RAGHVI in the storm named BANDAR - Page 2

You Beautifully explained the current scenario with the pov of every characters,👏

I am just adding my thoughts on them.

Amma:- I've not always loved Amma's interference in their relationship, but she did an amazing job by confronting them on their relationship status.

She as a woman is a role for many. She was talking like a mother to both of them. A woman should be like, she is just amazing.

Raghav:- Honestly, intially I thought Raghav was insecure but he proved me completely wrong, he was possessive and was concerned for his wife. He not for a second doubt Pallavi, he clearly knows she will always choose him. The confidence in his lines "Pallavi, Ghar Chalein", clearly showed that he knows she will come with him without any second thought.

Raghav will always trust her.

Pallavi in this journey very well knows her priorities and that's what for me is important for her. She clearly told Raghav is her priority and she will choose him over and over again.

She is such a sweetheart with such a golden heart and that's what this Deshmukh's are using against her from the starting and with addition of mandar on their side, they will try very hard to manipulate her and will try to misuse her kindness against her. But they are forgetting one important thing, she is no more that Pallavi Deshmukh, whom they were exploiting for their benefits, she is now Pallavi Raghav Rao, his name added in her's gives her enormous strength with it, the strength which is more than enough to tackle any kind of challenges coming her way. She will make mistakes, and that's quite natural, nobody is perfect in this world, she is flawed and that's what make her more relatable. But this time she has him on her side to support her whenever she falls.

She is a warrior, she will fight for her happiness this time.

This will be the most difficult at the same time the most beautiful journey for Raghvi. We all know Raghvi is the end game, their relationship will be more beautiful, more stronger and more cemented after this journey.

Thanks for the tag!

Res

Will respond later ! I have a lot of thoughts on this haha.

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Ok so here are my thoughts (it's long LOL):

Amma:

I agree that she'll continue to support P+R and she'll be that guiding force that brings them together when they need to and help them see what they can't see themselves.

I think they'll both individually go to her for advice over time, or at least enough to share their thoughts. Then she'll be able to give them some good marital advice. She's kind of become their therapist lol but if that's the best they can show on ITV, bring it on! I'm a big fan of therapy and marriage counseling, etc., even when a couple seemingly has "no issues" (i.e. they still love each other). So I'm glad Amma is able to serve that role for them.

Today's episode (maharashtrian celebration) it seemed like Amma was a bit shocked that Pallavi ran out so quickly. I also was a bit shocked at how P ran out as quickly and frantically as she did. This is the type of behavior P will need to fix in the future, unless we find out Baba lied to her in order to get her to come quickly. I'm worried if P continues this behavior, Amma will step in and be like "girl, he isn't your husband anymore. you need to pick who is your priority". I will elaborate more on this when I get to P's section of the analysis. But yeah, I agree that although she won't see P as negative or a bad wife/bahu, her patience will wean, especially when she will start to see R be very upset (assuming that P continues this frantic reaction).

Nibbi/Nibba:

Both are just going to add more fuel to the flame. I think they're there to irk R/P and even Amma about this Mandar situation. I don't have much to say about them other than they're already both in cahoots with Ved. I agree that they need to just get engaged/married and be miserable together.

I agree P needs to stop trying to put them in their place / ruin their impending nuptials etc. Like Amma said a while ago, K needs to learn from her own mistakes. P has enough on her plate (though I don't think she realizes this) with trying to build a relationship with her own husband and D fam/ M wanting her back. She doesn't need to solve K's relationship problems. But this is her flaw - she has a superwoman complex. (will go into this later LOL)

Ragvhi as a couple:

I don't know if they'll sail through smoothly but they will eventually sail through lol. Like you said there will be collateral damage. I don't think anyone can get out of this situation unscathed.

In fact, for a series that tries to be realistic, I'd be surprised if R was shown as always understanding. We already know P is going to have a hard time keeping her promise of making R her priority.

