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Posted: 11 years ago
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arjun loved Krishna the most
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is hard to know who loved who the most😆 Its all speculative...and guess work. Even the texts r guessing at the very human emotions of the individuals. Also do we ever love 2 people the same way? Even our parents?

- Coming to the children... it is entirely possible they were not conceived in order of their father's chronological age. Maybe Drau didn't conceive a child in her first year with Bhim, but did so during her 2nd year/3rd year with him...whereas she conceived earlier with Yudi and Nakul...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose_jasmine

yes its as per age wise yudi bhim arjun nakul and sahadev.

arjun went exile for 12 long years where he married ulupi chitra and subhi. i remember reading that 1 year was suggested by sage narad when they live indraprastha. subhi is very very much younger to arjun. he met subhi only during 12 th year of his exile. subhi will be kid when arjun married drau.

i think drau was alone that year bcs when arjun returns on 13 th year. it was his year that's why he straight away when to her to ask her apology for bringing subhi.



There is nothing to suggest that that is the case. Although the exile period was 1 year, Arjun was under no obligation to return immediately after that. So given that he waited in Manipura until Babru was born, it was definitely more than a year, but certainly not 12.

Remember, the person whose privacy got violated was Yudisthir. So at the time Arjun left, Draupadi would probably have conceived Prativindya, had him, taken a year long break to prepare for her next baby, and then conceived Satsoma. Add 2 more years from there.

So b/w Arjun's violation of their privacy, and Draupadi being ready for his turn, 4 years would have lapsed. That would have been the time she'd have had to wait anyway.

In Arjun's exile, he had a one night stand w/ Uloopi and then continued, so wasn't around to witness Iravana. But in Manipura, since he loved Chitrangada, he stayed on until Babru was born, so let's say close to a year? He then went west to Dwarka, married Subhadra & returned w/ her to Indraprastha.

Once back, while Subhadra conceived Abhimanyu, chances were that Draupadi had just given birth to Satsoma, so Arjun may have had to wait a bit until Draupadi would be ready for Shrutakirti/Shrutakarman
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well i have no information 😆
Thanks for making this post very informative ...thanks to all who has replied...got a lot of info 😆 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose_jasmine

overall he did married many times when he was away draupadi. this shows his respect and love towards her. its was drau who was there till there last journey. not subhi..i



One has nothing to do w/ the other. When the Pandavas were retiring, both the Pandava & Vrishni dynasties had 2 very young rulers @ their helm. As a result, Yudisthir & Arjun both asked Subhadra to be their regent - help them manage the kingdoms until they came of age.

Draupadi being the ultimate companion of her husbands followed them, just like she alone among the wives had lived w/ them during the exile. It has nothing to do w/ any of their love for her.

I think it's accurate that Arjun's favorites were Subhadra & Chitrangada, whose hands he had specifically sought out. Yeah, he loved Draupadi, but there's nothing to suggest that he loved her more than them. His choice of Abhimanyu as Uttara's groom would suggest that Subhadra was her favorite, although it's possible that he loved one wife more and a different wife's son, just like Krishna's favorite wife was Satyabhama, but favorite son was Jambavati's Samba.

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