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FIZK6

@FIZK6

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

@MariaX, i agree they should have talked first, well atleast Aditya should have listened to what Priya wanted to tell him.
If it was lust, then it was from both sides. And i dont think hes using her for her body. If Aditya wanted he could have forced Priya anytime, even when she wasnt ready.
As damon_biteme said they both love each other alot. Aditya cares for Priya too. Hes just upset with her for not telling him what is bothering her. He knows theres something, but he cant put his finger on it.
On the one hand he wants her to come to him and tell him whats bothering her. On the other hand he wants to get close to her too, he misses her and vice versa.
Before marriage they shared everything. Priya never hid anything from him. After her confession of ' I Love you' and then we he found out the truth about her past they bacamr more close, emotionally and physically.
It was only post marriage that Priya cant tell him anything. Shes tried to but he hasnt listened and then she was threatened by Brahma and Devyani made her promise not to tell Aditya anything.
So at the moment she has to hide everything from Aditya.
Whenever Adityas had problems they've been able to talk and Priya has been able to console him. Its only with Priyas problems that they cant talk. And they are major problems, which are really eating her up inside. and when it gets too much she blurts out to Aditya that she really wants to talk to him and move out of the house and live on their own. Then she backs down and doesnt tell him anything because of the threats and promises. Thats when Aditya doesnt understand her behaviour.
So at the moment she has to put on a brave face in front of the family and pretend everything is ok between her and Aditya and in front of Aditya she has to show there is nothing upsetting her.
When Imli asked her if everything is ok between them, Priya said almost. She knows even though they slept together they still need to solve their problems and she needs to give him an explanation.
I just hope in the morning they will talk and Aditya doesnt ignore her.

As for Aditya being like his dad Brahma, dont think so. Brahma gets all sweet with Devyani when he wants her. Now thats lust. Even after the party because he wanted his way he tells Devyani he forgives her for her attitude. And when he doesnt get it he goes to Uttara,

Edited by FIZK6 - 14 years ago

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shee

@Shee_xaan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: lifeisloving
I donot agree with you becoz there wasn't any lust in aditya eyes and he confirmed wat he wants in priya eyes as well 😊

They love each other. But Adi should talk.

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damon_biteme

@damon_biteme

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

@damon_biteme: Very well written! 😊 First off all Thank you. After reading ur post i'm kinda having a diff pov.. but still i don't kno, if Aditya really loved Priya he would hav responed to her at her first talk. There shouldn't hav been need of ''Priya seducing Aditya'' ...See Aditya is irritated by the mixed messages Priya is sending him. First she tells him that they should move out of the house and when he asks her the reasons for such a demand she doesn't explain. The she begs him to drop everything and come and meet her but doesn't go to meet him herself.

She forgets about informing him that she can't make it or has changed her mind. He waits there for her for hours when his work to do at his office. When he comes home she just apologizes to him but doesn't explain the reasons for her actions.

Any person would get angry about the whole situation. He thinks she has made a fool of him and that too the second time around. When he comes home he asks her to come out clean but she tries to aviod the convo.He then puts the condition that he will only talk to her when she is ready to explain all her confusing actions.

IMO Priya is just reacting to the situation. Firstly she planned to make him find out abt the guy who molested but later backed off because she got worried that Brhama wld harm Adi. This time around she forgot about Adi as she got involved in litening to with Devyani's part of the story and made the decision of not telling Adi anything.

I do relate to Priya as we all make circumstansial decision which might not always be correct although they seem correct then. In this case Priya also Priya thinks she has done the correct thim but at the sametime she is aware that she has wronged Aditya so she tries to pacify him by seducing him.

I think he loves her too much and thats what the creators are trying to show. From start Aditya has been shown as an alpha male who takes his pride too seriously. But they are trying to show that he is so attracted to this one woman-his wife that he he can't control himself. His passion for her is so strong that it overrides his pride and i am sure he is not proud of his weakness for his wife. If he just lusted her he would made the move first not waited for his wife to seduce him.

So basically what i'm saying is that he should hav responed to her by talking to her, rather than responding physically. Now even if he would have responded to her by talking he wld have put question to Priya which she would have avioded. She would have diverted the conversation and he is not stupid that he wldn't have got the message that she is not being straight with him. That would have complicated the matters.

