What do you think about Sanya

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Do you think she is compltely innocent and not to be accused of whatever happend or happening in Pandey family or with Jagat Narayan or his daughter Abha?? Share your views 😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Sanya is the outsider, who came to the city of Benaras with her husband Aditya. She trusted Aditya to do the needful. But now, what does she expect? That she be accepted as Pandey bahu when the link, her husband, has absconded and been declared dead by his father? Does she want to make up to the Pandey parivaar by giving them an heir? Won't this heir be a reminder to the Pandey of Aditya's deceit?
Sanya doesn't owe anyone anything and she doesn't owe Abha anything.
I blame Aditya for everything.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: ovaltine

Sanya is the outsider, who came to the city of Benaras with her husband Aditya. She trusted Aditya to do the needful. But now, what does she expect? That she be accepted as Pandey bahu when the link, her husband, has absconded and been declared dead by his father? Does she want to make up to the Pandey parivaar by giving them an heir? Won't this heir be a reminder to the Pandey of Aditya's deceit?
Sanya doesn't owe anyone anything and she doesn't owe Abha anything.
I blame Aditya for everything.

Hmmm.. but dont u think Sanya is mature enough and quite intelligent..she was nothing but a doctor that too from US.. i dont think that Aditya would have pushed her into this marriage. She is not some 16th or 17th century illiterate or semi-illiterate woman where they were treated just like a cow, where they were tied with any hook where their parents or husband want them. Sanya could be adamant to have her in-laws during their marriage.. how can she marry without their presence.. and not that she should understand wat a coward Aditya is, when he made her stay in a hotel and she could create a storm to get to her in laws with him.. like she closed the door in Aditya's face at Akhilesh's home..

I know Aditya was a coward selfish and good for nothing but i m sorry to say sanya was not completely cleaned.. she is, if not equally then half of aditya's action to be blamed.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Reena,

Hmmm.. but dont u think Sanya is mature enough and quite intelligent..(she sure is dear😊) she was nothing but a doctor that too from US.. (she was an orphan too I believe😭) i dont think that Aditya would have pushed her into this marriage. (it definately was mutual plus her divorce hadn't come through when she married Aditya because the papers arrived in Benaras after she had wedded Aditya😕) She is not some 16th or 17th century illiterate or semi-illiterate woman where they were treated just like a cow( are women in India still treated like cows? Actually whilst I was breastfeeding I felt like one being a vegetarian too at that😆), where they were tied with any hook where their parents or husband want them. Sanya could be adamant to have her in-laws during their marriage.. how can she marry without their presence.. ( well maybe she got mesmerized by Aditya and her thinking faculties faltered, maybe they went to Las Vegas and got married 😉) and not that she should understand wat a coward Aditya is, when he made her stay in a hotel ( and not to forget, he completely ignored her when he was with Jagat uncle at the hotel 😡) and she could create a storm to get to her in laws with him.. (okay, I get what you are trying to say, an educated independent girl like her could have taken things into her own hands and confronted her in-laws once Aditya started hiding behind her skirt instead of trusting Aditya's Taiji😭) like she closed the door in Aditya's face at Akhilesh's home..(a tad bit too late, I think🤢)

I know Aditya was a coward selfish and good for nothing but i m sorry to say sanya was not completely cleaned.. she is, if not equally then half of aditya's action to be blamed.


The thing is that Sanya shifted her trust from Aditya to Taiji and Banu Pratab. She was unaware of their double personality. But like I said, I get your point of her being an independent, western-educated woman who could have taken matters into her own hands instead of relying on others to do the needful.

But my helper told me another point of view which I must say is novel . She said that once Taiji had told her that Abha was agreeable to the bride exchange etc, i.e Abha knows the truth, Sanya should have gone to meet with Abha on her own to clear the air between them personally. After all, Abha is the chosen Pandey bahu.

Frankly, I don't sympathise with Sanya at all. Why can't Shankar keep her on the outskirts of Benaras instead of within Benaras.

I am confused about this whole thing, I don't know why Shankar and Vrinda are pressing for her acceptance as Pandey bahu. What does this do to the memory of Abha. I fully sympathise with Jagat and I don't believe Sharada when she claims she loves Abha. She loves her own flesh and blood, her grandchild over Abha. This will be shown when she accepts Sanya's child.

Tomorrow , if at the wedding day of Vikram and Vrinda, Vikram marries someone else and Vrinda is in Abha's place. Would the Pandey's accept this?

