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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raghav a character i feel is very weird as his sis knows how mean n selfish his mom is so how he had no idea of that 😕 was he in some boarding school that he doesn't know how his mom was wen he was a kid bcoz i don't believe Ammaji as a bahu could have been nice 😆. He loves Khushiya but never ever appreciated the fact that she has done so much for the house n has alone handled their kids n have given them gud values also took care of his mom. Raghav loves his mom can't hear anything against her but expects his son to hear everything against his mom 🤢 Raghav also is a bro who believes in giving to his sister but expects his wife not to take anything from her own brother😕 he has no love for his kids always scolds them but his behaviour towards his niece n nephew is completely different 😕 y he always expects khushiya to make everything fine n not tells his mom to make peace in the house n lastly its due to him khushiya today is wat she is if he would have given her confidence n support i bet today she would have been a confident personality like Riya but due to Raghav's ignorance khushiya life has turnmed more into his, Ammaji 's n Sarla's naukrani who should do wat she has been told n should be the punching bag of his, Amma ji's n Sarla's but should not speak a word 🥱

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Posted: 10 years ago
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your question is very apt but I know someone who's like Raghav knowing everything well he's always fine with whatever his mom and sisters are doing as he's being raised in this situation and environment... but after marriage not suddenly he began to change.. BUT here Raghav is shown old his children are all grown up...Still no change I'll say his character is the same as his mother and sister though a male and this is the reason his voice is heard once upon a time but he has his own rules as his mother, he can't make his family happy.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said dear!! I thought at least in yesterday's epi when kausalya questions him , he will realize or atleast give it a thought...but was very dissapointed with the way he reacted.. Everything is kausalya's responsibility .. He hardly interacts with his kids n a big hypocrite..
He is a very good human , son n brother no doubt in that but husband n father i don't think so.. Hope to see him change
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I thought that they would have shown Raghav shocked with Kushiya's questioning but also would have shown him to be pondering or thinking on her questions. In fact he was like Shanti that he changed her question to be more of an accusation.

To me it showed that he is after all Shanti's son only not evil like her but cruel like her, cruel to his kids and wife.

I liked when Kushiya knowing it was futile still told him why did you twist everything I say, then what is the point of talking with you coz you are going to twist everything anyway

This brings me to another point, Was Kushiya only started questioning him, like Shanti says repeatedly it is due to becoming a mil but Riya has not done any vibes in that house at all so where is the MIL factor coming in.

Kushiya mentioned to Raghav yesterday " where do I have the time to remember anything about money coz I was on one leg trying to manage 2 weddings", sad that Raghav ignored that conveniently. I was more waiting for the answer to that " Malkaen I need to rest or go out or something similar" but he walked off the bed and it was shown that Kushiya was running after him

I am so hoping that Shivam tells Riya everything but knowing that family , they are brain washed by Shanti in not telling others their problems.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapliker

I thought that they would have shown Raghav shocked with Kushiya's questioning but also would have shown him to be pondering or thinking on her questions. In fact he was like Shanti that he changed her question to be more of an accusation.


*this*
I thought when she said that , it would take a total new path. But afsos ! He just turned it all against her.
SMDH
No wonder Kusiyaa has become a docile cow.
U cant blame her 100%
I guess after some point, u just give up. There's no point wasting your energy, drilling sense into ppl like Raghu . It starts to affect your mental health, questioning if you are hallucinating and making things up. So you just nod, die a lil inside... try to flip it away and then put on a happy smile n go with the flow.
I feel terrible for the kids who suffer coz of all this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

your question is very apt but I know someone who's like Raghav knowing everything well he's always fine with whatever his mom and sisters are doing as he's being raised in this situation and environment... but after marriage not suddenly he began to change.. BUT here Raghav is shown old his children are all grown up...Still no change I'll say his character is the same as his mother and sister though a male and this is the reason his voice is heard once upon a time but he has his own rules as his mother, he can't make his family happy.

i think the problem is Raghav doesn't wanna change he is hell bent on proving his decisions r right n no one has the right to challenge his decisions
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapliker

I thought that they would have shown Raghav shocked with Kushiya's questioning but also would have shown him to be pondering or thinking on her questions. In fact he was like Shanti that he changed her question to be more of an accusation.

To me it showed that he is after all Shanti's son only not evil like her but cruel like her, cruel to his kids and wife.

I liked when Kushiya knowing it was futile still told him why did you twist everything I say, then what is the point of talking with you coz you are going to twist everything anyway

This brings me to another point, Was Kushiya only started questioning him, like Shanti says repeatedly it is due to becoming a mil but Riya has not done any vibes in that house at all so where is the MIL factor coming in.

Kushiya mentioned to Raghav yesterday " where do I have the time to remember anything about money coz I was on one leg trying to manage 2 weddings", sad that Raghav ignored that conveniently. I was more waiting for the answer to that " Malkaen I need to rest or go out or something similar" but he walked off the bed and it was shown that Kushiya was running after him

I am so hoping that Shivam tells Riya everything but knowing that family , they are brain washed by Shanti in not telling others their problems.

Raghav was speechless twice, once wen Shivam voiced his opinion n another wen khushiya told him that he also gives money to his sis but he twisted as he is not ready to accept any logic which proves him wrong, I think khushiya is saying back more may be due to she has heard accusations from Amma ji but wen her own husband accused her she felt really bad that for all the years wat she did he still has no trust on her n Raghav is one of those husbands who expects their wife to do every duty properly who should make sure sab khush ho that i.e Amma ji n his sis they don't care neither r interested to know ki biwi kitna kaam karti hai ya who can appreciate their wives for it . i don't think Shivam is gonna tell Riya he is dumb that way 😆 i bet Riya herself will understand as she has seen Khushiya always getting scolding 🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: helen_of_troy

Well said dear!! I thought at least in yesterday's epi when kausalya questions him , he will realize or atleast give it a thought...but was very dissapointed with the way he reacted.. Everything is kausalya's responsibility .. He hardly interacts with his kids n a big hypocrite..

He is a very good human , son n brother no doubt in that but husband n father i don't think so.. Hope to see him change

i don't think he is a gud human as his behaviour towards his wife n kids prove that . He is a gud son n bro thats it. He is a guy who expects his mom should be respected but wen his son does the same he holds his son from his collar he is one of those husband who r never happy chahe biwi jitna bhi kar le unke liye ya unke parivaar ke liye🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't think Raghav was in any boarding school. Shanti couldn't hv afforded such a school.
Raghav has
selective hearing,
selective vision,
convoluted understanding,
and double-standards where thoughts & behavior are concerned!

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