Now Priya is equally smart who was fully aware of this. She didn't want him to ask him any questions as she is not ready to answer them so she planned the seduction. This would reassure her that Aditya still loves her without answering his the questions. She is fully aware that Aditya is a proud man so it gave her joy that he gave into her seduction despite his anger. Thats why she was glowing with happiness when she was talking to Imili after that.

But when I think that the serial makers already hav told us that it is a bold show, this scene of Aditya-Priya and their ''make up'' wasn't unexpected 😉. We all love their make up scenes. they are very cute together. But my interpretation fo the boldness of the drama is the content- like gay culture, extra marital affair with your wife's sister in the house 🤢, father in law molesting his daughter in law and the latest one a young man falling in love with a older married woman.

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shee

@Shee_xaan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Mahaa episode change everything. Adi pls

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MariaX

@MariaX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Well after watching today's maha episode i am still in doubt. What is Aditya doing ? He is still angry with Priya ?

I agree that if they had talked it could end up with another fight, but being angry, making love, and yet stay angry with his wife is not what i call real LOVE.

At this time Aditya should be a supportive husband and have full trust on Priya. Right now, he is only thinking about himself and we saw that in today's ME. Priya's aim to give Aditya physically attention was to somehow milder Aditya's anger, so that they both can stay happy. Aditya on the other hand got attracted to her because he couldn't controll himself. He made love with Priya not because he had forgiven Priya, but because his feeling couldn't stop him.

I can see the love Priya has for Aditya, she want both of them to be happy. All those things she can't tell her husband is because she is helpless and doesn't want to ruin the whole family by telling Aditya everything. I can understand her situation. But I am not saying that Aditya is all guilty and Priya hasn't done anything. Priya should be more carefull with what to say to Aditya. If she first hav told him something, she should tell him the whole thing, cuz if she doesn't, their relationship will have a lot of complications.

Edited by MariaX - 14 years ago

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AppleBlossom

@AppleBlossom

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: MariaX
Well after watching today's maha episode i am still in doubt. What is Aditya doing ? He is still angry with Priya ?
I agree that if they had talked it could end up with another fight, but being angry, making love, and yet stay angry with his wife is not what i call real LOVE.
At this time Aditya should be a supportive husband and have full trust on Priya. Right now, he is only thinking about himself and we saw that in today's ME. Priya's aim to give Aditya physically attention was to somehow milder Aditya's anger, so that they both can stay happy. Aditya on the other hand got attracted to her because he couldn't controll himself. He made love with Priya not because he had forgiven Priya, but because his feeling couldn't stop him.

I can see the love Priya has for Aditya, she want both of them to be happy. All those things she can't tell her husband is because she is helpless and doesn't want to ruin the whole family by telling Aditya everything. I can understand her situation. But I am not saying that Aditya is all guilty and Priya hasn't done anything. Priya should be more carefull with what to say to Aditya. If she first hav told him something, she should tell him the whole thing, cuz if she doesn't, their relationship will have a lot of complications.

Yeah, after watching today's episode, I somewhat agree with you. I was so annoyed at Aditya today. The whole scene really gave the feel that he manipulated her into having sex. Priya was under the presumption that all if forgiven.
Ugh, I don't know what the writersare trying to do with him. He came across as such a douchebag today. 😕

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aura9

@aura9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: MariaX
Well after watching today's maha episode i am still in doubt. What is Aditya doing ? He is still angry with Priya ?
I agree that if they had talked it could end up with another fight, but being angry, making love, and yet stay angry with his wife is not what i call real LOVE.
At this time Aditya should be a supportive husband and have full trust on Priya. Right now, he is only thinking about himself and we saw that in today's ME. Priya's aim to give Aditya physically attention was to somehow milder Aditya's anger, so that they both can stay happy. Aditya on the other hand got attracted to her because he couldn't controll himself. He made love with Priya not because he had forgiven Priya, but because his feeling couldn't stop him.

I can see the love Priya has for Aditya, she want both of them to be happy. All those things she can't tell her husband is because she is helpless and doesn't want to ruin the whole family by telling Aditya everything. I can understand her situation. But I am not saying that Aditya is all guilty and Priya hasn't done anything. Priya should be more carefull with what to say to Aditya. If she first hav told him something, she should tell him the whole thing, cuz if she doesn't, their relationship will have a lot of complications.

