Dear Aditya,
Good morning!
First and foremost I want to appreciate you for your view of supporting individuals to make their choice (of life partner). If needed, you support such persons even by going 'out of the way'. Right from start of serial, you are consistent about this approach of supporting such individuals. You allowed and supported Meghana to make her choice. Now you are supporting ViChitra to get married with the person she claims to be in love' with.
And that's exactly the point of our concern. Does love' means liking of madness of other person'? Does love' means only physicality or does Love' means only saying 'I love you'? No, definitely not. And who knows it better than you? It's a phenomenon' which is not limited to only these things and is much more beyond such things. Meghana learned it in her own (snail-speed) way. You and your family helped her in the process.
You must be remembering when you asked her at which moment she realized that she had decided 'you' as her choice of life time. She had said that it was not just a single moment, but many such moments made her realize what love' is.
Love' is a process (and journey) of discovering, believing and understanding each other. This process has to withstand test of time. This 'test' will be different for every individual.
But, you compared ViChitra with Meghana and that Dabdya Manoj with yourself!
When ViChitra said she want to do job since Manoj did not had any, you thanked Meghana for not trying such option otherwise you would not have got her. This was an outright sugar coated insult', but poor girl did not replied.
Couple of days back you said guts are needed to let go the dear and beloved one. And who's knows it better than your-self?'Agree what you had shown are guts (or Jigar)'. Because Meghana was your wedded wife' and was lawfully yours. Is that applicable to Manoj? His words were more sounding like Kolhyala Draakshe Aambat' than guts'!
The point is, every individual and every situation is unique'. One cannot be compared with other. ViChitra is emotionally blackmailing all Desai's and Manoj appears to be eccentric. So, please hold back yourself from self-declared Let-me-unite-the-lovers' mission. In spite of Lord Krishna being charioteer, Arjun had to fight his own battle. So, it's our humble request stop navigating ViChitra-Manoj. Let them fight their own battle.
When you are not in mood to listen anybody, not even to Meghana and Nana Deasai; we are sure you will ignore our advise as well.
But like both of them, we also love you hence this write up.
Edited by deepa911 - 10 years ago
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