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Posted: 3 years ago
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Ok, so what are your views on someone making a mistake?

So Raghav made a mistake, a big one ofcourse. He drank when he promised he wouldnt. He let his ex get close to him despite feeling a little uncomfortable but not saying anything. Continued drinking and then fully drunk fell asleep. Woke up next to his ex all naked. So rather than the couple separating and divorcing because it's easy to break up but really hard to mend relationships what should he do?

obviously a lot of you will say, depending on what the person did, fair enough. Looking at the current track, what should Raghav do? Let's not go into what he has already done since we cannot change that but how would he redeem himself? First off we already know he will hide it since we have foreseen the track but let's go from when he left the hotel room. What should he have done? He is a flawed character which we have known from before. He has emotional insecurities, an addiction to alcohol and also one thing we forget is that he never backs down from a challenge which is what happened here. He was challenged by his ex who knew his weaknesses and she played on that. Also, alcohol is his weakness. It takes people years to overcome this addiction and it has only been a couple of days for him so you have to understand he has been faced with his ex, and he beat up her husband, he is stuck in the room with her and also got to know she left him to save him. Total emotional roller coaster which would compel him to drink to numb all that and his ex offered it to him. He did refuse at first but one peg is what he agreed to and he drank.

Im not making any excuses for him, trust me but I would like this character to get back into our good books so what can we do to make him get there or rather what should he do? Total hypothetically ofcourse because it won't happen on screen as we know it but in your opinion what should he do?

Also, we all have our tolerance levels and me or you might not accept his behaviour and his lies and his one night stand but we are not Pallavi. Her tolerance level might be different and her hurt level will be different. We cannot say what she would do but we can say what she should do. Its the same in all humans, we all tolerate pain and hurt differently. Some people will never forgive, and some will forgive instantly. All depends on our nature. So having said this, let's think of what Pallavi should do when she comes to know the truth and once again, let's try and keep the couple together. I don't like breaking relationships when they can be mended.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I have a question jab raghav hot me subah uthta hai or pallavi ka phone a raha hota hai then raghav esha ko apne sath dekhkar shock ho jata hai but kya usi time use pata chal jata hai ke kuch wrong hua hai ya pallavi ka phone cut ho jane ke baad jab wo apni shirt dekhta hai to use pata chalta hai I mean shirt dekhne se pehle use kya sirf ye hi lag raha tha ke esha sirf uske paas so gayi thi?

And jab raghav or esha drinking competition kar rahe the tab raghav kaise esha se zyada drunk ho sakta hai I mean dono equally drink kar rahe the to phir raghav ko hosh kyu nahi raha or esha hosh me kaise thi bcs esha ko raghav ke pallavi ko imagine karne ka bhi pata tha uske paas jane ka bhi pata tha jab ke 10 saal se raghav itna drink kar raha hai to sirf itna drink karne se wo esha se zyada unconcious kaise ho sakta hai use to aadat bhi hai or raghav ko ye bhi yaad hai morning me ke usne pallavi ko imagine kiya tha to use ye bhi to ehsaas hona chahiye ke esha pehle uske paas aayi uska face touch kiya phor raghav ne use pallavi samjha then raghav agar khud se naraz hai to use esha se bhi naraz hona chahiye bcs pehle wo uske close aayi thi.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ManishaShah

I have a question jab raghav hot me subah uthta hai or pallavi ka phone a raha hota hai then raghav esha ko apne sath dekhkar shock ho jata hai but kya usi time use pata chal jata hai ke kuch wrong hua hai ya pallavi ka phone cut ho jane ke baad jab wo apni shirt dekhta hai to use pata chalta hai I mean shirt dekhne se pehle use kya sirf ye hi lag raha tha ke esha sirf uske paas so gayi thi? So he wakes up when he hears the phone ring. He looks at the caller and smiles and sits up and as he gets comfortable, he looks over and sees Esha sleeping. He looks at his phone and back again at Esha. He looked shocked. The phone keeps ringing and he then looks down and sees he is shirtless and looks over and sees Esha without clothes. He quickly gets up and reaches for his shirt and pants and doesn’t answer the phone and leaves from there totally shocked and disoriented.

