Care and concern are infectious Raghav Anna - Page 9

Originally posted by: inlieu

Love this! You are just spot on with your reading of the situation. They need time to know one another more and to let their colors rub off on each other. Raghav is older and more mature and definitely is a way better judge of character than she is. I must say though, her agility and flexibility, as well as open-mindedness can give her wings and help her find creative solutions. Because Raghav awakened the fighting spirit in her, she is now looking at opportunities proactively, as opposed to waiting for things to happen.

What do you feel Pallavi brings to Raghav's life? I would say innocence, a reminder of sweeter times that he missed because he had to grow up too far, and someone who doesn't necessarily expect him to change his personality - she's used to his attitude and mentality by now (whether she likes it or not is a different story). I mean, at 27 he is super successful as a businessman but also quite cynical and harded by a tough life. The loneliness inside him eats him up, and he even mentions this to his family. Pallavi, on the other hand, has Ayi as a supporter but somewhere she too is lonely. She has had to grow up faster in a short time because she had to take up all these responsibilities, as you said. They both need someone with whom they can just be and share their true selves, free of responsibilities and worldly cares.

Thoughts?

nothing more to add really.. you have said it all.. all the women he has been with, were only after ''the Raghav Rao'' money, power, fame, lifestyle and all the jazz that comes with the name.. and then there's Pallavi who urges him to be careful and not play too much holi as he needs rest to help him recover.. she is the woman he can trust not to cheat..Pallavi aisa kar hi nahi sakti.. about the car registration case.. I think the MMS MU they had, he has subconsciously absolved her of any role in the matter.. itna to wo ise jaan gya hai ki wo aisa kar hi nahi sakti.. Pallavi keeps him grounded and in touch with his own humanity..

BTW why does he keep stressing on ''I am 27''?? does he wanna know her age? Like she will blurt out or something?😆 Ye batao aaj Anna ki sulgegi ki nahi? 🤣 Jealous Raghav is what I wanna watch today😈

Originally posted by: libran90

I have pretty much felt that Raghav and Pallavi need to discover a family in each other rather than the acceptance from other families. Raghav wants his family to accept him as he is, forgive him for his past follies. But his family is busy judging him. I may not know the magnitude of what he did, but from his actions, we do understand that he has suffered no less, infact he suffers every day. Here is where Pallavi steps in. She has accepted him as is - he is arrogant, high-handed egoist, self-made Don. He has a shabby behavior to compliment that as well. But Pallavi does not judge him, she isn't freaked out, she isn't disgusted. She is completely aware and completely okay with that. In short, Pallavi has accepted him as is, just like Raghav wants.

In Pallavi's case, her family wants her to fit into what they frame as - "achcha chaal chalan, sanskaar", and Pallavi because she loves her family, adjusts, clips her wings, and ties herself down. But with Raghav, she just gets to be Pallavi - who is no one's daughter, sister, wife, widow, nothing. Just simple Pallavi. Raghav does not clip her wings, he allows her to fly and be free - "rishta chahe to bandhan ban sakta hai ya to pankh". Raghav is the pankh to Pallavi. Waise bandhan bhi banega, when Raghav falls in love in typical Raghav isshtyle, but that we can discuss some other time.😆

In short, Pallavi accepts Raghav as he is, and Raghav gives Pallavi the freedom she seeks. The expectation they have from their family, they fulfill it through each other. So they have to realize that and discover the "family" or rather "home" in each other. And when they do that, they won't need to seek the approval of anyone else. Family will remain a part of their lives always, but they will also not need them, they will be sufficient for each other.

Very well-written. I especially like the part in bold. Only they can complete one another and mean everything to each other. Gosh! I'm getting excited just thinking about their relationship evolving!

