Great post Neel.
Since childhood I was taught a few basic values:1. to steal is wrong2. to hurt anyone - physically or emotionally is wrong3. eyeing anything which you don't have a legal or moral right on is wrong4. always repay kindness with kindness5. Be kind and considerateThen when I became a teenager, I was taught:1. never befriend gunda type characters2. a decent girl never goes around changing boyfriends/men at her whim3. deceit is wrong.4. Be empathetic.At the time of marriage I was taught:1. respect the sanctity of marriage2. don't give up on a relation too easily. marriage is a tree which needs to be nurtured lovingly slowly carefully.3. In a relationship: learn to forget and forgiveNow while watching the show also these are the same sets of values I apply and then I am told that these make me uncultured and from a bad family.I have never liked Bhai because all the aforesaid values were conspicuously absent from him from day one.And one pertinent question: does appreciating the non-existence of these values make a person cultured?and dislikng a character who defies these values all the time makes one uncultured?