Originally posted by: cardio21
Even though I am highly upset at RJ for acting the way she did with Madhu!! I hope that Madhu doesn't listen to her(hoping against hope) but I think she is more wronged here. I always find RJ extremely selfish n weak., Like really woman?? But for some reason I don't hate her
May be I m too harsh on MJ, but I don't understand the reason for this surreptitious wedding to a manwh*%e!! How many independent working woman do u know who go for secretive weddings in temples?? Why couldn't she wait for a respectable wedding? This argument does not make MK a saint, and he is a disgusting creep whatsoever but according to me MJ is also at fault. Woman is not a foolish entity that a man can make or break her, she is equally responsible for her own bliss or misery. Yes kidnapping of her son and her losing golden years of her life in an asylum is what I really feel bad for.. Taking away her son is something very hideous!! I wonder what this brute was thinking??
Where as Rj was kept in the dark by her husband! She was tod this secret for some damned reason after years when she already had a son and so she decided to give her marriage a chance for the sake of her son. She continued to take all flak from her son who revered his father, but didnt break his image of his father he had in his mind. I think it was very painful for her to know that her husband has already fathered a son with another woman and might not even love her!! So basically it was not her fault at all, while MJ had a contribution in her misery.
Very nice post Tabby!!