Here, in this case I have different opinion I believe that today ADITYA responded the way he should just like sensible husband.

If I would have been in ADITYA'S place I would have responded the same way, it is very important that they both sort out the problems before resolving the issues.

I mean to say that PRIYA must answer ADITYA's questions that why she demanded a separate house and what is reason for her unpredictable behavior in most of the occasions like BRAHMANAND's marriage anniversary and so on.

I am happy that ADITYA didn't forget this matter as usual and this shows that he is actually concerned about his wife's happiness and wants to know what is disturbing her so much and why she doesn't want to stay with her in-laws. ADITYA basically demands an answer or an explanation and he has the right to it.

ADITYA wants to convey that he is no kid that PRIYA gives him a toffee and he forgets everything and her tactics of seduction won't help her. And that is true the question remains where it was.

So now it is important tht PRIYA respect her husband's wishes by giving him an explanation for each an everything be it a white lie or the truth. She can even give some hint about UTTARA and BRAHMANAND'S affair.

Edited by anonymous4444 - 14 years ago

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aura9

@aura9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: damon_biteme
I saw the whole scene from a very different point of view.

I saw a wife who loves her husband immensly but has been hidding truth from her husband for reasons best known only to her😕😲.

The husband who reciprocates her love with the same intensity is suspicious that his wife is hiding something from him. He has asked her on a number of occasions about what's bothering her but the wife hasn't complied😕.

This has upset the husband as he feels that his wife doesn't trust him enough to share her worries with him. Now the wife who is fully aware that she is wrong in hiding the truth from her husband does feel guilty about lying to him😕.

Now she tries to talk to him but his condition is that he will pursue a convo with her only when she comes out clean but she doesn't😕. So she uses the last weapon no staright man can resist 'her beauty'😳.

She tempts him by dressing up beautifully for the party then gives him the vibes across the room during the party and goes to the extent of trying to seduce him the moment she gets the opportunity in the store room 😉(which i didn't mind). Unfortunately gets disturbed😡

Then in the bedroom she tries talking to him thinking he has calmed down but he ignores it. Then she once again uses the vice😉. Have to say Priya is one smart lass fully aware of what works for her man😉. She asks him to untie her knot and when his hands touches her she reciprocates by closing her eyes and sending signals to her husband. The husband who is after all a man who has been receiving the signals whole evening finally gives in😉😉😉.

Now I don't see anything wrong in the scene. Many couples use physical contact to break the silence between them. Many times wives use the best tool they have to calm their husbands anger that doesn't make the woman a tramp. And if a husband reciprocates to it when he is anger with his wife doesn't make him a pervert. Such things happen in real life and this drama is trying to depict real life situation rather than feeding us the mushy mushy love stories.

So I think it is a bit harsh to compare Aditya with DIG 😕😕😕. In fact i liked the sincerity with which the creators are trying to show a how marriages work in really life. Kudos to cv👏👏

I agree with each and every word of yours very well written.

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aura9

@aura9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: AppleBlossom
I don't agree? Sex is a big part of any relationship. I don't think they were trying to show that Aditya doesn't love her or that he is only interested in her physically.
They like to drag every storyline out. If Aditya questioned her and if Priya actually discussed her problems, the CVs would be forced to finally deal with the Priya-SSP storyline head on. I have realized that they want to stretch it out as much as possible.
Does it compromise both their characters to a certain extent? Yes. Does it somehow imply that Aditya is like his Dad? NO.

SSP is a molester and quite possibly a rapist too. Aditya only has eyes for Priya. I think it is unfair to even compare the two.

I understand it sex is a big part of any relationship. But, physical intimacy should not happen at the cost of an argument or a discussion, as it won't help to resolve the issues. At times it may be good as it helps to calm some typical violent husbands.

But, such tactics need not be used for every husband on this planet, especially the ones like ADITYA.

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AppleBlossom

@AppleBlossom

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: anonymous4444

I understand it sex is a big part of any relationship. But, physical intimacy should not happen at the cost of an argument or a discussion, as it won't help to resolve the issues. At times it may be good as it helps to calm some typical violent husbands.

But, such tactics need not be used for every husband on this planet, especially the ones like ADITYA.

I think your whole argument (including the comment above) would have held weight if Aditya just refused to have sex with her. He first slept with her and then refused to patch-up. That's manipulative and a total douche move.

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