Chidambaram:
The sketch done earlier delve upon the peripheral qualities of C, in truth based what were revealed at the time of writing it.
Sooznilay Chidambaram (SNC) is in a way like Sehwag – they both carry on in their inimitable style regardless of the impact to those who follow them. The analogy ends right there, for the acts of SNC do not earn him any fans – from either camp! Also, unlike the indomitable opener, SNC cares a lot about his image and what the oor will talk. It is in fact this consideration of him that readily lets him shove his daughters in the path of peril.
SNC is the indigent father of at least 5 daughters, 4 of whom have been married away. His daughters live in marital stress, though we must accentuate that in the case of Viji, she foments most issues.
Chidambaram does not wish harm on anyone - even when he is humiliated. He is a chip off the old block, believing in the parochial adage that couples would iron out their problems in the long run through tolerance, indulgence and patience. In the eyes of some, he is an eternal optimist, while in the eyes of others he is in denial, despondent and resigned to fate.
It's debatable if he is a loving parent or just cares about himself. But he is often seen without carrying his grand children, which makes some conclude that he cares about two things only: himself, and his image in the society. He has a high esteem of himself, and cannot tolerate any questions on his character: Regardless of all the 'siruki's that Saro is called, he does not get overly upset and wants her to endure Rajam's arajakam; however when his smile is compared to that of a call-girl, he takes extreme offense and walks out. Note that it was okay with him when his daughters were earlier accused of plotting to beguile Manickam.
In the case of his eldest daughter Dhanam, he turns a blind eye to her abject dominance in dominions where she has no clue and should rightly desist from interference. With Saro, he has no hesitation in ignoring her hardship at the hands of her in-laws, including her husband. She has pleaded with him not to send her back, and using his control over her he has more than once sent her back – without giving her any excuse ("listen to me, I do this for your good" is all that he said).
SNC's loathsome and trite advice to subjugate oneself to the unreasonable spouse was repeatedly evident in the case of Leela. He knew she was subjected to corporal abuses, unfairly suspected to the brink of madness and driven to spiritual attrition, and yet would not let her stand on her own. He in fact plunges to the extremes of debauchery and plots against her plans to move out and lies to her and her house broker. And when challenged about his behavior, appeals to her to reflect on what the Oor will blather and how he will be perceived by the society! And he shows no remorse at her most visible signs of abuse and does not even call her on the phone to ascertain her safety. The only call he made was to establish his anguish at her arraigns and to elicit an apology from her!
SNC is adept at emotional blackmail, ready to graphically portray his intense suffering and is quick to grab his chest to underscore his pain. In most cases, such suffering would come at the cost of peace to his daughters!
Truth be told, the fortitude of Saro and the resilience of Leela are an indirect offshoot of SNC's upbringing. What he lacks by imparting lore, he compensates by appealing to their love. He does defy the template of the current generation of parents who are emancipators of their children, which provides scope for the interesting drama in the serial. His advices seem piffle in our eyes, but within the context of the world he lives in, they are bound by honor and principle.
An interesting point to note of SNC is that in money matters, he is extremely resourceful – on numerous occasions, he has always found a way of coughing up the cash demanded by his rapacious sons-in-law.
The strike rate of SNC and Sehwag again set them apart distinctly. In fact the only strikes that SNC has shown are against Bose. SNC has, however, ducked from several situations (much to the disappointment of his #1 fan). Let's end this profile with his favorite sound: Heh heh heh.