Unrequited love: folly or nobility?

For the love stories I have always been in doubt about the love and the lovers. Most of the one-sided lovers, I see, are poor folks whose feelings are not reciprocated and often end up in tragedy. Be it Snape from HP or Gopal from R2020 they loved the wrong people. Was their love nobility or stupidity? Looking at Ranveer I always felt his love for Ishaani was nobility rather than folly; but since past few episodes it has been proved Ishaani hardly deserves the love and care he has for her, does it make his love folly? Was it really appropriate for him to love her for his entire life like that because she never loved him? Is it too hard to fall out of love for one's sake? What are your thoughts?

I've said this before and repeating it again, that if they introduce a new girl for him, it'll loose the theme: Meri Aashiqui Tum Se Hi. Ranveer's love shall never go to someone else but her. I also feel after realising the depth of his love and wounds she'll love him as much. But so far, I too, have been quite disappointed.

Elvish: First you have to understand what is love? Love is not a problem between friends, relatives but not between 2 youngs The most important part in love between a guy and a gal is what next. If for moment we say Ishani also loves him- then what? what comes in yr mind -try to find the answer

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Elvish: First you have to understand what is love? Love is not a problem between friends, relatives but not between 2 youngs<div></div> The most important part in love between a guy and a gal is what next. If for moment we say Ishani also loves him- then what? what comes in yr mind -try to find the answer

This love has been a mystery to me always. I never understood how a person can go against the entire world for just one person. Why this kind of craze or whatever it is not seen in other kind of love? If you love your parents that's good 'cause they love you. Same goes for the friends, siblings, cousins and relatives who love you and you love them back. At times someone doesn't love you but you do. Why is it that someone who doesn't love you, you love them with all your heart? Each and everything in this universe leads to somewhere it is meant to. I gave an example of Snape. He loved Lily. She didn't. But his love didn't go wasted. What if she had loved him? Every event that unfolded later in the story wouldn't have existed. His love for Lily certainly became one of the biggest reasons for Voldemort's demise but it destroyed him as an individual. Look at Ranveer for a while. His love for Ishaani will get him nowhere. All he'll recieve is pain and loneliness. It will make him a better person perhaps but what then? How can you remain a better person when you're not happy at all? Wouldn't it have been fine had he given up on Ishaani and found his love in someone else? And why is it so hard to not to love the person you once had loved? Why is it one chooses to suffer for someone who'll never notice the pain at all? My question isn't just about Ranveer but all the lovers who loved someone but were rejected.

Originally posted by: Elvish_Hobbit

This love has been a mystery to me always. I never understood how a person can go against to the entire world for just one person. Why this kind of craze or whatever is not seen in other kind of love? If you love your parents that's good 'cause they love you. Same goes for the friends, siblings, cousins and relatives who love you and you love them back. At times someone doesn't love you but you do. Why is it that someone who doesn't love you, you love them with all their heart? Each and everything in this universe leads to somewhere it is meant to. I gave example of Snape. He loved Lily. She didn't. But his love didn't go wasted. What if she had loved him? Every even that unfolded later in the story wouldn't have existed. His love for Lily certainly became one of the biggest reasons for Voldemort's demise but it destroyed him as an individual. Look at Ranveer for a while. His love for Ishaani will get him nowhere. All he'll recieve is pain and loneliness. It will make him a better person perhaps but what then? How can you remain a better person when you're not happy at all? Wouldn't it have been fine had he given up on Ishaani and found his love in someone else? And why is it so hard to not to love the person you once had loved?

Then what? They might have had other problems and rich-poor was one of them. If she had loved him, his sufferings would have been worthwhile. Though I don't think one's sacrifice should roar but when you sacrifice your life for someone or something, it should be worth it. I'm not talking about if the rejecters should love their admirer back, but shouldn't they be good enough to deserve that love? Ishaani, for one, isn't as "good". Lily wasn't either. Snape destroyed himself. Ranveer's doing the same. My original question was if the love of these two men is nobility or stupidity.?

Originally posted by: Elvish_Hobbit

Then what? They might have had other problems and rich-poor was one of them. If she had loved him, his sufferings would have been worthwhile. Though I don't think one's sacrifice should roar but when you sacrifice your life for someone or something, it should be worth it. I'm not talking about if the rejecters should love their admirer back, but shouldn't they be good enough to deserve that love? Ishaani, for one, isn't as "good". Lily wasn't either. Snape destroyed himself. Ranveer's doing the same. My original question was if the love of these two men is nobility or stupidity.?

Is that so? What about Harshad? Would he have accepted Ranveer had Ishaani loved him? I don't know. But the rich poor thing is one of those things I don't find too impactful in this case as neither is Final. Ranveer becomes Rich and Ishaani becomes Poor. Probably I'm missing the point you're making and you're not answering the question I'm asking. The thing is that I don't feel Ishaani should love him back to deserve his love; but she should respect him enough to be deserving. In another thread I told you why the PF don't deserve Ranveer, the same thing is applicable on Ishaani too. She like her family doesn't deserve the love because she failed the test of her friendship. She broke her promises. So did her parents, cousins and everyone. I hope I haven't confused you now as I don't know where I'm going right now.

Originally posted by: Elvish_Hobbit

Is that so? What about Harshad? Would he have accepted Ranveer had Ishaani loved him? I don't know. But the rich poor thing is one of those things I don't find too impactful in this case as neither is Final. Ranveer becomes Rich and Ishaani becomes Poor. Probably I'm missing the point you're making and you're not answering the question I'm asking. The thing is that I don't feel Ishaani should love him back to deserve his love; but she should respect him enough to be deserving. In another thread I told you why the PF don't deserve Ranveer, the same thing is applicable on Ishaani too. She like her family doesn't deserve the love because she failed the test of her friendship. She broke her promises. So did her parents, cousins and everyone. I hope I haven't confused you now as I don't know where I'm going right now.