Raghav - to forgive or not to forgive? - Page 2

Originally posted by: joliefemme

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Firstly thanks for saying this. I so wanted someone to highlight Raghav's pain in all this. Pallavi's pain is quite visible to everyone toh usko bolne ki zarurat bhi nai hai.

Raghav knows he has made a mistake that is unpardonable (he doesn't know yet it's a trap), he has hated cheaters all his life. I know for a fact that Raghav would never cheat on his wife even during a deal marriage. That's a no go territory for him. That's my blind trust in him.

He was willing to do the unthinkable in the lota episode, I can't even imagine how much more of a penance he'll undertake this time. It's going to be so hard to watch but it will give him solace. He's already dying with guilt and he will inflict self pain along the road of redemption. When she will break, he will break too, what more of a punishment can Raghav have that he caused Pallavi so much pain that it broke her soul.

Pallavi and Raghav love each other more than their own self. We have seen them both almost die for the other. When love is this strong, it is not easy to leave the relationship and go. I've always said that Pallavi is strong enough and can survive without Raghav but he won't. I guess Raghav also believes this and hence his insecurities are more.

Pallavi will be a zinda lash without Raghav. Woh uske har zarre main hai. I go back to their confession episodes to realise how deep their love it. Have we even managed to understand that? When love is so deep, it is beyond all reasoning, it's beyond rationality and it's beyond logical thinking.

She may take time to come to terms with the betrayal and after she sees his true repentance and redemption, will have it in her heart to forgive him. I want her to take her time, make it clear to him how much he broke her and then give him another chance.

I really want Raghav to come clean to her, repent and never ever take her love and trust for granted. No marriage can work without trust and he'll have to work very hard to regain her trust (he had easily gained it the last time but this time he will struggle to get it back).

I agree with you Sonia ki he made mistakes but none of them so grave ki their relationship should break. I'm going on the assumption that he is trapped by Esha and it's almost 99 percent the case.

Raghav has never crossed his line around Pallavi when he was as drunk as he was that night. I don't think he did anything. Esha was the one who crossed her boundaries.

In my heart I believe this instance will make them stronger as a couple.

Just want to ask you...Raghav ka ONS hua ho ya na hua ho yeh sab dikha ke kya show karna chahte yeh ?? I mean end game kya hai..Raghvi???kuch samaj nahi aa raha hai...if he did have that ONS he will be guilty all his life if he didn't have ONS even then he is guilty for hiding ...kisi bhi direction mein jao he will be guilty so kya mila kya iss track se??

Originally posted by: reshanu02

Just want to ask you...Raghav ka ONS hua ho ya na hua ho yeh sab dikha ke kya show karna chahte yeh ?? I mean end game kya hai..Raghvi???kuch samaj nahi aa raha hai...if he did have that ONS he will be guilty all his life if he didn't have ONS even then he is guilty for hiding ...kisi bhi direction mein jao he will be guilty so kya mila kya iss track se??

See, in my opinion, Raghav is making a lot of mistakes, cheating isn't one of them.

He's going to pay heavily for the mistakes he makes. He's going to shatter the woman in whose eyes he can't see a single tear. His guilt will eat him alive but he will repent and redeem himself. He has to grow and improve, he can't keep making the same mistakes expecting Pallavi to forgive him everytime.

As far as what was shown on screen, he was totally sloshed and hallucinated Pallavi. Esha heard him yet closed the distance. If indeed something happened, it was her fault and Raghav was assaulted. He's the victim.

It depends on the makers if they show this as a drunken mistake, a violation of Raghav by Esha or the fact that Esha trapped him and nothing happened.

Way forward will be decided by Pallavi, Raghav will literally have no say, sur jhukake maanna padega.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

See, in my opinion, Raghav is making a lot of mistakes, cheating isn't one of them.

He's going to pay heavily for the mistakes he makes. He's going to shatter the woman in whose eyes he can't see a single tear. His guilt will eat him alive but he will repent and redeem himself. He has to grow and improve, he can't keep making the same mistakes expecting Pallavi to forgive him everytime.

As far as what was shown on screen, he was totally sloshed and hallucinated Pallavi. Esha heard him yet closed the distance. If indeed something happened, it was her fault and Raghav was assaulted. He's the victim.

It depends on the makers if they show this as a drunken mistake, a violation of Raghav by Esha or the fact that Esha trapped him and nothing happened.

Way forward will be decided by Pallavi, Raghav will literally have no say, sur jhukake maanna padega.

1. Hiding abt the night in warangal.

2. Drinking with esha .

3. Bringing Esha home.

Yeh sab.

Aur that poor guy is still guilty of forced Marriage. AUr agar abhi Pallavi use phir maaf kar degi toh kya woh iss guilt se kabhi bhi bahar aa payega.

Originally posted by: reshanu02

when u say mistakes

1. Hiding abt the night in warangal.

2. Drinking with esha .

3. Bringing Esha home.

Yeh sab.

Aur that poor guy is still guilty of forced Marriage. AUr agar abhi Pallavi use phir maaf kar degi toh kya woh iss guilt se kabhi bhi bahar aa payega.

Forced marriage is done and dusted. He gave her a ticket to go to Kolhapur and she chose to stay married. There's no forced marriage guilt left.

Yes those mistakes which you highlighted and also hiding about her me too messages.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Forced marriage is done and dusted. He gave her a ticket to go to Kolhapur and she chose to stay married. There's no forced marriage guilt left.

