Dangers Of Showing A Love Story After This - Page 3

Originally posted by: Poseidon

I just want baby bala to break free of the shackles of society and any relationship she has and leave everyone and everything behind and be a free bird and fly away she really doesn't need a man to live a happy fulfilling and fruitful life. I feel that romanticizing rape is unacceptable and just the though of watching baby bala romancing her rapist scares the living shit outta me.

yeah indeed... even some peoples have opinion that the rape not take place... Madhu just bring it up to trap Raja... while Raja just drunk n fall asleep... but i say it did happen!! how the story moving i believe the rape did happen!! if not how can we see a new turning point from all this... a strong Madhu!! A girl who being rape!! what will she turn to be... a girl without soul..
that what CVs want to show i guess... how a girl will stand up after such things happen to her... will she be the same... i guess not!! i want madhu to be cold n mature after this incident... i don't want her to revenge, hate or love but to act indifferent... that the starting point of a new madhu i guess... i hope they choose this path...

about will Raja justify his rape crime or not... that yet to watch... i don't want to judge it...
let times handle it😳

ohhh come on..u really think...u connect every Soap with the society..u relaly think whatever happend in MEIEJ season-1 has all the aspects related to Society, contract marriage eh woh...

we can just hope that he did not do it

Originally posted by: Poseidon

How can I not agree wid ya completely on this one sona
That image of baby bala is Engraved my mind, her staring into space rerunning Raja's false promises inside her head with the tears slowly rolling down her cheeks. As horrific as the episode was Drashti was spectacular one of her finest moments in mb the other one being the unwedding. During the scene he pushed her on to the bed and was leaning on her I wanted her to escape and run away so badly. You can't force anyone to love you, love just happens. Raja tried to force baby bala into an unwanted bond then he went on to force himself on her. What really gets at me is baby bala was the woman that used to protect defend and fend for raja when he was in a mentally retarded state from Ak and his torture. How could he have forgotten all that she did for him and behaved so brutally with her.

See now that is the down side of being such a good actress that she makes every pain, turmoil, and emotion look so real that in can easily be felt by the viewer. The unwedding prob wasnt even half of serious of an issue as this but Drashti's portrayal of the pain of the Madhu made us want to hate RK. That is why I chose not to watch the episode and read the written updates (i only read written updates now time to time) because not only is this such a horrific scenario but Drashti will actually make it look real with her fabulous portrayal.

We all were hoping that people escape during horrific experiences like this but it is not always the case. And my problem with Raja has always been him believing he has rights on Madhu just because she is his wife, she is compelled to love him. He told her I have been so great by not violating you all this time, like it was some type of favor he did. I'm like it is just the basics of being a human respecting women in their choices and not treating them animals that have to act the way you train them to. Him forgetting what she has done for him, protecting him when he couldn't have is on one side, if she hadn't done all those great things for him in the past it wouldn't have given him the rights. But yes its sad he couldnt respect a women like Madhu who almost was the reason for him still being alive. He would have been tortured or perhaps killed if there was even a bit more ignorant women there in the place of Madhu during Abhay's time. Yet Raja never gave her the respect she deserved. He slapped her and strangled her and sadly some people here consider that as proof of his man power. No actually men who use the physical strength against a women ever are an insult to man kind.

Originally posted by: ilovebandini

Why didn't they think of this before doing this??An attempt of rape should've been the worst thing that could happen.And Raja once more proved to be jungli janwaar and I don't know what can change him now or ever.I don't know what kind of romance can come out from this!This is a sensitive matter.Anyhow as for the storyline I want Madhu to make Raja his life a living misery!Put them all in jail Madhu!

Originally posted by: 4EVRoptimist

Lovely post, and I agree with every word,just wanted to mention that they CV seem to be thinking along the same lines as some of the dehati panchayats also think. in villages in India, if a man rapes a women the punishment given to the man is that he has to marry her. according to them then it removes the stigma of the rape for the women and that is OK now since husbands are allowed to use force on a women any way...🤢

Originally posted by: rehann

yeah indeed... even some peoples have opinion that the rape not take place... Madhu just bring it up to trap Raja... while Raja just drunk n fall asleep... but i say it did happen!! how the story moving i believe the rape did happen!! if not how can we see a new turning point from all this... a strong Madhu!! A girl who being rape!! what will she turn to be... a girl without soul..
that what CVs want to show i guess... how a girl will stand up after such things happen to her... will she be the same... i guess not!! i want madhu to be cold n mature after this incident... i don't want her to revenge, hate or love but to act indifferent... that the starting point of a new madhu i guess... i hope they choose this path...

about will Raja justify his rape crime or not... that yet to watch... i don't want to judge it...
let times handle it😳

Originally posted by: ashabanerjee

ohhh come on..u really think...u connect every Soap with the society..u relaly think whatever happend in MEIEJ season-1 has all the aspects related to Society, contract marriage eh woh...

Y such bashing now yaar..i don't understand...u want the serial to go in our favor,..then y the creatives...when they have romance and nok-jhok..u say...dreamy eh woh...

We all are DVDians...lets hope for the best and be positive

Originally posted by: rima4ever

we can just hope that he did not do it

Originally posted by: Drashtifan4ever

See now that is the down side of being such a good actress that she makes every pain, turmoil, and emotion look so real that in can easily be felt by the viewer. The unwedding prob wasnt even half of serious of an issue as this but Drashti's portrayal of the pain of the Madhu made us want to hate RK. That is why I chose not to watch the episode and read the written updates (i only read written updates now time to time) because not only is this such a horrific scenario but Drashti will actually make it look real with her fabulous portrayal.

We all were hoping that people escape during horrific experiences like this but it is not always the case. And my problem with Raja has always been him believing he has rights on Madhu just because she is his wife, she is compelled to love him. He told her I have been so great by not violating you all this time, like it was some type of favor he did. I'm like it is just the basics of being a human respecting women in their choices and not treating them animals that have to act the way you train them to. Him forgetting what she has done for him, protecting him when he couldn't have is on one side, if she hadn't done all those great things for him in the past it wouldn't have given him the rights. But yes its sad he couldnt respect a women like Madhu who almost was the reason for him still being alive. He would have been tortured or perhaps killed if there was even a bit more ignorant women there in the place of Madhu during Abhay's time. Yet Raja never gave her the respect she deserved. He slapped her and strangled her and sadly some people here consider that as proof of his man power. No actually men who use the physical strength against a women ever are an insult to man kind.