Resham's reply

Originally posted by: sayali_d23

Dear Vidya...

i dont kw wht has been shared with Resham... and if she understand marathi or not...or if she kws all the facts from both the sides...

Everything has been shared with Resham and she knows all the facts and from both sides i.e. She is a Maharashtrian FYI

understandably you are upset with my msg on JYRG thread... pan just because you are moderatoryou are always right asa tar hota nahi na???

And when did i say that i was right always? I have been shouting myself hoarse in all the posts about the mistake that i have made wrt this unfortunate incident and the subsequent consequences that followed, that i may have fallen short of my duty at some places...moderators suddha humans astat, and to err is human...

first you accept you over did it... thn allowed ITG po re-post... then again deleted it...with a message tht suggest she is banned to post on the thread...

@ITgirl

I have deleted your post...if yesterday I had told you that you may repost it, it was only because I felt as IF is a free forum and everyone has the right to express their views. But if your views are hurtful to somebody its best not expressed. Many people from the forum have reported your post to me and have asked that you not be allowed to post here. You should realize that one single post of yours has really spoilt the friendly atmosphere of the ZM forum."

I hope the above answers your query about why she was allowed to repost.

Now from that bold red, please tell me, how does it imply that I told her that she cannot post on HSM? I have only said that those people have said it and i have only conveyed their views. They are not my views. And I have nowhere told her that she cannot post. I hope that clears your doubt. So please don't assume.

thn you like the post tht was clearly personal attack on a member...

Yeah that post had a few offensive statements...I had liked that post only and only because there was a video clip wrt SK's new play in it, and for nothing else...That post was deleted and PK has also issued an apology to that effect.

Don't we have a right to seek clarification from you as to wht you allowed ITG to re-post whn in your opinion tht was an offensive post??

This is where I erred...I shouldn't have allowed her to re-post, (and this is what all my well-wishers have been saying)...then all this drama wouldn't have unfolded.

like you i am too facing ths kind of a situation for the first time... and best way to resolve is to have open minded communication...

please explain it to me if hw i m unreasonable in seeking clarification on the matter / or what i am saying is illogical

No Sayali, you are not being unreasonable in seeking clarification...I hope all the above answers have cleared your doubts.

i will not hesitant to apologies... IF I m proven guilty...

Please this is not a court, and there is nothing to apologize. Just let this be a thing of the past, thats all 😊

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