A man's character - Page 2

Originally posted by: meghumonu

What determines a man's character?

There are small small things which are need to be observed which shows a man's character for example
:- How a man treats someone who is lower in status than him, How he treats children, Does he respect women ,Does he gives proper respect to someone who is elder than him ( This applies only if that person deserves respect), He respects his parents ( especially his mother) and if he respects professions of all strata no matter how lower in status the job is.

This small behavior traits are what determines a man's character and I see sunny is lacking quite a few of them with his treatment of people lower in status than him, disrespecting elders especially mother of the girl he is romancing, abusing a woman (which is strict no no) and disrespecting parents ( "sunta to mai apna bap ka bhi nahi aj tak" ). Pallavi rightfully said place a man among people who is lower in status then him and see how he behave with them and their real character will be out. The way sunny behaved with naidu today and disrespected him for being a servant over a simple mistake shows his character how he will treat keerthi if they live together or marry. Like servants he will treat keerthi also someone lower than him and will mentally abuse her and torture her. Pallavi caught onto his real behavior real quick and that is why sunny is wary of her as he understood she is someone who is not gullible like keerthi and cannot be duped. Sunny knows manipulating keerthi will nuetralize raghav default due to his love for his sister but pallavi is a wild card . He do not know her weak points and this girl quickly caught on to his ploy and is trying to expose him for what he really is . That he is a fraud!! Keerthi is really immature and Raghav rightfully called her a nibbi today!!

P.S. :- I really wanted to make a thread for this topic as it is very much a reality for any girls when it comes to choose a boy as a life partner!! Please friends give your opinion about this!!

Agreed to the core..

I have been in a relationship simce 8 years before mariage..and 10 years after marrige .

We were also nibba nibbis🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 just 8th grade students .and ppl make fun of us...

But i got the best partner in my husband..he is my lifline love friend crimepartner every thing ..

Sincerely dear.the things a girl wants in her husband.is

Respext

Love

Care

Affection

Understanding...

My husband usually gets angry easily...but never ever he insulted me infront of any one .no one frm his family can disrepect me.infront of him...this is the best thing one must earn respect...

He usually read my eyes whn ever i got tensed..

The things decision whicj every one oppose..oncluding parents inlaws..he is the one who took stand for me..and motivates me...

I did my post grad (fcps ) post narriage with 2 kids..i am a carrear oriented person and wants to persue my carear and he is the one who is always behind me..any stress he can relief when ever i am in his arms....

No one no one..can ever.understand me as he ..

P.s.:i m. Happily married since 9 years ,32 years old mother of 8 years ,3 year old kids😘

Originally posted by: meghumonu

I never saw him as a potential partner for keerthi!! This is the same guy who in mid road not only invaded keerthi's space but also forcefully kissed her in front of everyone without even her consent!! I will or in this matter no girl will allow this kind of forceful intimate physical behavior without consent !! It do not matter if the guy is boyfriend or husband!!! Consent matters and no means no!!

Of course no means no there’s.no two way about it. But I’m not gonna go into that coz if we do then even raghvi shipping is wrong imo. Raghav too has done some unforgivable stuffs. Anyways, my point is since sunki has this different belief system when it comes to marriage and live-in imo that would’ve made for a good watch but clearly makers will not gonna show it now.

Originally posted by: nuttycleo

Well said on character identification 👏

I applaud CVs for juxtaposing people with similar traits and good looks as positive, negative or grey.

It should be fun on picking out reasons on why few things were forgivable with Raghav and why that ain’t the case with Sunny!🥸

Perhaps knowing backstory helps?🧐

Or it is simply the overflowing love for Anna…? 😍

Forgivable no but Raghav cannot be truly compared with sunny in any scenario!!

See the raghav we know acts as A1 quality jerk in front of everyone so that people fear him and respect him but those who are truly close to him knows him well especially his staff and farhad or harish!! Remember how he helped reddy's son get complete his education and then get a job or invited shri for a drink with him and then gave money to him to buy gifts for his wife knowing shri is late to home due to much work in his home or today when he told farhad to give job to the daughter of his employee who was duped by his would be son in law and the reason so that the girl does not break down after this tragedy!! Also his clash with pallavi started because of how pallavi treated harish and he nearly killed sanki buddha for slapping farhad!! Raghav does not show it openly but he tries his utmost best to help his employees or poor people and respects them!! His behaviour with Shree was observed by Pallavi and how she was impressed by it!! Anna is a multi layered character who cannot be compared with a khajur sunshine (sunny
). 🤣

Originally posted by: Doc

Agreed to the core..

