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Posted: 11 years ago
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You all probably know how pissed I am at Raja,I hate him so much right now!!I don't think he's innocent or that Madhu is lying.I'm very shocked by all this but I will continue watching MEIEJ,only so I can see Madhu making his life miserable!I don't know,I can't be sure how can a love story come up from all this.But I have something else to say too.
I was thinking and thinking and thinking.Nothing can be done and I know that if Raja did it(which for me it's obvious but we will see),there is a problem where we as audience cannot accept the continuance of a love story.Now...let me say my thing.
The thing is that this wasn't just a rape.Raja is not just some rapist(don't jump on me now).This was marital rape.From one side I hate the cv's for doing this to MEIEJ,to Rajbala and to Madhu Jr.,but I'm trying to calm down and to find something good in this awfully bad situation.So,it was marital rape.I watched once on Oprah show about this topic.Victims of marital rape(especially those who were married by their will not arranged marriages)cannot accept that their husband raped them or they blamed themselves besides their feeling of injustice from their husbands.Like "He was in a mood,I wasn't" and that's why it happened.And Oprah and her guest cleared the fact that rape is rape even if it's in the marriage,if it's not with consent that it is rape!So,concerning Rajbala nothing can justify Raja but he is thinking he has rights over Madhu only because they are married,and that he has right to do what he wants 'cause they are married.At least with this story,rape victims in marriage can recognize that rape is still rape even in marriage and some can do something about it.No woman should endure what Madhu was put to endure during the 9th June episode!
Talking about Rajbala I don't know what will happen now...I really don't!Who knows what will happen now...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i guess neither raja did or jmd lying about it
i think both r fainted
so in the court may be they will prove that
or thers nothing left for love story 😆
if r__p part is true
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Posted: 11 years ago
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dont think so much dear dimaakh phat jaayega . there is nothing left for rajbala they dead . there is no love story but any one want to see strong women .social message,women rights then ok
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Posted: 11 years ago
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dear i really still feel that raja did not do it
may be madhu is faking or may be bhanu did it
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't want her to be faking,it would show women in bad light and as manipulative,I don't want Raja to have raped her too...I want them both to be innocent.But Raja thinks he has done nothing wrong even with the attempt of rape.What if he didn't rape her,when he thinks it's ok,if he would have done it??!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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we have no option
but to wait and watch
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovebandini

You all probably know how pissed I am at Raja,I hate him so much right now!!I don't think he's innocent or that Madhu is lying.I'm very shocked by all this but I will continue watching MEIEJ,only so I can see Madhu making his life miserable!I don't know,I can't be sure how can a love story come up from all this.But I have something else to say too.

I was thinking and thinking and thinking.Nothing can be done and I know that if Raja did it(which for me it's obvious but we will see),there is a problem where we as audience cannot accept the continuance of a love story.Now...let me say my thing.
The thing is that this wasn't just a rape.Raja is not just some rapist(don't jump on me now).This was marital rape.From one side I hate the cv's for doing this to MEIEJ,to Rajbala and to Madhu Jr.,but I'm trying to calm down and to find something good in this awfully bad situation.So,it was marital rape.I watched once on Oprah show about this topic.Victims of marital rape(especially those who were married by their will not arranged marriages)cannot accept that their husband raped them or they blamed themselves besides their feeling of injustice from their husbands.Like "He was in a mood,I wasn't" and that's why it happened.And Oprah and her guest cleared the fact that rape is rape even if it's in the marriage,if it's not with consent that it is rape!So,concerning Rajbala nothing can justify Raja but he is thinking he has rights over Madhu only because they are married,and that he has right to do what he wants 'cause they are married.At least with this story,rape victims in marriage can recognize that rape is still rape even in marriage and some can do something about it.No woman should endure what Madhu was put to endure during the 9th June episode!
Talking about Rajbala I don't know what will happen now...I really don't!Who knows what will happen now...



HOW???? How if that shukla "wriggles the story" and still shows madhu falling in love with raja the rapist. And if she is shown to be faking it. How is THAT any better?? Esp when woman in real life are blamed or not believed?? He has trivialized the whole issue. Shame on him. Coz he doesn't have the guts to show a victim fighting and getting justice at the end. Why coz then that would show the male lead in a -ve way at the end then he would be a villian not a hero.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rekha.366

dont think so much dear dimaakh phat jaayega . there is nothing left for rajbala they dead . there is no love story but any one want to see strong women .social message,women rights then ok

Fans ko social msg cahiya or mb trp to as try kar liya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i think we are all confused and want the PH or the channel or the CVs to give is some hint of positivity. MD has been plagued with negativity for a very long time...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel that both fainted before anything could happen
That's my stand on the topic

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