need ur suggestions PLZ :(

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this is a peculiar problem, but some of the girls may be aware of it. There are some men who love to spread news about girls (no matter how old the girls are) We live in a private house and there's a so called uncle of my Father's age. He has his own daughter, yet he doesn't stop spreading bad things about the girls in the house. He is such sick minded and has to talk in everything. When we enter the house, when we go out or even when we watch a movie at our own room, he has to learn everything. This is just too much. I want to teach him a lesson AND asking for ur help. Do u have any suggestions?

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Posted: 21 years ago
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I know there are people like that. But u can't expect them to change at this age.

REMEMBER ?? HUM WAHI SOCHTE HAI JAISE HUM KHUD HOTE HAI, AUR DOOSRO KO BHI AISA HI SAMAJTE HAI. 😆

How true naa ?

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Posted: 21 years ago
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i just wanna fix this guy.

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Posted: 21 years ago
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U know, if u're not the only one being clobbered by this man, the general people will know what the man really is. His nature has come out to everyone who knows him. so that way, u need not worry.

i usually don't bother if anyone says something like that but if it gets to me, i let out a cool wave of warning for them, irrespective of who they are.

But if it gets to you, you can confront this person or talk to someone living in the same house, someone older who can teach him a lesson.

Or, if his daughter is as crass as he is, you could spread stuff about her. That ought to give the man a taste of his own medicine.

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Posted: 21 years ago
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du sum thing dat will teach him not 2 mess wit u ppl again...........lol
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Posted: 21 years ago
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right, but what would it be? should i go and charge him face to face? or i should stay calm and do something tricky?
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Posted: 21 years ago
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just ignore him and take it easy..
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Posted: 21 years ago
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guys, why don't u get it............................we are trying to avoid him for years and it's getting worse. Today, he argued with us for no reason. I hate that H********😡 If u don't have some suggetions other than 'let it be' or 'leave it to others', well, then, what can i do? It's my problem and i have to do it. Koi saath ho yaa na ho.

******** edited by minnie for inappropriate language.**********

Edited by Minnie - 21 years ago
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Posted: 21 years ago
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I know someone who's exactly like that. 😆
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Posted: 21 years ago
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Eeeee god,posted such a loong reply,only to be rejected by our overworked server😕

Ok,I'll try once more.Samir_soni,I know exactly how u feel.I have encountered not one,but two such scoundrels and even after such a long time,even thinking of them leaves a bad taste in the mouth.

The best thing here is to take ur parents into confidence who can tell him that they don't like his interference.

Secondly,give him the silent treatment.Don't greet him,don't reply to his questions,pretend that u haven't heard him.Give him a big ignore if he ever comes to ur house.Either don't let him in or else,sit him down and then dissappear and leave him all alone to take swipes at the mosquitoes and flies.Be sure not to put on the mosquito repellant.

U can confide in ur neighbours and especially the females and tell them he spreads bad things about everyone.If u know any example,rattle off.He will have a few less ears to hear his nonsense and few more hostile stares to contend with.

Confide in your neighbours and tell them how he has been pestering u all.U will be surprised how protective people can get about young girls if they seek their help.

If u r friends with his daughter or his wife,tell her u don't want to be friends anymore because he has said very bad things about u and u r hurt.

Best is,confront him and take the help of ur neighbours.I'm sure u r not the only person who feels the same about him.There are bound to be few more.

Try these.Treat it like a campaign.I'm sure something will work out.We are all with u.

Best of luck.

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