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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

I would like to respectfully disagree

If anything we’ve literally seen that Raghav rarely voices out his feelings

Yesterday he clearly said that his problem is with those people in the d-family who haven’t accepted their marriage

He’s scared that THEY will take advantage of pallavi’s goodwill

Not that Pallavi will go out and sacrifice herself so she can be “good”

I agree that Raghav is open about his misdeeds but that doesn’t give enough reason for us to think Pallavi isn’t right about wanting to save her family

She didn’t go from being a member of d-fam to this strong Pallavi in one day, in a way it’s raghavs love for her that allowed her to become who she is today

And he’s able to put more perspective to things because of her as well, both have grown

Only thing is Pallavi has acted crazily for d-family before (Amrutha’s abortion) which we found non-sensical so you think she will do it again and swing

Raghav has never cared for d-family and his stance has always been the same with them which is why we see raghav’s emotions being more stable

After marriage he has said everything. What more is needed.

Yes because she keeps claiming a lot but run away. Thats character flaw.

Life is not roses nd unicorn. U choose and u stand by ur decision. U dont utter words and make mockery of it everytime.

Her words have zero credibility. Thats the issue.

Its not about D Fam. Its about his marriage.

In fact when the whole car incident happened she and Raghav hadn’t confessed their love

When she left the dinner to go to d-house, she came home and realized how it sparked raghav’s insecurity

And today she did everything she could to inform Raghav and she even thought he was upset that she was going to d-house but he wasn’t

She isn’t being unfair to him, and she’s made it clear to mandar that she wants Raghav as her husband

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

He has three people in life. One of them he chose. She claimed moon and stars. And his whole relation can be destroyed by entry of a single person. I think he is very much in shock with M back because of P not D Fam.

Yes thats my point. When it was keerti RR was blamed for saving her sister with whom he had history and spent time and being blamed. He tried saving her sister of hit and run and he was clearly told he was wrong when he never claimed he was right in first place. He didnt said he dont know. U cant do everything nd then take holier than thou attitude. Her character swings too much from median. From literally objective Devi to stupid D Fam member. That character itself is ruined in process.

@bold - Mandaar is also her late husband not Ex husband, someone who she always had good memories with, she was his widow for two years, some emotions will ofcourse be there for him in her heart. Still never once did she flatter , Raghav was and is her choice and love. She made her stance clear today too. She is bound to feel emotionally conflicted for sometime about Mandaar’s return. Even Raghav didn’t use his born smart brain to figure out that his sweet sister is ready to throw him in jail for her boyfriend, Pallavi saw inconsistencies in Kirti’s statements and solved it, now Raghav has that advantage of clearly looking at things from unbiased 3rd person POV so he’s catching on Mandaar’s shady behaviour before Pallavi.

Raghav knew Kirti is wrong yet supported her here Pallavi doesn’t know Mandaar’s shady side that audience and now Raghav knows. And Pallavi saying she is not understanding what she is doing is good proof that she’s being anything but holier than thou , she is feeling lot of emotions at once , can’t think clearly and she is being honest about it to her husband, and feeling emotional about this is absolutely natural, her dead ex came to life suddenly and almost everyone there is guilt tripping her or blaming her.

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Sorry but personally I think you’ve got the wrong message from all of those instances

Yes we all wish she denied doing all of this stuff, but she didn’t ask to do it and she didn’t have any reason to deny it (it would have come off as rude)

Pallavi isn’t as straightforward as Raghav, she can’t just refuse something because she doesn’t like it

But she wasn’t trying to be “Devi” or prove a point by doing all of this, she was well aware of how much it hurt her and Raghav and she realized that in today’s episode

Not feeding another grown up person is rude. I don't get that definition. Signaling is wrong to both Madar and Raghav.

This is what being two faced means. U r showing something else. Reality is something else. U dont like but u do. Ppl whitewash it and say its mature. Its plain stupid and ruining things.

See at this point her words have zero meaning so hurt her is out of picture. And thats what I said. Today she behaved like a person. Yesterday she wasnt. Tomorrow nobody knows. That is y said her character is ruined in the show.

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

After marriage he has said everything. What more is needed.

Yes because she keeps claiming a lot but run away. Thats character flaw.

Life is not roses nd unicorn. U choose and u stand by ur decision. U dont utter words and make mockery of it everytime.

Her words have zero credibility. Thats the issue.

Its not about D Fam. Its about his marriage.

