And then somebody said something about heterosexual marriages being time tested in spite of a shameful history of adultery, marrital rapes, divorces and domestic violence,to them i say, why would you harp on the notes of something being right or useful just because it has been used for years ? Gawd,Sati system was prevalent in India since ages and it was an evil, a blot on humanity.AND so we removed it from our culture.You arent still stuck with writing letters in stead of using phones and facebook, arent you ? They are time tested BTW.Traditions,thoughts, concepts and people change with time and that is the only way to go.If you dont change with time, it will wipe you out before you even know it.And if some people are changing for their happiness, for being true to themselves, why is that bothering you.Heck, their sexuality is just a part of their persona and not everything of them.What a person 's worth is has got nothing to do with what they do in their bedroom.And why dont you blame straigt couples for bringing this gay thingy out, after all, they are the ones who keep producing gay children ! :D Stop them probably.
And no, either somebody is gay or not, theres no middle path, theres no choice.Your children wont catch "being gay " from seeing stuff on TV or they should have been gay since long.And the world as we know it should have turned entirely into a homosexual village.Why dont you get it, its not a fashion trend or a choice to be different, its somebody's life and love you are talking about and playing with.Knowing all the difficulties and prejudices gay people face, no one would want to be gay, given a choice.But then again, theres no choice.You cant help who you fall for.
And please, for sense 's sake, just because you dont like something , stop calling that "wrong ".Who gave you the right to decide that ? Respect others' choices and learn to value individuals and love no matter what type they are.Building walls of judgements and prejudices wont take you far.Moreover, religion hasnt got shit to do with discussion, so please dont open an entirely different can of worms.