Originally posted by: Srijeeta06
I don’t hate the Deshmukh nor I want her to estrange them people she loves
I just need her to draw lines when someone says ‘Mandar is your husband’ , which she does at times as well
All I am saying is this her own battle to fight
Even though she and her husband are a team
But it’s she who has to take the ultimate call because it’s her for whom both are fighting
Yes Mandar has yet not crossed his limits, but calling later night, then coming home early morning just because he couldn’t reach her, I think would make anyone uncomfortable
Fair enough, I get what you're saying.
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this, because I felt like she made her stance quite clear every time anyone claims Mandaar is her husband, respectfully but firmly, without any room for debate. Unfortunately, creeps like Mandaar can't take no for an answer.
It is, of course, her battle to fight, fully agreed, and I have always wanted her front and center here. It would be too uncomfortable to watch two men play tug of war with her as if she's an object. It's actually lovely to watch that while Mandaar is trying to 'claim' her, Raghav is consistently respectful of her wishes. It makes for excellent contrast. She had very much made her choice though, she's not conflicted on that front at all. Mandaar's creepiness can't be pinned on her.
Yeah Mandaar had made me also damn uncomfortable, and Pallavi bhi visibly disturbed hoti hai whenever she's around him. But to cut off a family member completely, especially one recovering from trauma...it's easier said than done, and so far uske paas koi wajah nahi hai. That's why I'm really hoping Raghav tells her about all the crap Mandaar says behind her back, so she can be more on alert.