'Sadest Part of my life' : a true story..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The Sadest moment of my life which I can't forget ever :

When I passed my 8th class standard with high percentage of marks,I was over joyed and thrilled with the result I got ….may be it was my over confidence which led to my downfall at 9th standard…

Due to my overconfidence I failed in 4 subjects in inaugular examinations of 9th standard…due to that I was very much depressed after that poor result with the fact that my parents would feel very sad and would be angry with me…

Some how I told my dad that I failed in two subjects and with that he felt really bad and down …I was very much stressed with the fact knowing that I lied my dad and it was my mistake which has created such situations….

At the same time there was a boy(can't mention his name) he used to tease me always for the result I got …we used to go to the same tution….and .we both used to study together in the same batch …my Tution sir who always used to praises that boy infont of me coz he was the genius in his studies …and my tution sir always taunts me infront of all the students due to my bad result as he was too feeling bad ….i was very much stressed at that time …

Now with lots of tension growing in my ming …I due to that I sufferd a Viral Fever due to all this stress and tension and criticising going around against me…. Then I did'nt atteneded my school for 6 days ….

Now all of my classmates and my class teacher did'nt know that I was suffering from a high viral fever ….

That same Boy spread the fake news in the whole class that my dad has taken my Transfer Certificate from this school and has admitted me in 2rs government school …coz my dad got frustrated with me and he does'nt want me to study further coz I am of no use for my parents ….he did that only for his fun ….

After 6 days when I returned back to my school,,,my all friends were shocked to see me and they all were asking the same about my admission in that government school … some how I came to know that boy has spread that fake news nd thus I was very much dis-hearted and sad with the consequences and taunts which I was facing in my class. Still I am hiding from my dad that I have failed in four subects …

Now the day for receiving the progress card came ….my dad came to my school along with me to receive my result ….i still did'nt told him the truth coz I was very much stressed for the consequences which I can face from my parents ….when my dad opened my result …it was signifying that I failed in four subjects with that he was shocked …my dad just signed my result and without telling me or scolding me anything he came back home ….my dad's silence was killing me at that time ….

Suddenly he ringed to my school authorities about the hostel facilities in my school …I was shocked at that moment as I never expected my dad to do same …i never want to go far away from my parents as I really loves them ….my mother was also tensed and was saying to me that she will ask my dad to not to admit me in that hostel …and she promised me that she will not let me go far away from her …it shows my mother's love for me ….and with that I promised my mom that I will work hard from now on and would secure a good marks in 2nd term …my mother showed faith in me and told me to not build such over confidence ever ….i promised my mom the same …..

Now the tension builds up for around 2-3 days at my home and it was'nt decided that I would be sent to hostel …. Some how my mom convinced my dad …and he has decided to give me one more chance …..it took 3 days for my mother to convince my dad …..and in all those 3 days tension was high at it's peak ….

Now my dad met my tuttion sir and he asked him to what to do so that my rsult gets improved ….my tution sir suggested my dad to give me some time for my self study after my school hours …..(earlier it was like that I used to go to various coachings after my school hours and with that I was'nt able to do self study at my home) …..now my tutuion sir decided to change nmy coaching time now that time was shifted from 4:00 am to 5:30 am …..

Now I used to getup early at round about 03:15 am daily …it was really hard for me to get up so early without any sunlight …it was just like a night dark everywhere without any noise except the sounds of dog barking can be heard… sometimes I feels frustrated with my tution sir for waking me too early everyday …but I know this change in me would bring some improvement in my result …and It did bring about a change …

With this change in my life …I passed my 9th standard very easily and from there my result kept on improving uptil now ….i remember once I defeated that boy(who maked fun of me) in 11th standard ….

So Hats off to my dad ,mother and my tution sir for showing faith in me ….who knows if I would have been sent to that hostel ..who knows my life would have been very different from the life which I am enjoying today,if that would have happened then may be I would'nt have been eligible to do B.tech (which I am pursuing).