I know Mandaar wanted Pallavi to study further. I'm not sure if she now wants to do it for him or for herself, but I would really like to see her grow professionally too, not just personally. Raghav doesn't seem like the kind who would have any issues with that and would rather be supportive. After all, he did whatever he could to get his sister the best education possible. It just seems like all he'd want is to have her in his life and as long as she is safe and healthy, he won't care about anything else. Besides, he knows that she's the kind of woman to take home to one's mother. Whether he does it or not for himself is a different matter. LOL.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

BTW why does he keep stressing on ''I am 27''?? does he wanna know her age? Like she will blurt out or something?😆 Ye batao aaj Anna ki sulgegi ki nahi? 🤣 Jealous Raghav is what I wanna watch today😈

Is it because he doesn't like misunderstandings in anything to do with him? Or because he wants people to know how successful he is at a young age? LOL

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

nothing more to add really.. you have said it all.. all the women he has been with, were only after ''the Raghav Rao'' money, power, fame, lifestyle and all the jazz that comes with the name.. and then there's Pallavi who urges him to be careful and not play too much holi as he needs rest to help him recover.. she is the woman he can trust not to cheat..Pallavi aisa kar hi nahi sakti.. about the car registration case.. I think the MMS MU they had, he has subconsciously absolved her of any role in the matter.. itna to wo ise jaan gya hai ki wo aisa kar hi nahi sakti.. Pallavi keeps him grounded and in touch with his own humanity..

@bold - I so love this sentence!!! She is the ground he wants to remain connected to and he is the sky that she aspires to fly in.

Originally posted by: libran90

More than us being used to her liveliness, its Raghav who will want that liveliness back in his life. But the good thing will be Raghav will know, ke har koi grumpy banke problems se deal nahi karta. And Pallavi will understand why he is so grumpy and rude.

Lets see. Retreating into a shell does not mean lose vitality. She may just cut off the connection with Raghav, due to Vijay Deshmukh, and he will be bothered, irked, irritated, and much more than that.😆

You know, a man battling their to-be or current father-in-law and seeking his approval is an age-old challenge. Here he is going up against his to-be-wife's father-in-law. So complicated! Not that Raghav isn't used to handling complex situation. He's smart and can be cunning when he needs to be. But that doesn't work as well in one's personal life as it does in one's professional life.

He knows that at one point he can't bulldoze over them and I feel as if Pallavi wouldn't marry him without their approval. Can he accept them as family as well or will they always be add-ons in their marriage? That's what the promo asked and for sure it will be explored later.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Is it because he doesn't like misunderstandings in anything to do with him? Or because he wants people to know how successful he is at a young age? LOL

God knows 😆 yesterday it seemed like wanted her to know that he is a grown up man and the other day it was more like Im not a buddha if that's what you'r thinking ok ?? Sari ka dukaan?🤣 like we all deduced, he is complicated unlike Pallavi who tells things as they are but in a nice way

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

BTW why does he keep stressing on ''I am 27''?? does he wanna know her age? Like she will blurt out or something?😆 Ye batao aaj Anna ki sulgegi ki nahi? 🤣 Jealous Raghav is what I wanna watch today😈

Not very sure my dear. He seems to have softened up since the accident. But don't know agar uski sulgegi ya nahi. Honi to chahiye, par pata nahi kitni hogi. Raghav Anna ka pata nahi chalta na.😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Very well-written. I especially like the part in bold. Only they can complete one another and mean everything to each other. Gosh! I'm getting excited just thinking about their relationship evolving!

I know Mandaar wanted Pallavi to study further. I'm not sure if she now wants to do it for him or for herself, but I would really like to see her grow professionally too, not just personally. Raghav doesn't seem like the kind who would have any issues with that and would rather be supportive. After all, he did whatever he could to get his sister the best education possible. It just seems like all he'd want is to have her in his life and as long as she is safe and healthy, he won't care about anything else. Besides, he knows that she's the kind of woman to take home to one's mother. Whether he does it or not for himself is a different matter. LOL.

Woh to dekhna padega. I am sure Raghav will be the pankh and pinjra at the same time for Pallavi. He will give her the wings to fly and achieve her dreams, but also be the pinjra to keep her all to himself.😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know, a man battling their to-be or current father-in-law and seeking his approval is an age-old challenge. Here he is going up against his to-be-wife's father-in-law. So complicated! Not that Raghav isn't used to handling complex situation. He's smart and can be cunning when he needs to be. But that doesn't work as well in one's personal life as it does in one's professional life.

He knows that at one point he can't bulldoze over them and I feel as if Pallavi wouldn't marry him without their approval. Can he accept them as family as well or will they always be add-ons in their marriage? That's what the promo asked and for sure it will be explored later.

It will be like Kuch rang Raghav Anna ke aise bhi.😆Kya kya karega, sirf ussi ko pata hai.😆