baar dil se kaam liya aur itni gadbad ho gayi ... but I do wish he had talked to his mother! this is one time i want mayank out of charactertelling her to get engaged is criminal diya.

Originally posted by: mads

I dont have anything to add to what diya, naveen and kavs said ...

jus wanna add one thing tho @ topic starter : I hardly kno u .. but I kno one think that u are a die-hard MN fan ... and u are frustrated at the fiasco that they hav become .. dont blame u, anybody wud hav been frustrated ...

but it seems as tho u are tring to get out ALL that frustration on gunjan and SaJan ... u dont like them, fine .. dont watch them .. dont u say that u watch MJHT only for nupur? continue doing wit it .. why spoil moods of us SaJan fans .. v cud say that v dont get SaJan scenes too because the track is entirely faced on nupur .. and ther are crores of ways in which v can take out our frustration in this forum .. but v dont! instead v ry to enjoy watever lil amount of SaJan moments they hav ... or their journey uptil now ...

if v wanted to, or if I wanted to ... I cud hav made many remarks against MN .. but I dont, because I kno that wud prob hurt the sentiments of many of their fans here ... and I dont want that ...

as for gunjan being selfish n stuff ... well, arent u HONESTLY tired of even thinking it everytime ?? grow up ... jus because u are frustrated wit a particular storyline of ur fav couple ..doesnt giv u a right to get back at our fav couple ... do WE blame MN if SaJan has a pathetic track ?? and mind u, ther hav been pathetic tracks .. the most recent being, suhaani ... now, u wud say that v did play a blame game on mayank ... well, v never said tht he cudnt talk to samrat ... or said anything against him .. he is and wil always b the hero and the sensible one .. jus that in this track, that was supposed to revolve around SaJan, there shud not hav been any need for a third person ... had it been dia or benji or nupur, even then our reaction wud hav been the same .. because for SaJan, they dont need a third person and hence that job shud hav been only and only gunjan's ... coz its always been like that wit SaJan ... whereas for MN its jus the opposite .. they dont listen to each other on time .. and need a third person to patch them up ...

from the time SaJan hav become a couple, they havent got one single independent track ... but do we ever complain AGAINST MN for that ?? no, because if SaJan are in frame even for 30 sec is enuf for us.. to jus admire and adore their essence!

and as for calling samrat and gunjan selfish ... wel,, had it NOT been for samrat and gunjan, mayank and nupur wudnt hav been back together after their break up in the first place ... who postponed their first date in order to set MN up ?? who took so many efforts and pains and countless talks to get THEM talking to each other ???

but I guess all this is forgotten everytime gunjan jus says one thing like suhaani's problem is also as big as nupur's .. or if she goes and kisses samrat ... !!!

I did add a lot saying I dont want to ... but I hav no apologies for anything I said even if it hurt u .. because ur opening post hurt US a LOT ..