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Posted: 12 years ago
#61
bhaibala fans are very few in counting
but i have seen some posts
not sure where
but Sultan's lusting is encourages
but then Dipali is right too
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Posted: 12 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird


In real life people move on and they all right to
but I think if a person's love is strong enough
they never move on
They cannot fall in love with someone else
sure, they move on in life , get married for their children
but bhai doesn't want madhu for aryan, he wants her for himself 😆

how can you tell his intaraction started with madhu because of Aryan he started thinking about Madhu because Aryan is the one who keep bringing her topic all the time ad wants her living with them. By the way isn.t it the reason some people in this form hate Aryan even though he is small kid being so rude and mean to his character

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Posted: 12 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Dude, I don't know who is right and who is wrong

For all I know Dipali knows what she is doing
She may be a bad person
but she is a better person than Sultan anyday
Who goes to God and cries for losing his so called "love"
madhu is not a nanny to his clingy son and it's high time he realizes it
He is welcome to sing zindagi ne zindagi bhar all he wants
he just needs to know he knows madhu for 2 weeks
RK was living with madhu for a long time
he didn't go lusting after her
he LOVES her
his love is pure, his expression is different from you and me
but if madhu died, and he had a son he would never eye another woman that too on the day of her anniversary


Hope you know the difference between love and lust. I didn't see lust in Sultan's eyes till now...but may be we are watching diff series altogether.

Regarding RK's love for Madhu...let us not even go in that direction. You don't tell your loved ones to jump from a building to prove their love.

And regarding Sultan falling in love with Madhu in matter of weeks. Well, there is no Gospel of love that says one can fall in love with the other only in 4 to 6 mnths. Hope you have heard of the saying ' love at first sight ' . Sultan at least took weeks...

@ bold, you are basing your argument on hypothetical situations. Well, in that case I've nothing more to say and hence I rest my case.



Edited by ornella_mg - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

bhaibala fans are very few in counting

but i have seen some posts
not sure where
but Sultan's lusting is encourages
but then Dipali is right too

I think what Sultan fans point out is that Deepali is seen as wrong for pursuing and not leaving RK, and so in the same vein is RK. Or, in reverse, if it's fine for RK to keep pursuing and harassing Madhu, then neither is Deepali wrong, except for the fact that she's married.

Again, i will keep saying this over and over again. Sultan has in no way lusted after Madhu. He didn't fantasize about her that Holi night either, she occupied his thoughts but that's not fantasizing. And yeah, that's life. People make a place in your thoughts and start to occupy your mind. You know what people are told if they keep only their deceased loved ones in their minds? They are often told to move on.

He went for the anniversary rituals. He came back, and and went on with life, but also remembered his wife. And because Madhu entered his thoughts, that's not fantasizing or lusting after Madhu.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I don't know about others but if I loved someone, and my spouse died I could never move on.

Sure, I wouldn't stop working but I don't think my love was strong I could ever move on from that and dream about another person

dear, every girl wants to have the same man with her for the entire life. But some r not fortunate enough. But believe me even if some one opts not to get married again, the pressure from family and society will be so high. Only a few will be able to resist it no matter how stronger their love is.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ornella_mg

Hope you know the difference between love and lust. I didn't see lust in Sultan's eyes till now...but may be we are watching diff series altogether.

Regarding RK's love for Madhu...let us not even go in that direction. You don't tell your loved ones to jump from a building to prove their love.

And regarding Sultan falling in love with Madhu in matter of weeks. Well, there is no Gospel of love that says one can fall in love with the other in 4 to 6 mnths. Hope you have heard of the saying ' love at first sight ' . Sultan at least took weeks...

@ bold, you are basing your argument on hypothetical situations. Well, in that case I've nothing more to say and hence I rest my case.



@bold, so much word. Lust? Where is this lust?

Also I want to make another general point regarding true lovers never moving on, that is just a notion and one's moving on in no way diminishes the past love or relationship. That's life.
Edited by likarsh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: ornella_mg


Hope you know the difference between love and lust. I didn't see lust in Sultan's eyes till now...but may be we are watching diff series altogether.

Regarding RK's love for Madhu...let us not even go in that direction. You don't tell your loved ones to jump from a building to prove their love.

And regarding Sultan falling in love with Madhu in matter of weeks. Well, there is no Gospel of love that says one can fall in love with the other in 4 to 6 mnths. Hope you have heard of the saying ' love at first sight ' . Sultan at least took weeks...

@ bold, you are basing your argument on hypothetical situations. Well, in that case I've nothing more to say and hence I rest my case.

Totally agree Sultan lust over madhu when did any body see him fantasizing about her even when he is thinking about her he only thought about the incidents where she saved his life and Aryans that is how he started having feeling with gratitude and jf somebody is calling that lust defenatly do not know the meaning of the word



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Posted: 12 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I believe in "strong" love

I don't believe in a love which can be quickly taken over by someone else
it's not a matter of 6 years or 60 years
A love that is pure, stays with one forever

Yes , pure love stays forever. But noone becomes widow/widower by choice. It is natural for anyone to fall in love again for second time. That doesnt mean their first love was not pure and strong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: likarsh

@bold, so much word. Lust? Where is this lust?

Also I want to make another general point regarding true lovers never moving on, that is just a notion and one's moving on in no way diminishes the past love or relationship. That's life.


People here have been using the word lust so loosely. Lust is when you have sexual attraction for another person. The kind Dipali has for RK...but well, whats the point of arguing.

Regarding moving on, everyone has the right to move on. Sultan's wife is dead for 5 yrs now...so if he has fallen in love now, surely that does not mean he is cheating his dead wife. If that was the case, then widows and widowers should stop remarrying and build a mausoleum for their dead spouse and spend the rest of their life crying their hearts out.


Edited by ornella_mg - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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To the best of my knowledge, when we use the word "lust" in the context of a man woman relationship, it means a "strong sexual desire". Tell me which scene from which epised made u think that sultan has a sexual desire for madhu? I thought i have not missed any sultan scene.

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