Yes those mistakes which you highlighted and also hiding about her me too messages.

I hope ki yeh log Raghav ko trap kiya tha Esha ne aise hi dikhaye...yaa kuch hua hi. NAhi hua ho in dono ke beech

Hmm yeah. Right now Pallavi and Raghav need each other so I guess they show them both struggle and Raghav sorts his mistakes and communication gaps

Originally posted by: joliefemme

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Firstly thanks for saying this. I so wanted someone to highlight Raghav's pain in all this. Pallavi's pain is quite visible to everyone toh usko bolne ki zarurat bhi nai hai.

Pallavi has suffered and continues to suffer coz of his poor judgement. He isn't a bad person but he's definitely not the wisest there. I so hope he learns Ren.

Raghav knows he has made a mistake that is unpardonable (he doesn't know yet it's a trap), he has hated cheaters all his life. I know for a fact that Raghav would never cheat on his wife even during a deal marriage. That's a no go territory for him. That's my blind trust in him.

Exactly. And since he ventured in that. Territory or so he thinks... He's gonna immerse himself in the furnace.

He was willing to do the unthinkable in the lota episode, I can't even imagine how much more of a penance he'll undertake this time. It's going to be so hard to watch but it will give him solace. He's already dying with guilt and he will inflict self pain along the road of redemption. When she will break, he will break too, what more of a punishment can Raghav have that he caused Pallavi so much pain that it broke her soul.

It is painful ren. But he got it on himself. It is important that he breaks now. Once he's broken, he can be mended. I so want to see himself work on his redemption.

Pallavi and Raghav love each other more than their own self. We have seen them both almost die for the other. When love is this strong, it is not easy to leave the relationship and go. I've always said that Pallavi is strong enough and can survive without Raghav but he won't. I guess Raghav also believes this and hence his insecurities are more.

Pallavi is stronger, true. But that's the problem with strong people. Since they don't bend or sway. They break. I am worried for her.

Pallavi will be a zinda lash without Raghav. Woh uske har zarre main hai. I go back to their confession episodes to realise how deep their love it. Have we even managed to understand that? When love is so deep, it is beyond all reasoning, it's beyond rationality and it's beyond logical thinking.

Hai na. Since she doesn't express, she's often judged. But she is beautiful. Reminds me when marriage truth n MU came out, how she broke. This time it's gonna be deeper

She may take time to come to terms with the betrayal and after she sees his true repentance and redemption, will have it in her heart to forgive him. I want her to take her time, make it clear to him how much he broke her and then give him another chance.

She's gonna be at a very dark place ren. I hope she's rescued in time.

I really want Raghav to come clean to her, repent and never ever take her love and trust for granted. No marriage can work without trust and he'll have to work very hard to regain her trust (he had easily gained it the last time but this time he will struggle to get it back).

Seriously. He needs to repent. I won't have another way.

I agree with you Sonia ki he made mistakes but none of them so grave ki their relationship should break. I'm going on the assumption that he is trapped by Esha and it's almost 99 percent the case.

You know na ren, we are both holding on that premise so strongly. He should learn but not be made to pay for something he didn't do

Raghav has never crossed his line around Pallavi when he was as drunk as he was that night. I don't think he did anything. Esha was the one who crossed her boundaries.

In my heart I believe this instance will make them stronger as a couple.

Yes. Because somewhere down the line, he had taken her and her presence for granted. He loves her. But love is a sappling that needs to be nurtured. He hadn't learnt that.

Having said it... Now I am just waiting for her to know.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Forced marriage is done and dusted. He gave her a ticket to go to Kolhapur and she chose to stay married. There's no forced marriage guilt left.

Yes those mistakes which you highlighted and also hiding about her me too messages.

Just a question what if he did have that ONS this is we r looking thru Raghavs point of view...him imagining pallavi...but Esha since she was drunk too ...again Raghav thinking Esha doesn't knowing this...then what ??

Originally posted by: fria319

You guys wrote everything I wanted to say & that's exactly how I feel.

I don't want to be redundant.

But this is exactly why I'll never shun Raghav for this and neither will Pallavi.

Him imagining Pallavi broke my heart - for him. I was heartbroken for him.

I want Pallavi to take her time and make him understand the pain he causes her, and I want Raghav to realize what his impulsive decisions and lying does to his wife. That's all. And then, hopefully he can be the partner that she deserves, the partner he was during HYD time, and they can have a much stronger relationship.

How do I shun him Fria, when all he desired was a moment of bliss with the one he desired from the bottom of his heart and soul. One wrong judgment got his concious tainted.

Yes, he needs to repent and not for himself this time but for her. He promised her a partner she would be proud of yet mocked his own building castles with lies. He needs to learn and hopefully he does.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thank you for this wonderful post. You've said everything that I had in mind.

Raghav would indeed prefer to die than have to face her and the way he's been avoiding looking her in the eye since his return only underlines that fact.

This journey isn't meant to be easy, they will have trials of fire because they are so connected to one another, have been since day 1. I'm in for the ride and I agree with those who feel that this track could be a beautiful one if written well.

He's already dying. For him it is a double whammy of pain.

1. The hurt he's inflicted on Pallavi.

2. He's alleged guilty of one deed that he's abhorred from the bottom of his heart.

Today with the alleged deed Raghav has lost a part of his soul too with the fear of oblivion that is sucking him in. But he will have to fight his demons for the sake of pallavi. Because, she is suffering for no fault of hers.