And jab raghav or esha drinking competition kar rahe the tab raghav kaise esha se zyada drunk ho sakta hai I mean dono equally drink kar rahe the to phir raghav ko hosh kyu nahi raha or esha hosh me kaise thi bcs esha ko raghav ke pallavi ko imagine karne ka bhi pata tha uske paas jane ka bhi pata tha jab ke 10 saal se raghav itna drink kar raha hai to sirf itna drink karne se wo esha se zyada unconcious kaise ho sakta hai use to aadat bhi hai or raghav ko ye bhi yaad hai morning me ke usne pallavi ko imagine kiya tha to use ye bhi to ehsaas hona chahiye ke esha pehle uske paas aayi uska face touch kiya phor raghav ne use pallavi samjha then raghav agar khud se naraz hai to use esha se bhi naraz hona chahiye bcs pehle wo uske close aayi thi.

yeah that is a mystery as to why he was more drunk. Also there was just one bottle and Raghav has had usually more than two and then fully drunk so not sure how half a bottle would totally make him drunk. And yes the question is why did he not push her away but he thought she was drunk and saying all this as she has gotten the worse end of the deal ending up with a guy that abused her and beat her and she did that and endured it so she could save Raghav as her dad would have killed him. So if Raghav pushes her away he would feel horrible since he would be pushing almost like hitting and same category as her husband so he didnt want to touch her and push her. He did gently move her hands and tell her to sleep on bed and he would sleep on sofa but she gave him emotional story about how she just wants to talk to him etc like friends and so on. He accepted that as he thought intentions were good plus he told her he only loves Pallavi so he thought all was good. She then tricks him into a drinking game contest and challenges him and ofcourse we know Raghav never backs down from a challenge and i dont think he realized he would be this sloshed with just a half bottle but even then he says esha tum bed pe sojao, me sofa pe sojaunga and he heads over to sofa and falls down. The imagining part is what is in his brain. He might be seeing esha there but his brain is showing him Pallavi. He holds her hand as he thinks its pallavi. When esha reaches over to kiss him he has blacked out. Not conscious anymore. Also when he falls on bed, esha switches off light so he cannot even see clearly who it is and thinks it’s Pallavi
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: farheenbachani

Ok, so what are your views on someone making a mistake?

So Raghav made a mistake, a big one ofcourse. He drank when he promised he wouldnt. He let his ex get close to him despite feeling a little uncomfortable but not saying anything. Continued drinking and then fully drunk fell asleep. Woke up next to his ex all naked. So rather than the couple separating and divorcing because it's easy to break up but really hard to mend relationships what should he do?

obviously a lot of you will say, depending on what the person did, fair enough. Looking at the current track, what should Raghav do? Let's not go into what he has already done since we cannot change that but how would he redeem himself? First off we already know he will hide it since we have foreseen the track but let's go from when he left the hotel room. What should he have done? He is a flawed character which we have known from before. He has emotional insecurities, an addiction to alcohol and also one thing we forget is that he never backs down from a challenge which is what happened here. He was challenged by his ex who knew his weaknesses and she played on that. Also, alcohol is his weakness. It takes people years to overcome this addiction and it has only been a couple of days for him so you have to understand he has been faced with his ex, and he beat up her husband, he is stuck in the room with her and also got to know she left him to save him. Total emotional roller coaster which would compel him to drink to numb all that and his ex offered it to him. He did refuse at first but one peg is what he agreed to and he drank.

Im not making any excuses for him, trust me but I would like this character to get back into our good books so what can we do to make him get there or rather what should he do? Total hypothetically ofcourse because it won't happen on screen as we know it but in your opinion what should he do?

Also, we all have our tolerance levels and me or you might not accept his behaviour and his lies and his one night stand but we are not Pallavi. Her tolerance level might be different and her hurt level will be different. We cannot say what she would do but we can say what she should do. Its the same in all humans, we all tolerate pain and hurt differently. Some people will never forgive, and some will forgive instantly. All depends on our nature. So having said this, let's think of what Pallavi should do when she comes to know the truth and once again, let's try and keep the couple together. I don't like breaking relationships when they can be mended.

Yes Raghav really made a big mistake But he only loves pallavi 😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰 RaghavRao is not Flawless character like any other itv male leads Somewhere we love the flaws of ghamandi Rao . he had the humanity be it a enemy or a friend he always shows humanity to them be it with pallavi when they were enemies.esha took advantage of that character of raghav 1) first he should tell pallavi about the one night stand and face consequences. And stop talking and meeting esha 2) or totally forgot about the incident and fully avoid isha ( which is not possible 🤣) In both the cases he should avoid isha The only mistake raghav made was to got drunk with esha Then also he insisted he will sleep on the sofa He imagined pallavi but that chalak lombdi took advantage of the situation and the khaand happened But still I don't think something happened between Raghav and esha I think it maybe plan of both esha and her ex husband Esha how she reached warangal on the same day i don't think it is a coincidence Her ex husband suddenly appeared out of the blue and kidnapped her infront of raghav 🤨🤨🤨 like seriously

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yeah a avoiding Esha is the way to go but she won’t let him. I think when she went to see him and he refused to accept her even so much to say he imagined it was pallavi then she started this new drama. But they showed she was tied up by ex so not sure if that was planned.

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