What's really happening is that now she has multiple priorities that are in conflict with each other. Before, when she said R was her priority, it was in a situation where D fam (Sanki Buddha) were morally wrong. But now? If that's really Mandar? Unfortunately, they have some pull in this situation (i.e. by declaring R+P marriage as invalid, and its not "good" by society's moral standards that P is staying with someone who is now technically not her husband).

Now, are there legal loopholes for this? Idk. I don't know anything about Hindu marriage laws but I know the topic was floating around the forum. I know R & P will fight this to the core though. P has declared several times that she is R's wife and will always be. She no longer considers M her husband or anything other than her mother's son.

I also agree that whatever happens, they will face it together. Even when they're upset at the others' behavior, in the end, it's them against the world and they've both accepted that.

P will really have to step up and, like you said, soothe R's worries. He has every right to be upset and worried as it is, and P's recent, almost manic, behavior about rushing to M makes it even worse because it sort of validates his worries. I'm glad the latest precap shows that he wants her to know his insecurities and how he feels. I'm so glad that a man of such little words is open with his feelings now.

Raghav:

I don't think Raghav will ever doubt Pallavi either but I think he's worried that her goodness will put her in a situation that will be impossible for her to get out of. This is also the same man that manipulated her into marrying him so he knows how weak Pallavi is when it comes to her family. Her goodness is what led her to marry him. Her need to put her family first is what led her to him in the first place and that's what he's worried about the most.

I also think even if he doesn't doubt her, he will still eventually get more and more upset if this behavior continues. Now that I think about it more, I think he'll be understanding but eventually it will weigh on him and trigger his abandonment insecurities. When that gets triggered, out will come desperate, hyper-emotional Raghav who is impulsive and stubborn about what he wants. That's a good thing though because he's going to have to fight off a lot of people to keep P.

I predict this R will come out when M brings DNA results and it's proven that he is really M. P will be so shocked, and unable to refute it, and M will threaten a lawsuit or some kind of legal action, and to save R, P will leave with M.

Pallavi:

Pallavi lets people walk over her. It's a character flaw, but we've been seeing it since first episode, even with Raghav, so it's not surprising.

I agree she's going to be weak about this because its Aayi & Baba's son. They're going to emotionally blackmail/manipulate her into spending time with Mandar. Especially if Mandar is egging it on (which he will).

As much I like that she will reassure Raghav - she's said similar things before and has already broken those "promises". Granted, in the previous situations she was not in a position to react any differently, so the previous broken "promises" can be excused. This time though, I really need to hear if SB over exaggerated to get her to come or her reaction was over exaggerated/ over compensating.

In the spoiler pic, she's holding up a plate of food and they're sitting at the dining table.. so are they trying to tell me SB called Pallavi bc Mandar refuses to eat? Why would she have to rush out for that? Is Mandar a child? I can't imagine what scenario he would be in that SB "needed" only Pallavi's help. Why does she need to help Mandar with anything? What does she owe him or what can she do for him that his cousins, father, aunt, mother, etc., can't do? This is where they kind of lost me and I get frustrated at the good nature of Pallavi. What, is Mandar going to refuse to eat unless Pallavi is there? What is he, a baby? Why even entertain that? He's been eating just fine for 2+ years now, without Pallavi. Brain damage/memory loss or not, he doesn't need to be catered to like that. I think SB definitely lied to P and made the situation more worse than it really was but I need P to be able to see that. If they don't go that route, and it was something as minor as refusing to eat.. like... girl, bye. She needs to relax about Mandar. You don't walk out on your family (Rao fam, esp her husband) like that even in an ER situation.

She needs to learn how to set boundaries with D fam, even if she feels she's indebted to them. I hope the conversation with Raghav makes these things click in her head. I hope she doesn't just end the convo with "I promise there'll be no 3rd person between us"... that's not good enough... she has to take actions to make sure that doesn't happen. She can't just speak it and expect it to be true.

