Why get married at 18

Hello everyone, 😊
Well when i heard the theme of this show" Praying for a girl child in their family" I was impressed and happy to see the show promoting that a girl child is also a blessing in every family👏. But as the show progressed and the girl child Chandini become 18 year old, they want to get her married🤢 , instead of sending her to college and being encouraged to become an independent person, standing on her own feet. Lalaji's dailouge saying i want to give her hand in some responsible boy's hand and get relieved of the responsibility😡.

Now, again it has been showing the same old concept of getting daughters of the house married and zimedari se mukt ho jaye....Girls are not just responsibility, they are as equal as a boy who can take care of their parents.
Now, come on ...there is lot more in life than getting married for girls. Just to bring the love angle and romantic scenes ..why bring the "have to get the girl married concept😕".
The character of chandini, laad mein pali badhi....should stand up for herself and confront about her studies with her grandfather. Now, even if she is the darling of the house and receive so much love from everyone doesnt mean sacrifice important things in life......In reverse, she is so close to her family, she should try to explain her willingness...
And even if they show a girl, 18 years of age falling for someone... its infatuation, crush or just physical attraction. A person(boy/girl) need to be atleast 21 to be matured and commited to love which is a life long committment.
The actors playing Chandini and Raj are too young to look ready for marraige..... Instead they should be going to college.
I am not bashing any actor/actress......just wanted to know your views about this issue.
If its just about entertainment... i love watching karan anytime, anyday...what so ever reason😳......

No, i totally agree w/ U..i mean i dont hve anytihng against gettting married @ 18...as i would luv 2...but my mom is against it! :P hehe 😆

Actually I was thinking about this too. I had read in some article that the serial is about the girl child and her rights. So initially I was surprised when they began talking about her marriage when she is just 18 😕.

ya i agree
18 is very tender age to be married off!!!
they were praying for her & now marrying her off as if wo une par ek "boj" hai!!!!!
they should let her study & then lok for a boy!!!!
but hum kya kare!!
its a show!!
fiction!!
anything can happen in tv world!!

its a nice show with a good message.. i am not deriding any actor/actress i am just putting my point of view i display.. i dont think mughda chapekar is competent enough to be the lead for such a show.. she is fine in a sagrs show or any other show but she is not talented enough to be the lead for such a show.. this show has a certain responsiblity and the emotions and sentiments attached to it go deep.. i have seen some episodes and i dont think she was the right choice.. this is my opinion so i would i appreciate it if people dont pounce on me LOL

i agree with u "lime ice"
she is not as good as she was in prc or dv!!!
i hnk wo over acting kar rahi hai!!
sry for this guys but i feel this so im sharing it with u all!!
sry if u all dont like it
otherwise she is very good!!

Originally posted by: bhavi20_s

Hello everyone, 😊<br>Well when i heard the theme of this show" Praying for a girl child in their family" I was impressed and happy to see the show promoting that a girl child is also a blessing in every family👏. But as the show progressed and the girl child Chandini become 18 year old, they want to get her married🤢 , instead of sending her to college and being encouraged to become an independent person, standing on her own feet. Lalaji's dailouge saying i want to give her hand in some responsible boy's hand and get relieved of the responsibility😡. <br><br>Now, again it has been showing the same old concept of getting daughters of the house married and zimedari se mukt ho jaye....Girls are not just responsibility, they are as equal as a boy who can take care of their parents.<br>Now, come on ...there is lot more in life than getting married for girls. Just to bring the love angle and romantic scenes ..why bring the "have to get the girl married concept😕". <br>The character of chandini, laad mein pali badhi....should stand up for herself and confront about her studies with her grandfather. Now, even if she is the darling of the house and receive so much love from everyone doesnt mean sacrifice important things in life......In reverse, she is so close to her family, she should try to explain her willingness...<br>And even if they show a girl, 18 years of age falling for someone... its infatuation, crush or just physical attraction. A person(boy/girl) need to be atleast 21 to be matured and commited to love which is a life long committment. <br>The actors playing Chandini and Raj are too young to look ready for marraige..... Instead they should be going to college. <br>I am not bashing any actor/actress......just wanted to know your views about this issue.<br>If its just about entertainment... i love watching karan anytime, anyday...what so ever reason😳......<br>

the girl marriage in some of the families do happen at the age of 18
but i agree that Chandani should stand up for her rights n she should tell lalaji that she want to study not to get married
may be after what would happen on Monday .. she says lalji about this...

actually wen her 18 bday was celebrated ...tis question was popped on the same day..i was thinkg whtr thy were waitg 4 her 2 turn 18.... 18 doesnt mean ur ready 2 get married or gal bcomes responsible 2 luk aftr herself n inlaws....i was surprised myself watchg it...it does happens in many households...its nothn new... bt popping the marraige issue on tat day made me laugh.... as many of u said i thought she wud b studyg ahead bt lets c wat turns out 4 her!

i completely agree with u...on one side lalaji says ki Chandni ki khushi unke liye imp hai & they dont even bother to ask her ki woh shaadi ke liye ready hai ya nahi??? Her dream is to fulfill her fathers adhure ambitions...she must khulke tell lalaji abt it so hat they would know....

getting married at 18,, in di 21st century? dat too in a city,, com on creatives,, DDLJ mei to aisa nehi tha!!!