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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi everyone. This is a kind of personal post which i'm writing because I need some inspiration.. I feel the need to talk to people I don't know, if that makes sense.. and because i've seen some members post stuff like this too? Have you ever felt like there is no excitement in your life. I am 21 years old.. and I am doing nothing. It's the summer holidays here in the UK, i'm off from uni.. all my friends are working/in relatioships/ have other friends and i'm here with my latest achievement being having joined the gym!☺️

Trust me, I'm not complaining. I love my life Alhumdulillah. I am super blessed, you know but there comes a time when binge-watching tv shows and eating just doesn't cut it anymore. I don't know what to do.. I just need something excitinf, you know? Does anyone else feel like this? Any ideas.. anything?🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
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dear you are on wrong forum... this forum is most boring and everyone is always complaining how bored they are 😆
you need to figure out on your own what you find most exciting...listening to others version of "excitement" might not cut it out for you... pay attention to your rxn to different things..you will figure out what you find exciting and what you don't.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Think of your passions.. pursue them. You're young, an adult, free, and you have time.. now is the time to pursue them. You have holidays.. find some odd jobs you can do which are related to your passions.

With the kind of options and opportunities we have in this world, there is never a dearth of fun or excitement. It always depends on you.

Meet new people, make new friends, explore different places, travel, seek the purpose of your existence. And also some adventures along the way. Write a book on your experiences. Inspire people like you who do not know what to do with their time.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaanetu

dear you are on wrong forum... this forum is most boring and everyone is always complaining how bored they are 😆

you need to figure out on your own what you find most exciting...listening to others version of "excitement" might not cut it out for you... pay attention to your rxn to different things..you will figure out what you find exciting and what you don't.


Haha thank you for your advice!! I guess your right.. it's just so hard when you don't even know what it is you are looking for?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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U can make a list of the things you like or want to do in your next holidays..
this way you will be doing all those things in your next free time instead of wasting time thinking about what to do hehe..
and yes read or write 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel you. I often have these feelings when I'm sitting at home with nothing to do ( on holiday from school between semesters). Yesterday I was watching Tamasha and was thinking to myself ...damn these actors/actresses have such interesting lives and here I am...eat, sleep, workout, watch TV serials/movies and repeat...
I don't work at the moment and nor am I in a reationship...and I feel like these two things make me feel super super lame...realistically I'm not about to become the next Deepika ( as I would oh so love to 😆) but I hope something interesting happens to me in the near future because I'm sick of living this boring ass life LOL
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JollyJabeen-JB


Haha thank you for your advice!! I guess your right.. it's just so hard when you don't even know what it is you are looking for?


if i could give myself advice when i was 21 i would say follow your curiosity... whatever makes you curious that is clearly a sign of what you are interested in... something must make you curious... follow that and see where it leads...usually that leads to somewhere scary but also very exciting...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bolly*_Crazed

I feel you. I often have these feelings when I'm sitting at home with nothing to do ( on holiday from school between semesters). Yesterday I was watching Tamasha and was thinking to myself ...damn these actors/actresses have such interesting lives and here I am...eat, sleep, workout, watch TV serials/movies and repeat...

I don't work at the moment and nor am I in a reationship...and I feel like these two things make me feel super super lame...realistically I'm not about to become the next Deepika ( as I would oh so love to 😆) but I hope something interesting happens to me in the near future because I'm sick of living this boring ass life LOL


Thank you for this post, LOL.. dw.. it"ll be okay. It's one of the phases where you're just like.. is this it? This is my life and then you hope for that fun, magical adventure they show in movies (YJHD comes to mind!)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaanetu


if i could give myself advice when i was 21 i would say follow your curiosity... whatever makes you curious that is clearly a sign of what you are interested in... something must make you curious... follow that and see where it leads...usually that leads to somewhere scary but also very exciting...


But what if you have no hobbies? Or curiosity over anything? I don't know how to explain
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JollyJabeen-JB


But what if you have no hobbies? Or curiosity over anything? I don't know how to explain


travel
just pack your bags and travel
could be anywhere nearest city , country or places you have never seen in your city.

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