She hasn’t run away from anything she’s claimed

She didn’t willingly go find mandar to create this issue they have now

she saw him and she couldn’t believe it and she did the right thing by uniting him to his family

she promised Raghav that she won’t let a third person in between, and she didn’t realize that running off to deshmukh house yesterday would spark so much insecurity in Raghav

But she did now, because they spoke about their feelings and fears

It’s character growth, her character isn’t flawed

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

@bold - Mandaar is also her late husband not Ex husband, someone who she always had good memories with, she was his widow for two years, some emotions will ofcourse be there for him in her heart. Still never once did she flatter , Raghav was and is her choice and love. She made her stance clear today too. She is bound to feel emotionally conflicted for sometime about Mandaar’s return. Even Raghav didn’t use his born smart brain to figure out that his sweet sister is ready to throw him in jail for her boyfriend, Pallavi saw inconsistencies in Kirti’s statements and solved it, now Raghav has that advantage of clearly looking at things from unbiased 3rd person POV so he’s catching on Mandaar’s shady behaviour before Pallavi.

Raghav knew Kirti is wrong yet supported her here Pallavi doesn’t know Mandaar’s shady side that audience and now Raghav knows. And Pallavi saying she is not understanding what she is doing is good proof that she’s being anything but holier than thou , she is feeling lot of emotions at once , can’t think clearly and she is being honest about it to her husband, and feeling emotional about this is absolutely natural, her dead ex came to life suddenly and almost everyone there is guilt tripping her or blaming her.

Yes thank you for this!

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

Raghav truth is most important. I have more responsibilities now. I hv to sit with him because he will jump out of the car if I didnt. I need to feed him because he will die of starvation like he died for past two years. And the best one after all this Scold me as much as u want. Like thank u for giving permission.

she’s being guilt tripped yk. It’s understandable. It’s alright you can’t understand this, maybe you have never felt this way.

and she wasn’t giving him permission! Are you even watching the same show? She knew that he was hurt, he wasn’t talking toh she was telling him to talk to her, even if he’s angry!

I pray that you find peace 🕊

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

Not feeding another grown up person is rude. I don't get that definition. Signaling is wrong to both Madar and Raghav.

This is what being two faced means. U r showing something else. Reality is something else. U dont like but u do. Ppl whitewash it and say its mature. Its plain stupid and ruining things.

See at this point her words have zero meaning so hurt her is out of picture. And thats what I said. Today she behaved like a person. Yesterday she wasnt. Tomorrow nobody knows. That is y said her character is ruined in the show.

It’s not about being rude, she’s conflicted because she’s used to being good and helping people

in no way is she being two faced

She wants to be with Raghav but she hadn’t willing done those things, they weren’t her choice the doctor and d-family made her

but she made her stance clear to mandar today, she didn’t just change in one day and won’t suddenly change tomorrow

You have to see that she is also human and she needed time to process what happened

and how that was affecting her relationship with Raghav

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

@bold - Mandaar is also her late husband not Ex husband, someone who she always had good memories with, she was his widow for two years, some emotions will ofcourse be there for him in her heart. Still never once did she flatter , Raghav was and is her choice and love. She made her stance clear today too. She is bound to feel emotionally conflicted for sometime about Mandaar’s return. Even Raghav didn’t use his born smart brain to figure out that his sweet sister is ready to throw him in jail for her boyfriend, Pallavi saw inconsistencies in Kirti’s statements and solved it, now Raghav has that advantage of clearly looking at things from unbiased 3rd person POV so he’s catching on Mandaar’s shady behaviour before Pallavi.

Raghav knew Kirti is wrong yet supported her here Pallavi doesn’t know Mandaar’s shady side that audience and now Raghav knows. And Pallavi saying she is not understanding what she is doing is good proof that she’s being anything but holier than thou , she is feeling lot of emotions at once , can’t think clearly and she is being honest about it to her husband, and feeling emotional about this is absolutely natural, her dead ex came to life suddenly and almost everyone there is guilt tripping her or blaming her.

Her words means zero. And no one in their right senses will do all those things when told by ppl like Sulo and VD who she very well know about.

See zero tolerance policy I follow for inconsistent writing. And a spade is a spade no matter who serves it.

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

@bold - Mandaar is also her late husband not Ex husband, someone who she always had good memories with, she was his widow for two years, some emotions will ofcourse be there for him in her heart. Still never once did she flatter , Raghav was and is her choice and love. She made her stance clear today too. She is bound to feel emotionally conflicted for sometime about Mandaar’s return. Even Raghav didn’t use his born smart brain to figure out that his sweet sister is ready to throw him in jail for her boyfriend, Pallavi saw inconsistencies in Kirti’s statements and solved it, now Raghav has that advantage of clearly looking at things from unbiased 3rd person POV so he’s catching on Mandaar’s shady behaviour before Pallavi.

Raghav knew Kirti is wrong yet supported her here Pallavi doesn’t know Mandaar’s shady side that audience and now Raghav knows. And Pallavi saying she is not understanding what she is doing is good proof that she’s being anything but holier than thou , she is feeling lot of emotions at once , can’t think clearly and she is being honest about it to her husband, and feeling emotional about this is absolutely natural, her dead ex came to life suddenly and almost everyone there is guilt tripping her or blaming her.

Thank you so much Alia! ❤️

Was feeling a bit lazy to write a lot, I am so glad you summed it up in fewer words