This is not related ti rishta but hota hai naa kabhi kabhi ki yrr why I am a boy or why I am a girl...
If I am supposed to a a oposite gender,then I don't have to face those problems that I am facing now.
Right or wrong.
So,Simply close your eyes and stop thinking anything else,and think about yourself and imagine you are going backwards time and somehow you took birth as a oposite gender.
Now from your birth time to present day imagien all the events that happened witu you but with a different perspective like you were a oposite gender person.
Then think how your family, friends and other perosn treated you in this situation and im your life's most important events did you find any difference between ypur current situation and you imaginative situation and also think what's the all type of problems you could've faced if you born as a oposite gender perosn,instead of current gender.
I mean if you are a boy then imagine girl's life and if you are a girl then imagine boy's life.
And after you analyse all the probem and good both yhe thigns with oposite gender .
Then what's your heart says:
Is your heart saying oh god My current life is same difficult as same as my imaginative life,
Then yes the answer is simple we can't say that only a gender's life is difficult..
Both the gender have their own good and problamatic things in life..
All we have to think is understand oposite gender.
What's your thoughts đź’
I just did this and find that my current life is good and right..Whatever god gave us this is true and good.
I imagine that as a girl I have to face perids, pregnancy and lots of tanna of sansar ka socity ka,and early home come,and ask permission for small things..
Like this is gneeral statement but that life could've too hard for me..