Originally posted by: Rinki_r4
@anjs Did riya say it was Nimmi's fault after Nimmi told dem d purpose of loan or was it when Nimmi blamed riya for d whole mess??
I guess if khushiya can get away wid her ignorance due to her upbringing den why not Riya?? Riya has been told to hold her head high when she is right n donot get suppressed by her in laws...Riya is acting just to protect her self esteem n I don't find anything wrong in it...I don't see her demeaning her family bcz de r illiterate infact she feels she is a part of dem hence needs to protect dem against evil plans of sarla
I don't think ppl here support her bcz she's d lead..Shivam is also a lead of d show bt I see no support for him here.. I guess v think differently
hey Rinki,
she did say so...after Nimmi cleared everything, and then Ashantiya started her drama n Kushiya was begging her...that time Nimmi went to Riya n told her, this is what you wanted right, to make Kushiya beg infront of all...that is why you did all this, right ? so that time Riya told her, not to act so rude, and its all her (nimmi's) mistake that this drama is happening...
no-one said that Kushiya can get away with anything...when u meet a illiterate person n an educated person, whom would you expect to read n write...but obviously the literate one, right ?
Riya was earlier shown as a smart woman, so its natural for me as a viewer to expect her to be more smarter, but she got played so easily by the evil hag, despite her own dadi bua, warning her against that oldie...
she was told to hold her head high, but one needs to do so, as per the situation, saying sorry just to diffuse a situation, isnt wrong...esp if she is dealing with family members...now u wud say they always say she isnt family...i agree that is totally wrong...but the way she doesnt know them, they are also taking time to warm up to her...
as for holding her head high, humility is also taught from childhood, and one needs to learn that too...pride is good, but not at the wrong place...one needs to be a little humble too, when it comes to family...if you try to be too much proud n egoistic then it wont take long for the family to break, either the husband will have to leave his parent for such wife or take a divorce to stay with his own parents...most of the time, Riya shows her ego not her humility...Shivam also has ego and makes mistakes but at least shows his regret, but not her...take for instance the night when she shifted to his room, they fought, and she forbid him to sleep on his own bed...made him sleep on the floor...her own love n her now husband is sleeping on the floor on their first night together, so what if they fought...but forget asking him to come back to bed, she didnt even show a bit of remorse for that...
i agree bt the protecting from sarla mission, but that is happening now...till now she was totally clueless...playing onto the trick of the evil woman, despite being smart and educated.
bt forum siding with the lead...i meant the female lead...atleast that is what i have noticed across IF, that most fans side with the female lead...no matter what mistakes she do...even if she sacrifices her own husband for the greater world of the society, they applaud her...which i think is highly biased, cause that is wrong...the male lead is sacrificed, n always shown as wrong, just to make the female lead look right...even here the cv's are following the same theme...
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