As father as son ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: anonymous4444

Men are really emotional they can't control their emotions once it is aroused be it any kind of feeling love, anger or hatred. What if ADITYA had stopped her, she should have said it's really important and she has to talk. I am sure ADITYA wouldn't have forced himself on her.

Originally posted by: fizzywizzy

First of all i would like to say it would be wrong to say aditya is like his father!
I agree. And this what Priya is afraid of, she doesnt want him to be like his dad. There have been many instances when Aditya has proved he is not like his dad. Just recently, when RD even said she sometimes wonders if he really is Brahmas son (its got me wondering too)

This Priya and Aditya situation is very delicate and us as the audience and im sure the majority of us are women so we probably sympathise with Priya more as we know what she has been through and is going through even now..however it is important for us to look at this situation from both of their point of views.

We know why Priya is unable to give Aditya explanations for her behaviour time and time again and we have seen him get upset with her however eventually forgiving her...we sympathise with her because we know why she is unable to tell him the truth

Aditya on the other hand has loved Priya unconditionally..however as he has previously said in an episode that he has not even once seen her happy since she entered his house.. Yeah hes said that, but then he should start thinking back to before they were married and she was very happy with him. It was only after they got married, he brought her home and she fainted then she ran away. Hes seen her scared a few times. He should also realise that when they're both away from home how comfortable and happy she is. The problem is within the home. ... if we think from his point of view he doesn't know the truth...and seeing Priya depressed time and time again..it isnt easy for him u can see he is pain..and upon asking again and again and her just replying that nothing is wrong he feels that she does not trust him..he must ask himself repeatedly why she wont tell him he doesnt understand because he is unaware of the truth.
And when he does find out the truth he'll be the one feeling guilty for how he behaved with her.

with regards to them sleeping together and of what i understand from that episode..being a girl i understand why Priya is hurt and yes maybe Aditya should have talked to her first but however everyone is blaming him for seducing her.. I dont think anyones said Aditya seduced her, in fact its the other way around. And IMO even Priya didnt set out to seduce him. She found him staring at her when she was getting ready then at the party too. we saw that he had been trying to stay away from her the whole day but in the end he could no longer stay away..and their talk the next day was so sad when i heard what Priya said i felt so sorry for her however also somewhat understood where Aditya was coming from..keeping in mind that there have been numerous times when Aditya has let go of a situation when he knows Priya is keeping something from him but now hes not backing down..being husband and wife and considering he always tells her the truth he does not understand y she can not do the same and finally he has decided that he will not let go of off this matter until she opens up to him.. Yeah, but by ignoring her is it going to help. He could goad her into telling him. And if he must, which hes doing now anyway, just put a pause on their physical relationship until she opens up. and i have seen that people have been calling Aditya a baby saying hes just angry becoz Priya didnt go to the coffee shop to see him but thats not what its all about i mean come on in the morning she said to him she wanted them to live separately then she phoned him as well saying she had to tell him something and obviously he could tell she was worried about something then all of a sudden she doesn't show up? he knows theres something going on in her head hes seen her in world of her own a few times and when he asks her she say its nothing, so he does know there is something bothering her... he just wants her to talk to him and share her problems with him and the fact that she does not do that frustrates him becoz he does not know whats going on and he can see that she is in pain but he can not help her

and poor Priya can not even say anything due to Aditya stupid dad

and we know Aditya is only angry with her because he loves her alot he just wants her to be able to share her thoughts and feelings with him

it is important for Aditya to find out the truth because it is straining their relationship i hope the truth does come out soon!

Sorry if i bored anyone with my long speech 😛 this is the longest i have ever wrote lol No it wasnt boring dear, i like reading long posts 😃

Originally posted by: JJESH

I was surprise and shocked to see Adi's behavior next day morning!!!!! I was speechless...

Originally posted by: FIZK6

What i realised from yesterdays episode and Aditya should start realising too, is that when Priya is upset and wants to talk to him he should listen to what she has to say straightaway. Like when she told him she wanted the two of them to live on their own, he joked about it, didnt take her seriously. yes you are right..i missed these couple of episodes due to the uttara and brahmanand track i could not watch it it made me feel sick lol however i watched this episode online a few days ago and priya was generally scared and in a real life situation i doubt the husband would think hes wife is joking when she is in that state..i think that was a blunder on the CV;s part He left in a hurry saying they would talk later. Even yesterday when she went to tell him about Vidya, he said he doesnt have the time. that time i think he was just trying to continue to ignore her as their so called fight is still going on however i did like his acting here they did it right in the sense that he was stil angry and unaware of what happened to vidya hence still going about things the same way lol
Ok so hes busy sometimes, but knowing how his wife is and she could back down from telling him later he should get it out from her when she wants to tell him.