Maryada in real life

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey guys,
I was just watching Crime Patrol and today the episode was about a woman called Rajshri, who's Husband used her as a sex slave. He basically made her sleep with his brothers 🤬 and business partner 🤬over a period of 6 years.
She remained quiet for that long....due to Maryada. She had sent her Mother letters about what her Husband was doing to her. Yet, the Mother never uttered a word to Rajshri's Father, because of the stupid excuse of "izzat"🤢
Only after the Dad found out was he smart enough to help his daughter lodge a FIR with the police. Through this method, they also discovered that the Husband was married before! His divorce proceedings were still taking place and he even had a kid from the first marriage! 😲 His previous wife also complained about being treated like a prostitute🤢
Currently, he has been refused Bail...and the case still continues.
So...things like Maryada DO happen and that is sooo sad.
Rajshri, just like the storyline, first remained quiet due to Maryada and then stood up for her rights due to her Maryada too.
This show is really good I believe, it forces us to accept the fact that this exists in society today. It prevents us from swiping the issues under the table...puts it up for discussion, and in a way, "de-taboos" things.
Such trash exists in our society, and the victims are afraid to clean it from their lives due to "society"...WE are society.
It's just all so sad.
Oh and I'm Ena, and I'm new to this forum and really like the show...especially Adi 😉😳😆

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lonelyshadow thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
#2
hi ena🤗
welcome to the forum, i'm amna..
hope you enjoy here..!!

nice post...
sad but true that we all face such problems but still we are quiet in the name of maryada , society , values and all😔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hy do u noe wwen it ws aired i want to wtch this epi
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Aamna,
thanks for the welcome.
Yeah, it's quite shocking that such stuff exists in society today. Truth definitely is stranger than fiction.
@ Bhagsruda
I'm in Aus, and I think I caught the repeat because I watched it at like 2am. Maybe try youtube? OR check out when your country airs the repeats of Crime Patrol?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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dats da reason i love watching maryada is dat coz dis show is close to reality..
such things really happens nt only in rural ares bt also in urban cities.. its just dat in urban cities ppl prefer to keep their mouth shut...
me being a sociology student have seen n also heard stories abt such cases frm da victim itself n believe me its really disgusting....
so dats y i can connect wid dis show coz i've personally interacted wid victims of such cases...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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that was so pathetic.......😒
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thnk u 4 tellin us this!!!!!
makes us mre awsre of thses things around tha world!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome to the forum Ena🤗
the incident which you mentioned in your post was very sad indeed but the woman should have done something about it earlier on instead of just sending letters to her mother who did absolutely nothing about it.Anyway,glad that she's ok now.It is true that people esecially women put up with such things just to make sure that their maryada is intact in the eyes of the society.
Edited by shruthiR - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tarini23

dats da reason i love watching maryada is dat coz dis show is close to reality..

such things really happens nt only in rural ares bt also in urban cities.. its just dat in urban cities ppl prefer to keep their mouth shut...
me being a sociology student have seen n also heard stories abt such cases frm da victim itself n believe me its really disgusting....
so dats y i can connect wid dis show coz i've personally interacted wid victims of such cases...

Oh my god, your interviews with the victims must be exhausting! Actually, I think most female victims remain quiet, whether in a village or city setting...but then why is it thought that this is a villager type thing I'm not sure...

Originally posted by: shruthiR

Welcome to the forum Ena🤗

the incident which you mentioned in your post was very sad indeed but the woman should have done something about it earlier on instead of just sending letters to her mother who did absolutely nothing about it.Anyway,glad that she's ok now.It is true that people esecially women put up with such things just to make sure that their maryada is intact in the eyes of the society.

Thanks for the welcome 😃
Yeah, the woman should have done something, but I think girls in normal families in India are taught all about "keeping the honour of the family" etc etc...and none of them are taught to stand up for themselves.
Besides, chicks tend to end up being like their Mothers...and her Mum wasn't exactly the strong type.
I seriously think that there needs to be education on how "you must stand up for your rights"...if the society is educated, then there won't be things like, "omg, what would society say?"
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice post. It is old one but I like. 😊

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