what is vidya's problem?

I dont understand why vidya is acting like this. She knew from the very beginning that gaurav is in love with someone else and devyani knew abt it too and he would never love her. Then she was totally ok because he was supposedly in love with a woman. She went to the extent of getting them married because she wanted to see her love happy. So why is she acting like a dead person now. Just because it is not a woman he loves but a man. What happened to her love for gaurav and her goal to make him united with his love. She always knew gaurav wouldnt love her so it is not a big shock or a new news. I am really disappointed at her. Hear reaction shows her discrimination against homosexuality. She is okay if her husband has an affair with a woman but not a man. At least now she knows there is no problem with her.

Vidya is a small town girl. She is uneducated and is unaware of the urban life style. I think she is not able to accept a man-man relationship. For her, it has come as a shock and she is not prepared to accept tat the person whom she loves is a gay. That has been a shock. She will come over that soon and see Gaurav as the person he is;

Vidya is not been able to understand the relationship of homosexuals . When she tried to unite Aarti and Guarav somewhere she had this hope that someday Gaurav can return to her ..But now she knows no hope is left ...I always believe people breaks down most when they see there is no hope left ...Like Devyani has still hopes that SSP will change someday.😭😭

Originally posted by: FIZK6

Vidya is having a hard time in accepting the truth. Growing up in a village she probably never heard of such a thing and now she has found out her own husband is in love with a man.
Until now she used to talk to Imli about everything and now she has no one to share her feelings with. When she thought Gaurav loved Arti she knew she had a chance to gain Gauravs love, now she has no hope.
Maybe with time she'll learn to accept the truth.

I think she's really upset with the fact was that Devyani knowing the fact still got her married to Gaurav, maybe she loves Gaurav so much that vidya doesn't see hope hope for Gaurav either, family and society not accepting his truth. and ofcourse her life is ruined. But guys i really think chinu is going to save her, remember those epi of these two were too cute. he just wanted her to be happy, but i don't know if he's younger than her, but i don't think much younger. vindhya is doing brilliant job.

I think, although she was trying to get him married to Aarti, but deep down she had a hope that one day he would love her, now she found out the real truth, and she is shattered, she know now that he will never love a woman. I don't really blame her, its a big shock and I think she's doing a great job.

Its one thing to be left for another woman, who is maybe more attractive, more worldy-wise etc...than you. But when you're husband loves another man that has to hit at the very core of you as a woman. You are competing, so to speak, with a man. I mean your husband doesn't want YOU but he wants another MAN!!! That attacks your self-esteem in ways we can only imagine. I think the whole thing is extremely unfair to Vidya and Devyani was cruel and selfish to get this poor innocent girl involved in all of this. I hope Vidya speaks up and says once and for all, leave me alone and I'm not coming back to that house or that marriage!!!! To answer the initial question: Vidya's problem is that she is a poor victim in the middle to this awful situation. She was mislead, and now she is stuck forever. She should be allowed to divorce on the grounds of misrepresentation or fraud and remarry. I'm sure that won't happen though.😡

if she did that, she will be out of the show. I hope she stays and Gaurav falling for her. I think he is already fall for her, he totally cares for her and that eventually turn to love. I hope it happens.

Originally posted by: dsandher

if she did that, she will be out of the show. I hope she stays and Gaurav falling for her. I think he is already fall for her, he totally cares for her and that eventually turn to love. I hope it happens.

Yes gaurav has fallen for her as a friend, and as a human. He is not going to love her as a partner that is just not possible if he is gay.