Care and concern are infectious Raghav Anna - Page 5

Originally posted by: inlieu

But is that such a bad thing, though? He's attractive and she's attracted! 😃

I also realized one thing today. Her entire life revolves around her family and their issues + the shop. She doesn't really have a friend or someone in her age group to share things with. Maansi and Krishna don't count. Raghav is a breath of fresh air for her as well.

Sometimes you can be attracted to someone even though your brain tells you it's the wrong person. Logic nahin hota hai kabhi kabhi. I think when she does get it, she will have to process all these feelings because I don't think she's experienced that kind of love before and this will be all sorts of firsts for her.

They are not friends (yet) but he's the closest thing to being one if ever such a thing were to happen.

I am not saying its a bad thing, becoz ultimately tht is bound to happen.

What baffles me is the time space and circumstances....IMO way too quick

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Sometimes I wonder how come Pallavi is acting out of character....by falling for Raghav 1st or being infatuated or whatever it may be

And the reason for my doubt is:

1) first she is a widow and mostly more reserved when it comes to another guy coming into their personal space. Here Pallavi is at Raghavs house at the drop of a head, being too close to him etc

2) knowing tht her baba has a big issue with Raghav

3) Raghav till now hasnt done anything nice or mindblowing for Pallavi that she feels so deeply for him suddenly. Instead he has been nothing but horrible to her except for a few instances.

Is this enough to make her fall already that she is sooo concerned abt him, daydreaming already abt him ??

No means to offend anyone, but frankly I find Pallavi's reactions very strange....

If she keeps going like this Raghav wont need to do much of convincing anymore

In fact, it is the opposite dear. She is the most normal human FL acting just like a young woman should act😆. I mean ye mahanta ki murat type ki FL hi abnormal hoti hai Esha. Like they are all born nuns. Thankfully, Pallavi isn't one.

She is very much attracted to Raghav, but too naive to register it as a feeling. In fact, I am kind of enjoying this FL falling for ML first, you know.

In my opinion, Pallavi is a simple-minded uncomplicated woman, who wears her feelings in her body language and isn't ambiguous about it. Raghav is an obstinate complicated man with a past that creates a barrier between him and other women. Pallavi is grown comfortable to him and Raghav is slowly developing that comfort. Pallavi conveys whatever she feels about Raghav and his behaviour and Raghav finds it difficult to even express gratitude when Pallavi saves his life. Pallavi is comfortable with his profession, his line of work because what matters to her is the person. Raghav is beginning to understand what Pallavi is really like and register her presence in his life.

Now here is where the problem begins. Pallavi is so simple and naive and open, one she retrospects, she will understand, she likes Raghav, not love, yet. And once she registers that Pallavi's bubble will burst when Baba shows his disapproval of Raghav as her boss or when she is reminded yet again of being a widow. She will fall in love quickly and she will quickly retract because nothing is more important than family for her. Here is where Raghav is bound to step in.

Remember the Pallu scene in the fake bomb episode. Pallavi steps in to wipe his sweat rather comfortably and is being all cheeky with him. Then she withdraws, and Raghav takes over and starts invading the space and Pallavi is unnerved and she runs away.

Raghav is a tough nut with a complex mind. He registers everything but expresses nothing. And if he does, it is rough and aggressive. So, whenever he will see Pallavi is withdrawing from his space, that is when he will go beserk. Unlike Pallavi who is a novice in love, Raghav isn't a novice. Once he falls in love, it will be so hard that Pallavi will be trapped. He will not let her go.

Pallavi's naivete that she is walking into space without realizing what she is triggering. Raghav had warned her. She did not pay heed. He asked her to walk away. She did not. By the time she decides to just do that, it will be too late. It could be a simple liking or attraction for her which she needs to overcome, instead, she will have to deal with Raghav's overwhelming all-consuming love which is more difficult to deal with.

Originally posted by: inlieu

After today's episode I'm wondering the same. Perhaps when she realizes that, she will want to step back and start wearing white to remind herself that she's a widow and shouldn't look at another man.

Yeah, she will want to become a nun😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

But is that such a bad thing, though? He's attractive and she's attracted! 😃

I also realized one thing today. Her entire life revolves around her family and their issues + the shop. She doesn't really have a friend or someone in her age group to share things with. Maansi and Krishna don't count. Raghav is a breath of fresh air for her as well.

Sometimes you can be attracted to someone even though your brain tells you it's the wrong person. Logic nahin hota hai kabhi kabhi. I think when she does get it, she will have to process all these feelings because I don't think she's experienced that kind of love before and this will be all sorts of firsts for her.

They are not friends (yet) but he's the closest thing to being one if ever such a thing were to happen.