So that was my very touching aspect of my life …there was hurt,stress and a change in my life…

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carisma2 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ah Bless you. Itna bara gham!
I was a bright student - But extremely naughtee,
I'm glad I was never pressured, But saw many ppl really struggle.
Infact I was excluded from college for a day... I rang my Mom and told her "I've been excluded for a day from college".
And you know what she said 😲... " Is that it? " Lol.
I think she was amazed - such a behoodi only got a one day sentence!
See things will always fall in place at the right time and when they're meant to be.
But things are much different now - it's all abt personal best and competition. So u have to be the best to survive!
Edited by carisma2 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: carisma2

Ah Bless you. Itna bara gham!

I was a bright student - But extremely naughtee,
I'm glad I was never pressured, But saw many ppl really struggle.
Infact I was excluded from college for a day... I rang my Mom and told her "I've been excluded for a day from college".
And you know what she said 😲... " Is that it? " Lol.
I think she was amazed - such a behoodi only got a one day sentence!
See things will always fall in place at the right time and when they're meant to be.
But things are much different now - it's all abt personal best and competition. So u have to be the best to survive!

thanx di bless u 2 ...i was bright too was shatered in btwn of my 9th standard ...now i am 75+ uptil now...
yaa di i was forced ...
hmm u were so lucky but not me 😔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PiE-ChUcKeR_AmI

thanx di bless u 2 ...i was bright too was shatered in btwn of my 9th standard ...now i am 75+ uptil now...
yaa di i was forced ...
hmm u were so lucky but not me 😔

I think they all realised I will only do what I want to do. So it was best to leave me to it. Providing I was a decent gal.. They were cool. But despite messing around - where I can mess around.. the rest of the time I can take life too seriously.
When I was younger I'd throw the mobile phone bill away without opening it. What I don't see won't pinch me attitude se. But later you become more responsible.
But I'd advice What you can do in you in your 50's, if you can do the same in your 20's - then why wait till the 50's?
Edited by carisma2 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: carisma2

I think they all realised I will only do what I want to do. So it was best to leave me to it. Providing I was a decent gal.. They were cool. But despite messing around - where I can mess around.. the rest of the time I can take life too seriously.

When I was younger I'd throw the mobile phone bill away without opening it. What I don't see won't pinch me attitude se. But later you become more responsible.


But I'd advice What you can do in you in your 50's, if you can do the same in your 20's - then why wait till the 50's?

Yaa di ..i was also decent but somehow i was in da hit list of my teachers ..sumtimes i was accused for those reason which i have'nt thought about to do once..,dunno it was my bad luck or what ? But that boy spoiled all my school fun ..u knw that boy has expired some 2 years ago ..i knw he has done lot of wrong with me but still i misses him ...
Well i have no answer to ur question ..may b im nt matured enough to answer the above question...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Aww.. My Ami.. Chill kar
at least ur not so bad at studies.. Im d worst
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: KriYa_life

Aww.. My Ami.. Chill kar
at least ur not so bad at studies.. Im d worst

nobody is worst ramo ...it all depends on one's hardwork ...i have faith on u sweets ..u'll surely rock nd work hard for ur xams ...
but the truth is "if my parents would'nt have
forced me at that time then i would'nt have been in
my current place" ...
Kisi ne sach hi kaha hai ...parents will do certain
bad things with you but at da end it would benefit
da child.. It hurted me when i was in my 9th standard ..but
nw im proud off my parents to what they did with
me earlier ...
Love yaa dad ..Love yaa mom ..Love yaa my tution
teacher who really worked hard with me ...and
now i can proudly say that i will be da man in future only coz of these three peoples nd da
mighty god.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Aww... chill mar yr... ab to kuch ni ho sakta...
just let it be n njoy it..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akshi0019

Aww... chill mar yr... ab to kuch ni ho sakta...
just let it be n njoy it..

hmm akshi 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What happend to u it only makes u stronger Amit. Everythin is gonna be just fine👍🏼

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