'I totally hate Ranveer's character'

I don't know if I should share this post or not, but it is so stupid that I couldn't keep myself from posting it here. Without revealing the name of the original poster, here is something she said on Facebook that trolled me.
I totally hate ranveers character. He takes Ishaani's kindness and sympathy in the wrong way. She sees him as a friend/ brother and he gets the wrong idea, because he's got a narrow mentality. That's why being too nice and friendly isn't good ! *coughs* ahem! What do you think of this post? I never knew knowing Ranveer and Ishaani's feelings is really this much hard.

Actually, he/she's right in a way. I find it a tad bit difficult to accept Ranveer's love at times. He and Ishani grew up together, and she probably tied him rakhis in childhood. For me personally, it'd be unthinkable to fall for somebody who I've stayed with in my home all my life. That person would be like a family member, and any 'romantic' thought would be downright incestuous and pukeworthy.

I don't find it hard accept his love. Btw, the Rakhi thing is unbelievable to me as in India they can't show such things, and they haven't so far. They both grew together and became best-friends. In WH the girl initially considers the guy her "brother" but here we don't see any of this. And where has Ranveer taken Ishaani's goodness and kindness in a wrong way? How does Ranveer's love prove he is narrow-minded? They all always claimed Ranveer was their family, but he still was their servant, and this is becoming clear now. They both more seem to be like neighborhood friends rather than family friends. Btw, I never read anywhere your best friend can't be your lover. There was an episode in which Ranveer's mom asked Ishaani to tell Ranveer to marry or something like this, not having seen the episode and reading it from other posters, I came to know that Ishaani felt a bit jealous or sad. It seems to be an evidence of the seed of love she might have had for Ranveer. You may find it hard to fall for someone who has lived with your family all his life, that might not be the case with others as each individual has different experiences, personality and mentality. In fact I find their bond stronger than the most because it is the outcome of a childhood friendship. This relationship is far more stronger than the ones where guys and girls do silly things for their months old "love".

I merely pointed out that in real life, two people who have grown up together would see each other in a sibling-ly manner.

I personally find this "best-friend-turning-lover" thing a bit irritating. Why can't two straight people of the opposite sex have a purely platonic friendship?

Actually, he/she's right in a way. I find it a tad bit difficult to accept Ranveer's love at times. He and Ishani grew up together, and she probably tied him rakhis in childhood. For me personally, it'd be unthinkable to fall for somebody who I've stayed with in my home all my life. That person would be like a family member, and any 'romantic' thought would be downright incestuous and pukeworthy.[/QUOTE]

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

I merely pointed out that in real life, two people who have grown up together would see each other in a sibling-ly manner.

What about those who grew up together and got married? I don't find anything weird in this. It is not necessary for each and every individual to be the same. It is your opinion and I don't agree with it.

I personally find this "best-friend-turning-lover" thing a bit irritating. Why can't two straight people of the opposite sex have a purely platonic friendship?

It's been my question ever since I understood the society. Since we're dealing with a love story, it's going to be what you don't like. I don't find any kind of problem in this either. It's subjective, I suppose.

what ever u all said , i not bother , now ranveer 's mind is more with friendship n loyalty, he do this all because of ishaani's happiness , n harshad, other thing ishaani's family like is family, so i didn't think what he do is wrong, anyway he also realize that , it's one side love, sorry for if i hurting u all , it's only my opinion

Elvish: I haven't seen any couple who really grew up together and got married. Can you cite any examples?

Yep. Singer KK and his wife Jyoti knew each other since they were 10 years old. They're happily married now. And if I haven't seen someone doesn't mean it won't exist. The world is full of strange things.. Fiction comes from reality, not reality comes from fiction.

Still, its an exception and not the rule.