In this scenario, I imagine it will be Pallavi that hurts Raghav more than the other way around. And this time she'll have to be the one to mend fences.

Like I said earlier, P has this need to be superwoman and it's definitely going to bite her in the butt. I hope she learns something. I think she thrives off of being needed and praised. Acts of service is probably her love language LOL. Its the characteristic that makes her be so kind and helpful, but I predict it is also her flaw which will lead to a lot of problems. Raghav is recognizing this already and Mandar has only been around for like one day.

Originally posted by: sias2

I completely agree with whatever you wrote especially the last part.. I really did not like Pallavi running away like this.. it’s shows D fam is still her priority over Raghav over everyone. When she knows this event was her and him to celebrate their love but she without waiting just left for Mandar.

I guess her doing this will also trigger confidence in Mandar that he will again make such stupid situation to get Pallavi to D fam house.

I really hope the blind trust she has on everyone soon shatters and she comes to know how stupid and illogical she is in doing what she is.

I have a feeling that this gonna cost her, her marriage with RR.

Somehow I am getting this bad feeling about everything. May be a big understanding on its way.

I hope someone puts some sense in her..I hope Kaka or Krishna

@ bold. This s her nature the said flawed nature of pallu. She ll learn from her mistake d hard way always. And i liked it that anna made it clear n pointed it out to her rather than wallowing in self hurt. 👍🥰

@ merun-i

want mandaar to get overconfident n do something like this so can his facade can come out in open in front of pallu. Anna already knows he s not good n is upto something.. Now she can also show him who she s. She s d PALLAVI RAGHAV RAO. no one messes with her. She won't be physically violent to mandaar but ll show him his place in a savage way.

@ pink-

Everything going on currently s at the cost of her marriage. When she sees that mandaar also will not think from her point of view she ll be selfish too. Agar Raghav ko chod k jana hai to me d house bhi nahi jaungi i ll live seperatly till divorce or annulment. 👍🥰 She s bold enough to take that step

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@ green-

They have come to this stage after crossing hell lot of misunderstandings so they trust each other with their lives. A tear from their lovers eyes both ll be out to destroy d world. They r not that type of people who ll wallow in self guilt or pain. They ll show their pain n get healed n also ll heal d other too..

Misunderstanding to hogi sab ko ki they even thought to cross paths with the power couple.

No one messes with Mr n Mrs RAO and gets away with out a lesson.

And i m sure this times lesson will be remembered forever by the d family. 🥰🤩😍🥰🤩😍

Pallu ka naam lene se bhi darenge ye log. Aisa haal hoga inka by d end of this track.

N i ll be happy if the honours r done by pallu herself coz this s her battle for her love and dignity.

But anna ll lend a helping hand whenever needed.

There ll be lot of damage on d sides it s unavoidable.

But they raghvi ll bounce back with more force to reckon with. 😍🤩🥰

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Hi guys. My take on current senario.. i ll tell character wise it s easier that way. 😇 Bear with me few seconds.

AMMA:

Women of moral grounds n high standards.

She will support pallu and Raghav unconditionally, she won't shy away from showing them their mistakes and ll guide them towards right path.

She will not come under influence of nibba nibbi. She knows what they are trying to do.

She will also indirectly tell pallu to draw battle lines, it s not for raghav but for your own self.

She will never impose her decision or ask pallu to choose, she will let her fall n learn from the fall n she ll also hold her when she ll fall..

But her patience will wean gradually and by then things would be fine n some days it ll take for pallu to pacify amma. She will not be typical itv saas..

Nibbi- the less spoken about her the better. She s going to learn d lesson hard way, the way she threatened Raghvi today shows she has something up her sleeve. N sunny s suddenly all calm n composed. Pallu should stop meddling in nibba nibbi matter it ll bite her back in d long run.

I guess nibbi ll not say anything to Raghav but keep inflicting dirt on pallu character in front of amma.

