Draupadi is one of the icon of Indian womanhood even today. Draupadi is one among the Sreshta Naris (chaste or pure women). The other Sreshta Naris include Sita (wife of Lord Sri Rama), Draupadi (wife of the Pancha Pandavas), Mandodari (the Demon King, Ravana's, wife), Ahilya (consort of Sage Gautama) and Tara (consort of Bali, the tyrant monkey king).
In the Mahabharata, Draupadi, was the adopted daughter of King Drupada of Panchaala. Later, she went on to become the wife of the Pancha (five) Pandavas. Being dark in complexion, she was referred to as Krishnaa. She was also called Panchali, being the daughter of the king of Panchala. Draupadi had five sons, one from each of the Pandavas, namely, Prativindhya, Sutasoma, Shruthakeerti,Satanika and Srutasena.
Draupadi's birth
King Drupada had once been defeated by Arjuna, one the Pandava princes, on behalf of Drona,who subsequently took half his kingdom to humiliate him. Drupada undertook a yagya or fire-sacrifice to gain revenge on Drona.Draupadi emerged out of this yagya-kunta. She emerged as a strikingly beautiful, copper-skinned young woman. She manifested from the Agni(fire), along with her siblings Dhrishtadyumna and Shikhandi.
Draupadi's Swayamvara
Drupada wanted Arjuna alone to wed his daughter. The Pandavas were in hiding at that point of time, as they were believed to be dead in the Varanavata episode.Drupada set up a swayamvara for Draupadi, with the idea of bringing Arjuna out into the open.The participants in the swayamvara had to shoot an arrow at a revolving target, while looking at its reflection in a bowl of water kept under it. Drupada knew that only Arjuna would be able to accomplish this task. Arriving with his brothers disguised as Brahmins, Arjuna successfully hit the target, winning Draupadi's hand in marriage.
Draupadi is married to the Pandavas
When the Pandavas came back home with Draupadi and asked their mother, Kunti, to take a look at what they had brought home, Kunti, without knowing, asked them to share it equally among themselves. The brothers would usually share the Bhiksha (alms) they received every day. In order to obey their mother's orders, the five Pandavas accepted Draupadi as their wife,without discussing it with her or taking her consent.
Draupadi's polyandry
While polygamy was pretty much accepted during the time of the Mahabharata,polyandry was regarded with much censure in the era of the epic. Hence, Draupadi was much looked-down-upon for having married the five Pandavas. In fact, Karna, during the game of dice, had addressed her as a Veshya or prostitute for having several husbands.Incidentally, though the matter of polyandry was so controversial, Draupadi is also regarded as one of the five Srestha (or the most chaste) Naris. This in itself is an anomalyand cannot be properly explained.
Reason for Draupadi having five husbands
When Krishna visits the family after the wedding, he tells Draupadi that her becoming the wife of five brothers came to be because of a karmic connection - from an incident in her previous birth.In that birth, Draupadi had been a staunch devotee of Shiva. She had undergone severe penance to please Him and when He manifested, she asked Him to grant her a husband with five desirable qualities.Shiva told her that it would be difficult to get one husband with all the five qualities. But he granted her a boon that she would get the same in her next birth. Hence she got married to five brothers, each one representing one of those qualities.
Draupadi Vastraharan
Dhritarashtra's son Duryodhana who resided lived in his father's empire, Hastinapura, was always looking at ways to defeat his cousins.Together with his brothers, friend Karna and maternal uncle Shakuni, he plotted to bring them down. He called the Pandavas to Hastinapura to play a game of dice. Shakuni was skilled at winning by unfair means. The plan was that Shakuni would play against Yudhishthira and win the game, since it was impossible to win at the battlefield.The game of dice began and Yudhishthira gradually lost all his wealth and kingdom in the stakes. He then went on to put each of his brothers at stake and lost them too. Ultimately he put himself at stake, and lost again. All the Pandavas were now the dasas (servants)of Kauravas.But Shakuni wanted yet more. He told Yudhishthira that he had not lost all yet, that he still had Draupadi with him. He also told him that he could try and win it all back by putting Draupadi at stake. To the shock of all present there, Yudhishthira put Draupadi as a bet for the next round.