I am just so confused. I would rather they never showed Abha dead. I think it would be more interesting had they kept Abha alive, don't you think?😊



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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think she is innocent, and shouldnt be punished wat she has not done as a matter of fact! 😛
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think Sania is innocent. She hasn't done any crime. She is not responsible for Abha's death. She thought Abha already knew. But I feel sorry for her. She should be given her rights.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Saniya is a very good hearted person. She unknowingly got caught in a web of mistrust and betrayal (Taiji and Banupratap), miscommunication (with Abha) and realizing too late what a coward her husband Aditya is.

She is completely innocent in what has happened with Abha. Her only mistake was not realizing how weak and cowardly Aditya was. Now if Kashi and Sharada accept her and give her rights as their eldest bahu they will be betraying Jagat and Abha. On the other hand, she is legally married to their son Aditya and is going to give birth to the heir of the Pandey family.

This web is very tangled and Kashi and Sharada are caught between a rock and a hard place when it comes to Saniya.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: ovaltine

Reena,

Hmmm.. but dont u think Sanya is mature enough and quite intelligent..(she sure is dear😊) she was nothing but a doctor that too from US.. (she was an orphan too I believe😭) i dont think that Aditya would have pushed her into this marriage. (it definately was mutual plus her divorce hadn't come through when she married Aditya because the papers arrived in Benaras after she had wedded Aditya😕) She is not some 16th or 17th century illiterate or semi-illiterate woman where they were treated just like a cow( are women in India still treated like cows? Actually whilst I was breastfeeding I felt like one being a vegetarian too at that😆), where they were tied with any hook where their parents or husband want them. Sanya could be adamant to have her in-laws during their marriage.. how can she marry without their presence.. ( well maybe she got mesmerized by Aditya and her thinking faculties faltered, maybe they went to Las Vegas and got married 😉) and not that she should understand wat a coward Aditya is, when he made her stay in a hotel ( and not to forget, he completely ignored her when he was with Jagat uncle at the hotel 😡) and she could create a storm to get to her in laws with him.. (okay, I get what you are trying to say, an educated independent girl like her could have taken things into her own hands and confronted her in-laws once Aditya started hiding behind her skirt instead of trusting Aditya's Taiji😭) like she closed the door in Aditya's face at Akhilesh's home..(a tad bit too late, I think🤢)

I know Aditya was a coward selfish and good for nothing but i m sorry to say sanya was not completely cleaned.. she is, if not equally then half of aditya's action to be blamed.


The thing is that Sanya shifted her trust from Aditya to Taiji and Banu Pratab. She was unaware of their double personality. But like I said, I get your point of her being an independent, western-educated woman who could have taken matters into her own hands instead of relying on others to do the needful.

But my helper told me another point of view which I must say is novel . She said that once Taiji had told her that Abha was agreeable to the bride exchange etc, i.e Abha knows the truth, Sanya should have gone to meet with Abha on her own to clear the air between them personally. After all, Abha is the chosen Pandey bahu.

Frankly, I don't sympathise with Sanya at all. Why can't Shankar keep her on the outskirts of Benaras instead of within Benaras.

I am confused about this whole thing, I don't know why Shankar and Vrinda are pressing for her acceptance as Pandey bahu. What does this do to the memory of Abha. I fully sympathise with Jagat and I don't believe Sharada when she claims she loves Abha. She loves her own flesh and blood, her grandchild over Abha. This will be shown when she accepts Sanya's child.

Tomorrow , if at the wedding day of Vikram and Vrinda, Vikram marries someone else and Vrinda is in Abha's place. Would the Pandey's accept this?

I am just so confused. I would rather they never showed Abha dead. I think it would be more interesting had they kept Abha alive, don't you think?😊



All i wanna say that sanya should use her brain but looks like along with aditya her brain went to bonkers too..

Wat i said about that was of women of 16th / 17th century .. not of today.. today's women in india, very much self dependent ..

i dont understand shankar's sympathy towards Sanya at all... he wants to get justice for her.. but what about abha.. Why dont Shankar thinks from Abha & her father's point of view and as you said wht he would have done.. if it were Vrinda in place of Abha.. would not he have created a storm.. to get justice for his sister..

the one who give weapon in the hands of murderer is as much culprit as one who shot the weapon.. and sanya knowingly.. unknowingly have become companion of a murderer... can sanya be ever over of this guilty feeling...

I think KN's verdict was quite right. He chose legal punishment for aditya. coz literally he was the culprit but being sanya his companion, he chose punishment for her to leave and be alone with that guilty feeling always...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Sanya became a victim of KN and Bhanu and Tayji"s rivalry,she tried to clear matters with Abha but Tayji came in between and twisted the truth.To me she trusted wrong people in order get place in pandey family and evev Aditya did not provide her support........
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Could it be that later on she turns out to be one of Pandey parivaar's old "Dushman" ??

Ya never know.....

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