I have been in a relationship simce 8 years before mariage..and 10 years after marrige .

We were also nibba nibbis🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 just 8th grade students .and ppl make fun of us...

But i got the best partner in my husband..he is my lifline love friend crimepartner every thing ..

Sincerely dear.the things a girl wants in her husband.is

Respext

Love

Care

Affection

Understanding...

My husband usually gets angry easily...but never ever he insulted me infront of any one .no one frm his family can disrepect me.infront of him...this is the best thing one must earn respect...

He usually read my eyes whn ever i got tensed..

The things decision whicj every one oppose..oncluding parents inlaws..he is the one who took stand for me..and motivates me...

I did my post grad (fcps ) post narriage with 2 kids..i am a carrear oriented person and wants to persue my carear and he is the one who is always behind me..any stress he can relief when ever i am in his arms....

No one no one..can ever.understand me as he ..

P.s.:i m. Happily married since 9 years ,32 years old mother of 8 years ,3 year old kids😘

Ashirbad do didi ki mujhe bhi aisa koi mile!! Aj kal to koi dhang ka milta hi nahi!! I am tired of boys who are insensitive jerks or mama's boy!!

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Ashirbad do didi ki mujhe bhi aisa koi mile!! Aj kal to koi dhang ka milta hi nahi!! I am tired of boys who are insensitive jerks or mama's boy!!

Originally posted by: SRKian

Of course no means no there’s.no two way about it. But I’m not gonna go into that coz if we do then even raghvi shipping is wrong imo. Raghav too has done some unforgivable stuffs. Anyways, my point is since sunki has this different belief system when it comes to marriage and live-in imo that would’ve made for a good watch but clearly makers will not gonna show it now.

Raghav's kale kartoot is obviously not forgivable especially maligning someone's character and forcing a girl into marriage but we also saw how much he was guilty about it and then to rectify his mistake he was ready to even destroy even his own self respect just so that pallavi can get back her family which she lost due to his lies. A man who can own his mistake bravely and then can go to extreme limit where his own honor can be jeopardized for someone else is truly a man to be desired!! This is my thinking anyway!!

Originally posted by: Doc

heheheh INSHALLAH u will get .dnt worry...😘

Apke muh me dark chocolate pare!! 🤣

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Raghav's kale kartoot is obviously not forgivable especially maligning someone's character and forcing a girl into marriage but we also saw how much he was guilty about it and then to rectify his mistake he was ready to even destroy even his own self respect just so that pallavi can get back her family which she lost due to his lies. A man who can own his mistake bravely and then can go to extreme limit where his own honor can be jeopardized for someone else is truly a man to be desired!! This is my thinking anyway!!

Raghav is the hero he’ll get the redemption track unlike sunny. Plus sunny has been in the show for 2 mth max while raghav since the start...sunny track=Raghav track in the initial epis. In the future sunny too may change his ways or not we don’t know. I honestly don’t think makers gonna give him one. Anyways,all these are besides the point I’m trying to make here 😳

My main concern is Farhad here😆

Originally posted by: SRKian

Raghav is the hero he’ll get the redemption track unlike sunny. Plus sunny has been in the show for 2 mth max while raghav since the start...sunny track=Raghav track in the initial epis. In the future sunny too may change his ways or not we don’t know. I honestly don’t think makers gonna give him one. Anyways,all these are besides the point I’m trying to make here 😳

My main concern is Farhad here😆

The main thing is if a man can own up his mistakes and tries to rectify it or not. And raghav from the start was someone who did everything in dake ki chot pe according to pallu and is fearless and showed very much quality to own up his mistakes!! Whereas sunny never even showed any such inclinations and remember he does not even apologized to amma or pallavi for misbehaving with them!!

Farhad ke sath mai koi accha ladki chahti hu keerthi nibbi nahi!! 🤔

I am too lazy to discuss this topic and write 2-3 paras 🤪🤣🤣

i appreciate your efforts though! well written😳👏🤗