Bhishma and Drona opposed this move, but Yudhisthira ignored them and put her at stake. Shakuni won this round too and Duryodhana commanded his younger brother Dushasana to present her at the forum.Dushasana barged into Draupadi's living quarters - she was clad merely in one piece of attire and begged him not to take her to the sabha (court) filled withdignitaries. But Dushasana grabbed her by the hair and presented her into the court. Now in an emotional appeal to the sabha of elders, Draupadi repeatedly questioned the right of Yudhishthira to place her at stake when he himself had lost his freedom in the first place. But no one could give her an answer, including Bhishma, the patriarch and a formidable warrior himself. Vidura was the only one who objected to the whole thing but he did not have the authority to stop it.
Then to the horror of everybody present, Duryodhana ordered his brother to strip Draupadi of her sari.Dushana proceeded to obey the order and starts disrobing Draupadi. Seeing her husbands unable or unwilling to help her, Draupadi started praying to Krishna to protect her. Krishna answered the prayer and a miracle occurred in front of everyone's eyes. Draupadi's sari keeps getting extended as Dushasana unwrapped layers and layers of it.Draupadi was lost in prayer and knew nothing. Finally, an exhausted Dushasana gave up his effort and fell to the ground. This way, Draupadi was protected from being humiliated in front of the entire congregation.
Panchali's vow
A furious Bhima vowed that he would not rest until he tore open Dushasana's chest and drank his blood. Duryodhana challenged Yudhishthira's four brothers to disassociate themselves from Yudhishthira and take their wife back. But they did not denounce their loyalty to their brother.Duryodhana went one step further and patted his thigh looking into Draupadi's eyes, implying that she should sit on it. In rage, Bhima vowed that he would break that very thighin battle .
Panchali also took a vow that she would leave her long locks untied till her hair was bathed in Duryodhana's blood.Finally, Dhritarashtra found his voice and, fearing the wrath of Pandavas against his sons, asked Draupadi to ask for whatever she desired. Draupadi asked for her husbands release and that all else be restored to them, including their kingdom. Dhritarashtra granted it all to her.After this incident, the Pandavas left on their 12-year exile and one year of Agyatavasa (living in anonymity). On their return, the Kauravas still refused to part with their territory. This is when they knew that the war was imminent and that there was no other choice except wage the Kurukshetra battle.
Draupadi's devotion to Krishna
Draupadi is regarded as the embodiment of bhakti. She showed unwavering faith and devotion to Krishna and he also protected her from all harm. Krishna regarded Draupadi as his Sakhi (friend). King Drupad had wanted him to marry his daughter, but Krishna had refused, saying that Draupadi was meant to remain his close friendand nothing else.
Once, when Krishna cut his finger on the Sudarshan Chakra (Divine Discus), Draupadi immediately tore off a little piece from her sari and bound the wound with it. It was this act of Draupadi that protected her during the vastraharan, when Krishna sent out reams and reams of cloth to protect her person.Krishna continued to advise Draupadi on various other decisions.
For instance, there is a school of thought that believes that Karna and Draupadi were very much in love at one time and were even contemplating marriage. But Krishna advised her against it and instead, promoted her marriage to Arjuna. Draupadi's love for Krishna was purely spiritual and depicted the love of the Jeevatma(individual soul) for the Paramatma (Supreme Being). This relationship also shows that complete surrender to the Lord helps the devotee get past all trials and tribulations they face in their everyday lives.
Draupadi as Lakshmi's avatara
The five Pandavas were the amsas or atoms of Lord Sri Maha Vishnu. Hence, Draupadi was an aspect of Maha Lakshmi. But so was Draupadi, one of the Pancha Maha Kanyas. Draupadi was also blessed by Lord Shiva himself. Lord Krishna had applauded her devotion and loyalty to her husbands.In fact, Duryodhana scripted his own end the moment he even thought of the Draupadivastraharan, because he was trying to lay his hands on Sri Mahalakshmi herself.
Draupadi as the Daughter of Fire and her Avatars
Draupadi was born "Ayonija" but "Agnija" or born of the fire. Hence, she was wrath incarnate and showed her fiery nature in all she did. According to different treatises on Hindu mythology, Draupadi was said to be an incarnation of many different Devis. As per The Garuda Purana, she was the incarnationof Bharati Devi, the consort of Lord Vayu. The Narada and Vayu Puranas portray Draupadias the composite avatar of Goddesses Shyamala (wife of Dharma), Bharati (wife of Vayu),Sachi (wife of Indra) and Usha (wife of Ashwinis). They state that Draupadi married the earthly counterparts of these demigods, who had manifested in the form of the five Pandavas.