Nibba- he s gone case. In dono ka engagement karado. Aur shanti se inko sikhne do what it s to be in blind n foolish love.

Raghvi- power couple.

They will sail through this smoothly but there will be a lot of collateral damage during d journey.

Some redeemable ans some non-redeemable.

They will stand tall on the front and embrace it however painful it is. Will stand together in this storm.

Anna might be upset or hurt with what happened today but he ll never leave her alone to fight for herself.

He will be there every step of the way. If need be he will shield her from her own shortcomings too.

They have to talk it out n they will when the damage n cracks start to appear. Pallu will sooth all his worries.

RR S not someone who can pretend. So jo bhi hoga it ll be out in open for pallu to see. N she ll take care of it in her own way. PALLAVI RAGHAV RAO STYLE.

Raghav-

he will never doubt pallavi. I can bet on that.

He will be hurt angry stubborn to see reason.

Upset or even clingy or possessive. But he will never mistrust of misunderstand her. That s a given.

Duniya kuch bhi bole raghav pallavi pe ankh band karke bharosa karta hai n karta rahega n it is rightly earned.

He will tell her on face what he feels n ll also understand her reasons to do what she s doing so n his understanding ll open pallu eyes and she ll draw lines. (But behen log ye bahut der baad hoga to tab tak she ll take him for granted. We have to gulp that bitter pill.)

N also now that they have confessed things will be easier for them.

Anna will express his insecurity n jealousy n also his fear of her going back to d fam due to her emotional binding with them.

But pallu will this time stand tall for him.

Anna will also tell her he trusts her but he doesn't trust d fam people as they have always manipulated pallu, they will do it again n again n she ll fall prey for it.

He will be dre to hold her but she has to learn to draw lines.

Me tumhe hurt hote hue nai dekhsakta. Tumhe taqleef me dekh ke mujhe bahut dard hota hai types. N also 1 think s given.

RAGHAV WILL NEVER STOP TRUSTING HER. THAT S A GIVEN.

Pallavi- she IS beautifully flawed.

She ll do what all s needed to make sure she has done her part, but by then lot of damage s inevitable. She ll be hurt the most by the end of this track. Her hurt ll hurt anna too biggest collateral damage s anna getting hurt in this mess..

Tough they ll come out of this storm together they would have lost a lot to the storm.

She will be weak due to aai baba but she will not be emotionally vulnerable to mandar.

mandar for her s just aai baba son, practically no one to her.

Anna's pain due to all this will hurt pallu a lot.

She will try her best to sooth him but it will not work as d fam will keep trying to get mandar n pallavi back together.

Now baba will hold the morcha with aai seconding him.

Khoon khoon hota hai ultimately.

N pallu by the time storm has passed away she would have lost aai baba mandar not due to anyone else but due to her own foolishnes of blindly trusting them.

Everyone will show their true colours very soon.

So ultimately for her aai baba for whom she jeoporodized her marriage n brought mandar to their lives will show her her right place.

That s how she ll learn.

And it will be a growth in her character.

When she ll see this her love for the RAO'S ll raise several notches higher..

She has to learn the hard way too.. but the most hurt person due to her mistakes or negligance ll be anna.

He will not hide it either.

He will let her know she has hurt him.

I didn't like it that she didn't even wait for telling raghav. Left like that.

Could have waited for some time. 5 min would not make mandar die at d fam. She s balantly ignoring raghav n this ll bite her for sure n very soon that will happen..

anna will draw that line very soon.

Tumko d house jana hai tum jao me mana nai karega but tum mujhe inform karke jaogi aur apne sath apna phone hamesha rakhogi.

I don want any discussion on this arthamainda.

Agar tum mera baat nai mana to me tumhare sath ek bodyguard rakhega. I dont trust that lost and found ladka or bina address ka envolope.