I find it pretty normal for a young woman like her to be attracted. I mean she is MKM, but she is also a normal woman, and Raghav is someone who has broken the monotony of her mundane life and she is enjoying it to the fullest.😆

But the girl is going to retrace her steps pretty soon enough cause Raghav means bad news for her family and nothing above family for her. But tab Raghav nahi maanega na.😆

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

this is it all... raghav unknowingly becomes her personal space bcz this experience is totally new for her in her dark life colours have started sparkling n that baby girl is flowing in just not completely aware of it... ultimately raghav will be best thing her life will do with. she is so pure with her raw emotions after all she is also a human n have feeling dreams of being young girl but this widow life snatched her right to be happy smile n love her life still she is struggling and making her surroundings happy but what about her own happiness only raghu is the person in front of him she is completely pallavi only pallavi who can do whatever she wants and no one can stop her.. so her attraction towards him 👍🏼👍🏼 well screened

It's her purity that will draw Raghav in, and then Pallavi can fight destiny as much as she wants, but she will have to accept Raghav.

Frankly I dont trust Sikand saab at all....he is Ekta Kapoor school, so anything is possible. Maybe all the predictions we made or make will go out of the window 😆

Ekta Kapoor school cannot be trusted. This is why I'll watch until it becomes illogical and headache inducing and then run as fast as possible 🤣

Originally posted by: Shabia1

Frankly I find her actions more normal than any female character in the particular scenerio as hers. She was very young when she got widowed. And her monologues show that mandhar was someone she admired and respected but not loved. She has no one by her side who can bring out the real her. Her inner carefree child. Raghav does exactly that. So she likes it and unconsciously she has become very comfortable around him.

In my opinion she is more human and likeable than the usual mahanta ki murat unrealistic FL we have been introduced to so far. And since we have been conditioned to certain type of FL hence we find pallavi strange. But see she doesn't know yet. She has not consciously tried to analyze her own behavior yet. So she may fall first but won't accept or give into her feelings.

Exactly, word to word agreed.

Bro, even if she consciously analyses she may brush it off as liking or attraction and overcome it as she knows it's a dead end. But little does she know that "ant hi aarambh hai". Raghav to nahi chodega behen.😆

Originally posted by: eshasrk

I am not saying its a bad thing, becoz ultimately tht is bound to happen.

What baffles me is the time space and circumstances....IMO way too quick

It isn't too quick. Cause it is slow. It's just that we find it odd, cause Pallavi expresses her feelings rather easily unlike Raghav. And Raghav expresses his feeling only when he feels she is withdrawing from him. If you ask me, Raghav's love would be more deep, dangerous, and overwhelming, unlike Pallavi's simple uncomplicated liking or attraction. Raghav will latch onto her purity and she will find it hard to get rid of him.

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Frankly I dont trust Sikand saab at all....he is Ekta Kapoor school, so anything is possible. Maybe all the predictions we made or make will go out of the window 😆

Ekta Kapoor school cannot be trusted. This is why I'll watch until it becomes illogical and headache inducing and then run as fast as possible 🤣

Exactly, join the club bro!😆

Originally posted by: libran90

In fact, it is the opposite dear. She is the most normal human FL acting just like a young woman should act😆. I mean ye mahanta ki murat type ki FL hi abnormal hoti hai Esha. Like they are all born nuns. Thankfully, Pallavi isn't one.

She is very much attracted to Raghav, but too naive to register it as a feeling. In fact, I am kind of enjoying this FL falling for ML first, you know.

In my opinion, Pallavi is a simple-minded uncomplicated woman, who wears her feelings in her body language and isn't ambiguous about it. Raghav is an obstinate complicated man with a past that creates a barrier between him and other women. Pallavi is grown comfortable to him and Raghav is slowly developing that comfort. Pallavi conveys whatever she feels about Raghav and his behaviour and Raghav finds it difficult to even express gratitude when Pallavi saves his life. Pallavi is comfortable with his profession, his line of work because what matters to her is the person. Raghav is beginning to understand what Pallavi is really like and register her presence in his life.

Now here is where the problem begins. Pallavi is so simple and naive and open, one she retrospects, she will understand, she likes Raghav, not love, yet. And once she registers that Pallavi's bubble will burst when Baba shows his disapproval of Raghav as her boss or when she is reminded yet again of being a widow. She will fall in love quickly and she will quickly retract because nothing is more important than family for her. Here is where Raghav is bound to step in.

Remember the Pallu scene in the fake bomb episode. Pallavi steps in to wipe his sweat rather comfortably and is being all cheeky with him. Then she withdraws, and Raghav takes over and starts invading the space and Pallavi is unnerved and she runs away.

Raghav is a tough nut with a complex mind. He registers everything but expresses nothing. And if he does, it is rough and aggressive. So, whenever he will see Pallavi is withdrawing from his space, that is when he will go beserk. Unlike Pallavi who is a novice in love, Raghav isn't a novice. Once he falls in love, it will be so hard that Pallavi will be trapped. He will not let her go.

Pallavi's naivete that she is walking into space without realizing what she is triggering. Raghav had warned her. She did not pay heed. He asked her to walk away. She did not. By the time she decides to just do that, it will be too late. It could be a simple liking or attraction for her which she needs to overcome, instead, she will have to deal with Raghav's overwhelming all-consuming love which is more difficult to deal with.

Very well put. I just want to see that pyaar mein paagal Raghav...