Enraged at a jest by Parvati, Shyamala, Sachi and Usha,Brahma cursed them to be born on earth as human beings. Parvati deemed that they would be born as one woman, Draupadi, and share her earthly body for a smaller period of time. The deities also requested Bharati to join them in this human birth.Draupadi's fight against injustice reflects Parvati or her Shakti aspect. She also showed shades of Kali. At other times, Draupadi was docile and tame and waited to be rescued from her attackers, thereby exhibiting qualities of goddesses like Sachi and Usha.
Sometimes, Draupadi was also the picture of astuteness, in hiding her true identity and asking Bhima to kill the evil Keechaka likeGoddess Bharati would.Draupadi was also avatar of Goddess Shree or Wealth who was the wife to five Indras in their mortal manifestation,that is, the five Pandavas. She was born many times for imprisoning the Indras.
Her first birth was as Vedavati (the avatar of Swaha, Agni's wife) who cursed Ravana. She then came again as Maya-Sita, especially to take revenge from Ravana, while Agni hid the real Sita. The third birth was partial - she was both Damayanti and her daughter Nalayani. She married Sage Mudgala. Her fifth avatar was that of Draupadi herself. Hence, it could be said that Draupadi was a composite avatar of all the eight goddesses, namely, Kali, Parvati, Sachi, Shyamala, Usha, Bharati, Shree and Swaha.
Draupadi shows patience and forbearance
Draupadi was never the type who would easily forgive and forget. Of course, she also had a lot of patience, as she had suffered many hardships while in the forest. She had not uttered a word of protest when Kunti had unknowingly asked all her sons to share her. At Yudhishthira's behest, she had quietly married all the brothers although this system of marriage was not at all prevalent at her time.
Draupadi had worked as a menial maid for Queen Sudeshna of Virata during their time ofAgyatavasa (living incognito). She also suffered multiple insults form Dushasana, Duryodhana, Karna, Jayadrata and Kichaka.
She kept herself focused on her devotion to Krishna, knowing that he would come to her rescue when the time came.Draupadi went through terrible humiliation during the vastraharan episode. Even though she had no support from her otherwise valorous husbands when Dushasana brought her before the court and attempted to disrobe her, she had still accompanied them to the forest and spent the 13 years of exile with them.
She had also shown a keen sense of logic and quick thinking when she denied that she had been enslaved in the game of dice. She had pointed out that he had no right to put her at stake, as he himself had no powers left and had himself become a mere slave.Draupadi did forgive Ashwatthama for killing her five children, but only in the end, after she came to know the futility of war, and that it was going to be better for her to leave the past behind her. Other than this episode, one does not see her forgive any of her enemies.
Her end
When her husbands retired from the world and went on their journey towards the Himalayas and Indra's heaven, she accompanied them, and was the first to fall on the journey and reach heaven.
Inner meaning of "Drau-padi"
. "Drau-padi" refers to the five pranas- Prana,Apaana, Vyaana, Udaana and Samaana--which are the life-breaths in everyone. All these five function in harmony in every person--man or woman--and maintain the balance in life.
The ways of the mind are remarkable. The scriptures have pointed out that when man follows the senses he becomes an animal. When he follows the mind he becomes a man. When he acts according to theBuddhi (intelligence) he achieves the state of Mahat-Tatwa (recognition of his great potentialities). When he recognises his identity with the Atma, he becomes Brahman.
If man cannot follow the Buddhi or the Atma, he should at least follow the mind so that he may be human. It may be asked whether the mind is not prone to bad tendencies. The truth is, the mind by itself is pure. It is by succumbing to the senses that it goes astray. If the mind allows itself to be guided by theBuddhi, it will not go astray
Conclusion:
Throughout this epic the true character of Draupadi emanates, displaying her individuality, strength, and unyielding determination for both justice and vengeance. Through these characteristics the figure of Draupadi has come to be a symbol of empowerment for women and has gained the worship of many followers. Not only is Draupadi an empowering character, but she "was a devoted wife, chaste, religious minded and adhering to duty"
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