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Originally posted by: 9ruparaj6

Wowwwww....a lot seems to have happened since I logged on the last time.....but this is happy news indeed & I really & truly hope that my happiness is not shortlived!😊

It's entirely their loss & not ours......a creative representative in the forum is nothing but a publicity gimmick by the makers of the show... ideas, suggestions for scenes, songs etc...given by the creative members of our Forum was an additional bonus for them!

If they can't respect & appreciate what they were getting for free, it's their bad luck....

I also feel that she was responsible to some extent in perhaps unintentionally, creating a rift between MN & SG fans & the consequent animosity in the forum. I dont blame her entirely, cos in a Forum full of members with different POV's , a clash of opinions is bound to happen....there is no need to make such a big deal out of it, as long as we dont get abusive or offensive. As far as PD is concerned, a li'l more maturity, sensitivity & responsibility in her interactions with fans, on the comments that she makes on actors in the show & the scoops that she gives, would have been desirable.

If she had the good sense to consider some of the brilliant suggestions made by some of the intelligent members of the forum, & reduced the very obvious qualitative gap beween the two tracks, it could have bettered the show as a whole, created a reasonably happy & healthy atmosphere in the forum & been a win-win situation for all concerned.

It doesn't make a person small to admit to mistakes made (let's face it, we all make mistakes), learn to accept criticism & improve on those areas....I believe that when someone gives us inputs to improve, he or she cares for us to be a better person, the day they stop doing that, is when they think that we are completely hopeless...I-F members gave her valuable inputs & ideas to improve the show, because they cared.....things might have got a bit heated, 'cos it was constantly falling on deaf ears....

But does she handle it with maturity, as befits a creative representative of the show?

NO......she falls prey to her ego which has been massaged for quite sometime, as Rinky said, she wanted "pleading fans"....& I think, she also craved for "pleasing fans"...fans who would please her unconditionally....be her sycophants....sing her praises through the day....well, that's not happening, lady....certainly not in a forum which has members, who are intelligent, sensible & creative enough to put the MJHT creative(?) team to shame!

We dont need your favours....keep them!

guys this forum isnt for me...Fine then Being the creative of a show doesn't make you in any way different to us. Everybody on I-F is equal regardless of whoever they are. (As is not the case on this forum)

Originally posted by: StarryEyedGyal

guys this forum isnt for me...Fine then Being the creative of a show doesn't make you in any way different to us. Everybody on I-F is equal regardless of whoever they are. (As is not the case on this forum)

i refuse to be subjected top rude talk and slandering from time to time...Well what to do. We refuse to be subjected to such 'droolable' MN scenes where Nupur talks about shaadi and where the supposed 19 year old named Mayank doesn't let his mother touch his hair who has looked after him for YEARS but his Gf who he's known for a few months can touch it. Are we really supposed to be able to totlerate such 'cute' scenes!

to tell you the truth and sorry to have to put it this way most of your opinions technically dont matter What I am wondering is why even bother coming onto this forum. You came because you WANT to hear our vies but when you hear something that's not up to the mark of what you expect it's supposedly called 'criticism'... becasue you guys dont even feature in the metered zones from where trps come..the shows aren't made for TRPs but for viewers to enjoy. However the sae an't be said for this 'youth' show where 19 year olds talk about marriage, hang out of autorickshaws, and save their friends by suddenly gaining lawyer 'gyan'.

but ive enjoyed taking feedback and doing what ever is possible...Yeh..That's exactly why you've wirtten such a rude reply to people who ONCE gave you respect.

but, sorry, now my ego has come in the way..Who said it didn't.

bye- bye...BYEEE! *waves*

enjoy venting your frustrations... becasue rather than discussing the show that is what this forum has beocme today on every topic...The show is discussed. Only the discussions are on how it could be improved. However if these suggestions are not willing to be listened to then we can only be frustrated and nothing else.

just a mode of venting out frustration...Well, you've just joined the club!

Well said.. Vandini!😃 To get respect you need to give respect..👏

Originally posted by: debby

<font color="#0000ff">Some goodbye post that.. oh well, good riddance.<br><br>
After a stage, I stopped taking part in the CJ thread as it was
evidently of no use. There were 2 things one could do: 1) Incessantly
praise a track and the efforts put into the same, even if one did not not
feel whole-heartedly abt it or 2) Speak your mind. Case 1 led to a rosy
situation and a 'positive' image in the forum while Case 2 labelled you a basher. But at the end of the day, both cases failed bitterly. For
clearly, as she herself said, we don't matter. TRPs dont come from
audiences like us.. we are ignorant enough to not realize the beauty of
cardboard dates, locket romances and sleazy kisses.<br><br>I wish MJHT lots of luck and thank the makers for giving to us a lovely
couple like MN.. I am happy with the theory that MN have since long
left the show.. like I said elsewhere, they never returned from
Ahmedabad. <br><br>The makers can suit themselves - blame the audience, blame the character, blame the world. But the show
has to go on... Bring on the sugary sweet dialogues, vibrant costumes,
fairy tale-ish situations... For the audiences who technically or
otherwise matter, bring on all that is too wonderful for us
insignificant people to enjoy. Frankly, I dont care two hoots.<br><br></font>

Originally posted by: kavya.b

@vandini - LOL , ur post made my day... perfect replies

Originally posted by: -Rajveer-

Well said.. Vandini!😃 To get respect you need to give respect..👏