To tum mera biwi mrs pallavi-ragahv rao will have a bodyguard in tow if u refuse to agree to my terms and conditions. 😇😇

Do add ur cents..

you have put it so well that I don't have any other words to add to it 👍🏼. The only thing i wanna say is that definitely pallavi will suffer a lot at the end of this bandar track.She will realise that how d family emotionally manipulated and in all this she had inadvertently hurted raos and most raghav.

She will feel tadap for raghav. I don't think there is a word in English vocabulary which could justify the meaning of tadap. It's like your soul is craving for your beloved. Even a single second of ignorance from him will feel like a thousand needles pricking on your skin. The tadap in which you give all your tan man dhan to him.

God forbid if makers introduce raghav ex or new girl at end of this track pallavi will definitely go crazy psycho for her equally pyscho saiyaan raghav 🤣

And at the end can we take a moment to appreciate how well the scenes were put together. The scenes did total poetic justice to raghvi especially when they were adoring each other. And also the scene continued from the last episode so it didn't have any disconnect to the viewers and any editing glitch. The new director is surely a god send wish to us Raghvi lovers

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

you have put it so well that I don't have any other words to add to it 👍🏼. The only thing i wanna say is that definitely pallavi will suffer a lot at the end of this bandar track.She will realise that how d family emotionally manipulated and in all this she had inadvertently hurted raos and most raghav.

She will feel tadap for raghav. I don't think there is a word in English vocabulary which could justify the meaning of tadap. It's like your soul is craving for your beloved. Even a single second of ignorance from him will feel like a thousand needles pricking on your skin. The tadap in which you give all your tan man dhan to him.

God forbid if makers introduce raghav ex or new girl at end of this track pallavi will definitely go crazy psycho for her equally pyscho saiyaan raghav 🤣

And at the end can we take a moment to appreciate how well the scenes were put together. The scenes did total poetic justice to raghvi especially when they were adoring each other. And also the scene continued from the last episode so it didn't have any disconnect to the viewers and any editing glitch. The new director is surely a god send wish to us Raghvi lovers

Thank you for taking time and checking out d post and replying. 😇😇

@ bold sirf pallu hi nahi anna bhi uske sath tadpenge 😒 aur agar anna ko pata chala ki they r played by d family.

Bhagwan bachaye d fam ko anna k prakop se. 🙏🙏

I guess this mandar track s introduced so that pallu can learn d truth of d family. Dekhte hain.

Ex ka angle aa bhi gaya to anna pehle usko bhagayega. 😂🤣

Anna s too much head over heals in love with pallu. He won't let any hurt come to her.

It has to cross him. N this time he s already on d iron guard.

Jab jab apllu anna se chupake kuch karegi tab tab she ll be hurt n she ll learn her lesson very soon.

Wo din ab jyada door nai hai jis tarah ki harkatein mandar kar raha hai.

And pallu s very strong in her stand for mandaar. Wo bas aai baba ka beta hai pallu k liye nothing else. Dost bhi nai hai.

Agar usne aisa waise kuch kiya to pallu anna ko rokegi nai kal ki tarah ulta bolegi. Ye chapter khatm kardo. Me kuch nai bolungi. 😎😎😍

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

you have put it so well that I don't have any other words to add to it 👍🏼. The only thing i wanna say is that definitely pallavi will suffer a lot at the end of this bandar track.She will realise that how d family emotionally manipulated and in all this she had inadvertently hurted raos and most raghav.

She will feel tadap for raghav. I don't think there is a word in English vocabulary which could justify the meaning of tadap. It's like your soul is craving for your beloved. Even a single second of ignorance from him will feel like a thousand needles pricking on your skin. The tadap in which you give all your tan man dhan to him.

