Maryada EDT # 1 - Page 4

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i was waiting for updates! thanks a ton..

kitne baar suicide attempt...hmmm

@Shilpaaaaaaaaaaaa :: 🤗🤗🤗🤗 Finally i see u here 🤗🤗.

@Anu, ditto for the women in the show! I normally hate the women characters in daily shows! But in Maryada, all the four women are so compelling...so strong and realistic!

Loved yesterday's episode ,and my favourite part was the conversation between Uttara-Devyani.Both of them are trapped in some way or other in empty marraiges ,Devyani deals with it by pretending that everything is perfect ,by not wanting to deal with the pain .So she just ignores the physical abuse her sister is going through ,emotionally blackmails her son into marraige thinking that it will solve everything.And uttara deals with it by making excuses for her husband and pretending to be full of life and finding joy in the way her nephew has fallen in love at first sight.

Devyani is one of those turn-your-back-to-the-sun-and-pretend-it-doesn't-exist sorts? The ones who pretend everything is sunshine and rainbows? Because that's what's expected of her - being an SSP's wife, she's treated with great respect and privileged as we can see. She has servants and people at her beck 'n call 24/7. So she should be happy! Which is why even if she isn't, she's going to pretend that she is. That's what's expected and saying that she isn't happy is going to make her seem ungrateful. So she does the one thing she's been told she should do - she pretends to be happy.

And when Uttara (the one person who is desperately trying to seek out and get help) tries to tell her otherwise, Devyani shut down faster than the blink of an eye. She did NOT want to hear the bad because she wants to live in a "happy" world - because if she allows anyone else's problems to seep in her "happy" world, then her problems are going to glare back at her and there will be no escaping them. *sigh* Sometimes denial is the only way to survive..

Coming to Uttara, she so desperately wanted Devyani to accept the reality for once - because if she accepts the reality then at least Uttara would know that she isn't imagining her abuse. She is being beaten by her husband and the ONE person she tells this to, tells her that she's the one at fault because she's clumpsy! That this is all an accident that SHE inflicted on herself - clearing her husband entirely. *sigh* How does someone who's being abused live with the knowledge that NO one else believes her abuse is real - how do they ask for help then? That's why Uttara was so desperate - so much that eventually she was just trying to get Devyani to accept ANY truth about her life, not just the ones related to her abuse. "Are you still jealous of me?" she asks - indirectly trying to find out if Devyani really thinks that Uttara's life is all that "great".. And Devyani shut her down - "Don't act like kids - we're adults now.." i.e. learn to cover up the problem.. Now we don't have the priviledge of asking for help or expecting it.. *sigh* These are two very troubled women..

LMAO! I love how Aditya played his mom when she asked him to go invite the Pradhans with them too. He was all "mujhey nahi pata kya naam hai..", "Jaggi sey bol dain na please..". And then the minute the mom steps out he stuffs his feet into his sneakers and jogs off! 🤣 Hold your horses boy! Thora toh nonchalant dikho! 🤣

Pradhan wakes up and sees Priya missing and he instantly gets worried? There was not even a moment where he thought k bahir kaheen hogi, walk kar rahi hogi or something other variation of excuses. Instantly he knew it meant trouble..? Goes to show just how depressed and troubled Priya is - that her being MIA sounds instant alarm bells in the family..

Errr.. Aditya really needs to stop addressing Priya as his wife - he doesn't know if she will agree and the fact that he keeps doing it anyways is just so presumptuous of him! Jaise sari duniya inhi k intezar mey bethi hai, k ye kab ayen aur shadi ka irada karain! He can address her as the girl he loves all he wants - us k instant-love ko I can handle (he is so convinced that he fell in love instantly with her - without any reason - toh I will let it slide) but he needs to stop calling her his wife or telling his parents that she's their bahu. Us sey POOCH toh lo pehley!! 😳 I don't know.. Call me weird, but I'd prefer it if a man ASKED me whether I wanted to get married before he started introducing me as his wife-to-be. In fact when I hear Aditya tell his dad that he wouldn't just pick any girl as his bride - that usko aisey hi koi bhi larki nahi bhaa sakti - I am tempted to ask k what exactly did he see in Priya that made him fall for her? I mean, what really? Was it the way her arms flailed as she got pulled back from the train? Or the way she insulted him, asking him not to touch her and calling him insolent, in an adrenaline-fueled rush? 😕 They just jumped right into love.. It wasn't even at first sight, it was more like at first glance! Bass nazar parhi aur pyaar ho gaya - aur 5 minute baad "lugayi" bhi ban gayi.. *shakes head* Too fast, too baseless.. But I'll accept it - I'll accept his "love", as long as he waits for Priya's approval before telling everyone that she's his wife.. 😕😆

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

And yes..it's a bit strange that Adi has started loving her just like that...but hey...we have never been able to figure out how dreams happen, whether the chicken came first or the egg, and the chemical nature of our cells...love is another thing altogether. 😆 😉

Haye ram! Itna lamba cauda comment episode update waale thread pe de diya! ab copy karke yahan post karna padega! Damn... kitna kaam karna padta hai!!!