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Blindside

@Blindside

Beginner

Posted: 11 years ago

#41

SPA is a fresh breather :)

I was wondering why none of the posts have been created for showing emotional connect with Madhu.

Here is my analysis of why people won't feel for Madhu (This is my opinion and i don't intend to make it controversial)
I think most of us are used to seeing shaken, crying and emotionally worried women who is the assault victim. So when you see madhu replying and take care of things we don't feel connected. The issue is we all are used to women being shown as lost and broken.

I like the portrayal of Madhu in this situation mainly because i don't want women to show how pathetic they feel with this. Assault (don't want to use the actual word) is not good but, it is not more than life and dignity of a person. Madhu is strong and i don't want to feel pity. I'll be happy if women come out and face the problems like this. This lady had an ability to fight and collect broken pieces.

Question - Do you want a women to be strong or show such emotional connect during these bad times ?

I am happy that Madhu is not shown as a typical victim.

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Dikshi

@BookNerd_Kitten

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: ExclusiveChic
I heard this song today.

Mein aur tum agar Hum hote...

It was a beautiful song and the whole time Raja n Madhus face were ghoooming in my mind.

She sleeping or doing something...and raja sitting near her ...she oblivious to his presence...and raja staring at her with puppy eyes and this song playing in the background.

Hoor...I loved this song too...infact in last Spa I wrote this song for Rajbala when things were better b/w them...when Raja actually loved JM and JM cared for Raja but both were not able understand each other's POV...😳

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ExclusiveChic

@ExclusiveChic

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: .Dreamsy.

Hoor...I loved this song too...infact in last Spa I wrote this song for Rajbala when things were better b/w them...when Raja actually loved JM and JM cared for Raja but both were not able understand each other's POV...😳

i am not into music and songs ...i rarely listen to music ...and mostly forget the lyrics...i heard this today in mall and I was lost...my mom noticed my dreamy look and was surprised...and came home and listened to this song online constantly for whole evening , during my study time.

My mom was worried for me , I told her about Rajbala , and she laughed.

PS: Mom's worry about their daughters strange behavior.

I wish they will play this song

Edited by ExclusiveChic - 11 years ago

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GOODLUCKANGEL

@GOODLUCKANGEL

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#44

If show is really ending then why cant we get only RM in RK MANSION atleast now ?why didnt that dehati family leave? Inspite of getting negative feedback, so many requests n suggestions of ending such regressive dehati family track ,butchering of main leads and drastic drop in trps since onset of regressive dehati family track why didnt NF n PH end DEHATI TRACK?

If they r planning for very happy ending then how damn cud it end on 12 july. Atleast show us love story of RM bfr it ends n bfr that they need to show big realisation n repentence of RAJA, clearing of mu btw RM , change in character n personality of madhu n her falling in luv with raja after seeing him completely changed.After this their love confession n then their love story.

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priyachand

@priyachand

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: Blindside
SPA is a fresh breather :)

I was wondering why none of the posts have been created for showing emotional connect with Madhu.

Here is my analysis of why people won't feel for Madhu (This is my opinion and i don't intend to make it controversial)
I think most of us are used to seeing shaken, crying and emotionally worried women who is the assault victim. So when you see madhu replying and take care of things we don't feel connected. The issue is we all are used to women being shown as lost and broken.

I like the portrayal of Madhu in this situation mainly because i don't want women to show how pathetic they feel with this. Assault (don't want to use the actual word) is not good but, it is not more than life and dignity of a person. Madhu is strong and i don't want to feel pity. I'll be happy if women come out and face the problems like this. This lady had an ability to fight and collect broken pieces.

Question - Do you want a women to be strong or show such emotional connect during these bad times ?

