Why was Anupam defending Sarla, as if he knows her from childhood

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Isnt he even a bit worried for Riya n her future...what if Dadi Bua's doubt come true, kinda worry ?

cause actually he hasnt even spoken to the groom...didnt even once suggested his daughter shud meet the boy...and he is so confident that the boy n his family are very very good...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am confused too, I just putting it down too that the father has gone blind in the rishta and the daughter in love😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just because he is clean at heart he assumes everybody is good.
Like he says - if the groom side do anything bad then it is they who would get shamed!

I wish every one thought like that! There are people who humiliate a victim and his thoughts are not anywhere close to that. In our society people blame the victims more than the perpetrator and he isn't one of them. He isn't thinking his daughter's life would go bad if someone betrays and marries her. Probably he isn't bothered abt it or he would have a solution to it if such an issue would happen.

Sarla wants to betray and is planning to victimize Riya and assumes Riya will stay married to Amit if he plans succeed.
It is not shown how Anupam would react if such a situation arises.

His behavior had nothing to do with Riya or love towards her daughter. He by himself is that way.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bee5

Just because he is clean at heart he assumes everybody is good.

Like he says - if the groom side do anything bad then it is they who would get shamed!

I wish every one thought like that! There are people who humiliate a victim and his thoughts are not anywhere close to that. In our society people blame the victims more than the perpetrator and he isn't one of them. He isn't thinking his daughter's life would go bad if someone betrays and marries her. Probably he isn't bothered abt it or he would have a solution to it if such an issue would happen.

Sarla wants to betray and is planning to victimize Riya and assumes Riya will stay married to Amit if he plans succeed.
It is not shown how Anupam would react if such a situation arises.

His behavior had nothing to do with Riya or love towards her daughter. He by himself is that way.



i agree he is like that...but isnt it strange...see, any kind of betrayal is ok...even if someone cheats u of money...but here his darling daughters life is at stake...he is an educated person...m sure he mustve read in newspapers bt how some grooms have cheated the bride's side...but he trust Sarla implicitly...had he knows them longer I wudve understood his trust...but he hardly knows them...have mostly met n talked to Sarla only...not even met her husband properly...have spoken a single word with the groom...but there wasnt even a hint of doubt on his face when Dadi Bua showed her concerns...

this kind off behavior seems strange...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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it was hell irritating..the entire episode was a drag...i am not annoyed with anyone these days as i am with Riya and her dad..he doesn't know the name of the groom, or discussed abt him with his daughter , isnt that funny? they have just one kind of scene in the last 2-3 weeks.."tu chali jayegi" and "main kahin nahi jaaongi " ...

Riyas father hasnt met anybody from the groom's family except his mother..he doesn't know them well enuf , still he is defending them , it's annoying...he didnt suspect when they demanded dowry, when the boy didnt come down for tilak and now he is hiding his face, putting gobar on his name...ny sane person will know there is no such rasm...yes, girl and boy don't meet before marriage but the relatives can see each other or no?


Rani keeps repeating the same thing over and over...dadi bhua has only one dialogue ...ghanti has nothing else to do except teasing Riya...Shivam Ria have been reduced to extras...Only Nimmi and Preeti r enjoyable...n few dialogues frm dadi bua 😆
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it was hell irritating..the entire episode was a drag...i am not annoyed with anyone these days as i am with Riya and her dad..he doesn't know the name of the groom, or discussed abt him with his daughter , isnt that funny? they have just one kind of scene in the last 2-3 weeks.."tu chali jayegi" and "main kahin nahi jaaongi " ...

Riyas father hasnt met anybody from the groom's family except his mother..he doesn't know them well enuf , still he is defending them , it's annoying...he didnt suspect when they demanded dowry, when the boy didnt come down for tilak and now he is hiding his face, putting gobar on his name...ny sane person will know there is no such rasm...yes, girl and boy don't meet before marriage but the relatives can see each other or no?


Rani keeps repeating the same thing over and over...dadi bhua has only one dialogue ...ghanti has nothing else to do except teasing Riya...Shivam Ria have been reduced to extras...Only Nimmi and Preeti r enjoyable...n few dialogues frm dadi bua 😆


exactly, my point...it has a become a drag fest...Sarla running around like a headless chicken is fun to watch, but it cant keep viewers interested day after day...

Anupam hasnt sat down n discussed things with any of the groom's family...i wudve understood his meeting only the mother, if the father wasnt alive...but here the father is alive n very much kicking...but he didnt even once asked Sarla to call her husband for discussing the wedding...

there can be two situations in a wedding ...traditional or modern...if the setup is traditional...then the bride's father discusses things with groom's father mostly...that is men usually discusses things within themselves...the women isnt included in these discussions...

and if the setup is modern...then groom n bride are insisted upon, to meet n discuss their future before deciding...

here they have mixed up everything...the bride's father doesnt mind discussing thing with the bride's mother, n not meeting the groom's father, despite him being alive...at the same time, they are following stupid rituals of girl not meeting the boy...etc etc...

nobody discusses things with each other...riya didnt even once took shivam's name infront of her father...forget now after sarla banned her, but even before...she didnt even once tried talking to shivam bt the marriage...even Anupam never asked her the name...neither he took Amit's name infront of Riya...in times of discussion they conveniently call him as bitwa or dulha ...i mean this is so illogical...

Sarla's this plan doesnt hold any meat...yet they are shown so stupid to see her winning till the last moment...

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