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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏...a much needed post for this forum
Edited by bahnni.mj - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 1Sumana1

An amazing Post!👏

These are like soo true and practical, not based on only feelings but logical reasons too!I just love your Post!❤️
Well I am always and will be with Rishbala, but I have also criticized both of them(playfully 😛 or even out of frustrations sometimes).
And about Sultan, I just think he is plain boring and his screen presence does not appeal to us much.
And I have always maintained to make myself understand that it is a fictional show, yea ok, we get sometimes deeply attached to it but we should come back on the earth as soon as possible with the help of control on our emotions as you said. We should really not get fierce with all these things.
But I can't resist to adore Rishbala, when they touch our hearts..😳

Okay seriously, i don't know what i have written above( its my opinion after i again read the post before posting this comment🤪 🤣)


You have a valid point there... we are attached to shows, movies, games.. in this context MB.. and no matter what one says the characters do impact us..

We feel anger, hatred, dissapointment, rage, frustration..joy..as story changes and progresses..

It is healthy to vent out feelings here...one should why not if one feels strongly about it.. BUT.. do so politely..one doesn't necessarily have to get edgy and start attacking every tom dick and harry and bring them down to lift oneself or one's fav character..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps

I agree with you. But it needs to be added that...HAVING SUFFERED IN THE PAST DOES NOT JUSTIFY wrong doing.

Justify Definition
Verb: Show or prove to be right or reasonable.
Be a good reason for.

Synonyms
Warrant, vindicate, excuse

One can UNDERSTAND WHY someone does something bad, but that does not mean that they should be a) allowed to do it and get away with it. or b) If you are the recipient as madhu is, that you should not defend/protect yourself.

Even a judge in a criminal court will consider extenuating circumstances for a crime committed and will pass sentence accordingly. However, IF a criminal case were brought against someone in real life who did the things rk has done. The fact that rk's dad committed suicide when he was a kid, his mom remarried and his girlfriend dumped him for his step brother WOULD NOT STOP HIM GETTING A JAIL SENTENCE. Being a superstar might though in India...


@Bold..Does this apply to Padmini, Madhu and Sultan too..??Or are we talking double standards again here..??😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps

I agree with you. But it needs to be added that...HAVING SUFFERED IN THE PAST DOES NOT JUSTIFY wrong doing.

Justify Definition
Verb: Show or prove to be right or reasonable.
Be a good reason for.

Synonyms
Warrant, vindicate, excuse

One can UNDERSTAND WHY someone does something bad, but that does not mean that they should be a) allowed to do it and get away with it. or b) If you are the recipient as madhu is, that you should not defend/protect yourself.

Even a judge in a criminal court will consider extenuating circumstances for a crime committed and will pass sentence accordingly. However, IF a criminal case were brought against someone in real life who did the things rk has done. The fact that rk's dad committed suicide when he was a kid, his mom remarried and his girlfriend dumped him for his step brother WOULD NOT STOP HIM GETTING A JAIL SENTENCE. Being a superstar might though in India...


Hmm.. first line.. I agree with..

You can have your opinions and stick to it.. like I am saying.. most of us do FEEL for the characters.. so we do get angry, we do get frustrated, we like something, we don't like something.

You may see it from one character's perspective, someone else may see it from some other character's perspective..

Debate/Discuss but all I am saying is rude words or personal attacks .. or character maligning not required..

Its the language I am trying to comment on really.. instigating posts.. that just ruin the mood..

and most importantly, one needs to assess the context.. because quoting anything or interpreting out of the context is plain stupid.. 😆.. the post may be discussing sthg else and people jump into talking abt sthg else.. which is just funny..
Edited by enigmatic_zephy - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post ..Agree with u..But still can't relate to certain characters of show & still think they are not bringing any good to show .They just taking away the original theme of the show😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post and much needed..

the problem is not that people dont understand this..its that we get so passionate about and connecte to one character that they understand their actions and see the story from their point of view..so even if they do something wrong, we know its wrong but since we understand the reason its explainable..but maybe someone who sees it from other character's point of view doesnt and criticises our fav actions and then in tit for tat hell breaks loose
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yaar I don't know about others but your post was like a high school revision for me..lessons learnt to forget after exams for many ...😳 I'm going to rethink from every aspects now, I promise😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wicked-Anoshka

Yaar I don't know about others but your post was like a high school revision for me..lessons learnt to forget after exams for many ...😳 I'm going to rethink from every aspects now, I promise😆



lol... no one else bajooed my post like you did 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

Nice post and much needed..

the problem is not that people dont understand this..its that we get so passionate about and connecte to one character that they understand their actions and see the story from their point of view..so even if they do something wrong, we know its wrong but since we understand the reason its explainable..but maybe someone who sees it from other character's point of view doesnt and criticises our fav actions and then in tit for tat hell breaks loose


True..

Now I ma thinking why I made the post.. maybe I just wanted to discuss the maslow's hierarchy 🤣

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