God forbid if makers introduce raghav ex or new girl at end of this track pallavi will definitely go crazy psycho for her equally pyscho saiyaan raghav 🤣

And at the end can we take a moment to appreciate how well the scenes were put together. The scenes did total poetic justice to raghvi especially when they were adoring each other. And also the scene continued from the last episode so it didn't have any disconnect to the viewers and any editing glitch. The new director is surely a god send wish to us Raghvi lovers

The new director looks fab. He s as passionate as the leads n knows his stuff right. He s promoting d show on social media handle too..👍👍

Aache din aa rahe hain. 😇😇😍😍😎😎

Firstly, Sorry to respond so late.

I actually wanted to read your post with a very clear mind away from the haze I have been in

You're right about Amma. She's there to support Pallavi when she falls. The only thing I can see happening is that she will not be able to see Raghav get hurt a few more times now & she would try to guide Pallavi in her own way which could help quicken the pace of Pallavi's enlightenment🤓

Sunny, Ved & Keerthi have some big plan with Raja in tow to hurl RaghVi facedown. There's no other way these 2 can be so confident in their unashamedness😳

Both Pallavi & Raghav are gonna be hurt pretty bad emotionally in this phase, the only thing we can wait to see is how this plays out. Who voices their pain & disappointments first & how is it handled by the other. This is what I wrote in the AT too, I think - She's doing the same thing she did in D-Nivas - left without informing where exactly she's going & why?😔

She could have even taken Farhad with her. Koi na, she'll learn immediately how hurt Raghav was from her actions & this'll help her in keeping in mind how Raghav'll feel about whatever steps she takes in the future always👍🏼

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Firstly, Sorry to respond so late.

I actually wanted to read your post with a very clear mind away from the haze I have been in

You're right about Amma. She's there to support Pallavi when she falls. The only thing I can see happening is that she will not be able to see Raghav get hurt a few more times now & she would try to guide Pallavi in her own way which could help quicken the pace of Pallavi's enlightenment🤓

Sunny, Ved & Keerthi have some big plan with Raja in tow to hurl RaghVi facedown. There's no other way these 2 can be so confident in their unashamedness😳

Both Pallavi & Raghav are gonna be hurt pretty bad emotionally in this phase, the only thing we can wait to see is how this plays out. Who voices their pain & disappointments first & how is it handled by the other. This is what I wrote in the AT too, I think - She's doing the same thing she did in D-Nivas - left without informing where exactly she's going & why?😔

She could have even taken Farhad with her. Koi na, she'll learn immediately how hurt Raghav was from her actions & this'll help her in keeping in mind how Raghav'll feel about whatever steps she takes in the future always👍🏼

@ bold-

Yeah agree completely..

I m happy raghav voiced his insecurities immediately rather than giving her chances to hurt herself n him more times than she already has.

His concern s valid. She ll be definitely played by everyone in the D family. She has to tread very carefully.

Honestly her storming out of RR house to see D fam reminds me of all the times she stormed out of D house to go see RR. Not too bothered with it as I know they'll figure it out. RR is much smarter than the Sanki buddha and even more understanding the Pallavi's "mom". I am thinking the precap will have Pallavi finally understand that regardless of where you are, when you leave the people you love so suddenly in the middle of the night- it is a problem.

Originally posted by: radicalleftist

Honestly her storming out of RR house to see D fam reminds me of all the times she stormed out of D house to go see RR. Not too bothered with it as I know they'll figure it out. RR is much smarter than the Sanki buddha and even more understanding the Pallavi's "mom". I am thinking the precap will have Pallavi finally understand that regardless of where you are, when you leave the people you love so suddenly in the middle of the night- it is a problem.

RR voicing it out to her will ring d bell i hope. Tough he said that in insecurity or jealousy or hurt. It s d fact.

If she learns from this it s good. Otherwise she ll learn d lesson hard way.

N it ll be painful for both her as well as anna.

Either ways anna s gonna get a large of collateral damage. 🙄🙄

That's d price of falling in love with her.

N she also has paid d price of falling in love with a flawed man. 🙄🙄

Let's just hope things wont take ugly turn for her in d house. With the way Mandy s acting.