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Posted: 12 years ago
#11
Nice post, Neel!

I don't give a damn what some group thinks about me or my family or my sanskaar.

I don't understand how some group which labelled most us as supporters of an abusive superstar can now support that disgusting character. Also, how it was okay to call the lead an abuser, psycho and worse and we can't call a molester a lecher or a creep. Are their feelings fragile as glass? and ours hard as stone? 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post Neel.

Since childhood I was taught a few basic values:
1. to steal is wrong
2. to hurt anyone - physically or emotionally is wrong
3. eyeing anything which you don't have a legal or moral right on is wrong
4. always repay kindness with kindness
5. Be kind and considerate

Then when I became a teenager, I was taught:

1. never befriend gunda type characters
2. a decent girl never goes around changing boyfriends/men at her whim
3. deceit is wrong.
4. Be empathetic.

At the time of marriage I was taught:
1. respect the sanctity of marriage
2. don't give up on a relation too easily. marriage is a tree which needs to be nurtured lovingly slowly carefully.
3. In a relationship: learn to forget and forgive

Now while watching the show also these are the same sets of values I apply and then I am told that these make me uncultured and from a bad family.

I have never liked Bhai because all the aforesaid values were conspicuously absent from him from day one.

And one pertinent question: does appreciating the non-existence of these values make a person cultured?

and dislikng a character who defies these values all the time makes one uncultured?



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Posted: 12 years ago
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superb...his cold blooded murderer too !
still bhai is love by many !🤢
apni apni choice hai !😆😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14
Good post !! Bilkul to the point :) I pray that your post survives the wrath of you know who's fans ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poluk

Great post Neel.


Since childhood I was taught a few basic values:
1. to steal is wrong
2. to hurt anyone - physically or emotionally is wrong
3. eyeing anything which you don't have a legal or moral right on is wrong
4. always repay kindness with kindness
5. Be kind and considerate

Then when I became a teenager, I was taught:

1. never befriend gunda type characters
2. a decent girl never goes around changing boyfriends/men at her whim
3. deceit is wrong.
4. Be empathetic.

At the time of marriage I was taught:
1. respect the sanctity of marriage
2. don't give up on a relation too easily. marriage is a tree which needs to be nurtured lovingly slowly carefully.
3. In a relationship: learn to forget and forgive

Now while watching the show also these are the same sets of values I apply and then I am told that these make me uncultured and from a bad family.

I have never liked Bhai because all the aforesaid values were conspicuously absent from him from day one.

And one pertinent question: does appreciating the non-existence of these values make a person cultured?

and disliking a character who defies these values all the time makes one uncultured?




Well said Shruti 👏👏👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Some people are sooo caring and concerned for the entire world! So much time and effort they spend on us immature lost souls! May their 'maturity' bee justly rewarded! 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post Neel!

I am overwhelmed at the concerns some people have for us. *Tears of happiness*
They think about our past, present and future.. and are concerned about us so much! And here people say humanity is getting extinct! We hardly know each other .. yet they seem to have researched about the household we grew up into and the reasons behind whatever we say! They even predict things based on their research! 😲

Doesn't matter if they were wrong, doesn't matter how offensive they might have sounded.. their hearts were in the right place and I bet just like Sultan's.. these hearts must be pure gold. 😳

BS aside, I don't give two hoots to what people think of me, inside or outside the forum.. Have always been this way.. and will remains this way! if someone is not in my good books, I only feel relieved that I am not in theirs. I always say what I feel and I never regret doing so, however stooping low to anyone's level to get back at them goes against my rules and standards, and unlike some I don't compromise my rules and standards for the sake of fictional characters or celebrities who don't even know I exist!
Edited by Valar.Morghulis - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I just have a random question: Have been reading a few comments here and there of the sanskaari people.

Why does the moment a girl rejects a man she becomes a b***h who deserves to be ridiculed and humiliated?



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Posted: 12 years ago
#19
oh superb post 🤣 lolzzz😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#20
Superb post..i totally agree with u

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