I am happy that Madhu is not shown as a typical victim.

wow wht a different take on JM!! nice to read!

let me try to explain my feelings while watching JM in last week episodes n a recent ones (btw not all episodes i had such feeligns)

As Hoor rightly pointed out, CVs were smartly played with d chr n made her a fighter so we dont feel as a victim. otherwise Raja as a hero would have failed big way. no one wd have accepted him. i understand their reasons for mking us relate to raja!

i too agree, we are used to sterotypes whre victims are shown ias one who is crying n weak. JM is not like that. fine!

but my issue ws not that she is not acting like a victim. i found her hatred to raja evn before the assault incident not very rational. and her usage of janwar dialogue ws really offputting. if JM had been a girl educated in US n coming down for a vacation to India n she encounters Raja, i probaly cd understand her telling him as janwar and seeing his family as a psycho family. bt not from a girl who is also from small town.

evn before rape incident her chr, i had problms iwht her chr. then after the incident, wht i found irritating is not her fighting spirit bt the way she ws not evn thinking logiclally.

that is why i findi i cd relate to raja's sitatuoin more than madhu's

lets see how d story progresses

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GOODLUCKANGEL

@GOODLUCKANGEL

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#46

@ priyachand where r pennu n bella?

Have they left forum?😔

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Survival

@Survival

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#47

I somehow liked the episode, not because Raja is palning to torture Madhu, but because I feel this whole game will bring them closer and also because I think he won't let her get hurt, his feelings won't let him carry on, I don't know what will make Madhu soften, maybe knowing that Raja's life is in danger, some hints of real humanity in him will help her too

I for once liked Bhanu and Agni's plan, I never get panicked when a hero or a heroine killing plan is sketched, I know it will fail, I prefer it 100% times to a plan where they try to separate them or frame them 😃

Am I being positive? I don't know, all I know is I enjoy much more when I'm tension free

ETA : I guess I just made peace with the show, I still think the rape incident is a bitter pill, it's what bothers me the most, I still find Madhu's words contradictory, I always felt that about her, Madhu of the AK track isn't Madhu of the Dehati track, even in the dehati track what her actions and words were before (running away from janwars) are different from now (turning janwars to human beings) so it's not like I'm blind, I don't really believe anyone's words, even Bittuji seems delusional even if I liked him talking about the hero Rk (miss him so much by the way and hope they focus a little on RM's past for once, the least they can do for them) surprisingly Raja is the one who is quite true to himself no matter how much his deeds are aweful, so I'll just wait and watch, since I know I'll watch so why watch with boiling blood, honestly if they just erase the rape incident or they prove it was a misunderstanding, I can watch with more hope as I'm sure Raja sooner or later will redeem himself

Edited by arshisfan - 11 years ago

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BeautyForAshes

@BeautyForAshes

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: .Dreamsy.
yeah I know... specially when he is not in lead role... he can manage both and I m sure AS won't mind that too... 😛

but the thing is I m loosing hope Bella... the show is ruining day by day... I m not seeing any positivity in that may be u r...
Daily I watch the show with the hope that we'll get to see something positive and new but what we get to see same pathetic dialogues which becoming more disgusting day by day, same looks and same story...

not in a lead role ?? is there any article about it ??
but yes AS will have no problem with it😳 !!!

Lets watch till it lasts !!! when we think about the shows end we might not be able to Enjoy the present ...lets as usual discuss the episodes !! ill try to be regular... in a day or two😊 ...

no not being positive ...we are allowed to crib n rant our hearts out ...just sayin as the rumors of the show ending has spoiled our enjoyment big time !!! it will end when it has to...

i agree we want something nice to watch before the closure...n i do too !! but they are dragging as tho' the show has got a lot of time...which makes me think really its gonna take a while before the End ...

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BeautyForAshes

@BeautyForAshes

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#49

I agree with Hoor...they din want her to look like a Victim !!!

but the problem is not only the down playing of a victim but also the character growth ...all their characters seem to be soo stagnant !!! Everyday they repeat the same thing again n again ...

they shud have gone for the reincarnation ...the story wud have worked best !!!!

but now all they can do is concentrate on how to make this story better before its end !! i hope they do it sooner !!

i felt yesterdays episode moved a lil fast !! n it was good too !!!

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BeautyForAshes

@BeautyForAshes

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: GOODLUCKANGEL
@ priyachand where r pennu n bella?
Have they left forum?😔

we are very much here n there Varsha 😳😆 ...

am not well ...but still i try to visit the spa n read some nice posts on the forum ... u will see me regular in a few days time ...

Pennu is very busy with her Real life ...she has a lots of things to take care !!

and Priya ..her schedules these days are tightly packed ...even then she takes time to visit n write reviews !!

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