What's with the dark past excuses n crap - Page 16

Originally posted by: cardio21

I agree that two psychiatrists can differ in their opinion in some cases, but a psychopath stays a psychopath. Yes, his actions are extreme, might be slightly borderline but that doesnot make him a psychopath. I am also not happy with his behavior. And went really ballistic with the nok-jhok comment.. But as he is the hero of the show, he will come around. Lets see what they re trying to show.. All of us are confused.. He's extremely insecure and then from wat he saw anybody would have deduced that there is something cooking between Madhu n Sultan. I am surprised he believed her..

And then Karma is a b*%#^h.. So what he did to her came back to haunt him..

I am not a VD or DD or AR fan.. Couldn't care less, all of them are tremendous actors.. But I am looking at the entire story as shown to me.. We all are entitled to our opinion, so no offense to anyone.

Regarding chaining her to him, I would talk when I see it. Because if he actually wanted to hold her, he can get security guards,, there is no point handcuffing her.. But they are just trying to add drama to the drama quotient..

And even the plot gets clunky at times, because Indian makers don't seek professional,guidance while making a series unlike American guys, that's why american soaps are so fool proof. And regarding the abuse part also, it doesn't qualify almost 99%, may be before the studio it could but definitely from what I have been watching. If it was an American drama we would get a clear picture..

But I guess we Indians go for the drama!., that's just my take..

Now why are you putting words in my mouth? I did not say that RK is a psychopath. I used the word pathological narcissist (or narcissistic personality disorder) which is different from a psychopath. My limited net knowledge tells me that they are different and here is what I found.

• Narcissists seek attention and acceptance for it's own sake, and are miserable if they don't get it.

• Psychopaths seek attention and acceptance because it is part of a technique to get something else. Attention and/or acceptance for it's own sake doesn't matter to how a psychopath feels.

• Narcissists get very hurt when they get rejected.

• Psychopaths do not feel any emotional pain or discomfort when they get rejected.

The narcissist has a conscience, feels normal emotions and may be a person in a lot of emotional pain, even though some of them inflict a lot of damage on others. Some narcissists can also offer something positive to society. Life would not be as entertaining without comedians and actors who are narcissists trying to get attention.

The psychopath has no conscience nor normal emotions. Psychopaths and narcissists have widely differing intentions that manifest in similar behaviors.

All psychopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are psychopaths and in my opinion from what I have seen of RK and read of this disorder in the net, he comes across as a narcissist and not a psychopath. Even amongst narcissists there are varying degrees and I hope his damage is not irreparable. Indian dramas may not be highly researched but I do hope that they show that RK acts the way he does because of some disorder and not because he is cruel, calculative and conscienceless.

Completely agree. What's with all this nonsense past crap??


Madhu should tolerate his crap because he has a dark past or she loves him crap?? 🤢



Fabulous post Arnav!

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

Completely agree. What's with all this nonsense past crap??


Madhu should tolerate his crap because he has a dark past or she loves him crap?? 🤢



Fabulous post Arnav!

Another reason because he supposedly loves her. That is why he had the heart to humiliate her infront so many ppl and kidnap her and treat like she is his private property.

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv

Another reason because he supposedly loves her. That is why he had the heart to humiliate her infront so many ppl and kidnap her and treat like she is his private property.

Originally posted by: Opti

• Narcissists seek attention and acceptance for it's own sake, and are miserable if they don't get it.

• Psychopaths seek attention and acceptance because it is part of a technique to get something else. Attention and/or acceptance for it's own sake doesn't matter to how a psychopath feels.

• Narcissists get very hurt when they get rejected.

• Psychopaths do not feel any emotional pain or discomfort when they get rejected.

Some narcissists can also offer something positive to society. Life would not be as entertaining without comedians and actors who are narcissists trying to get attention.

You make a lot of sense. thank you for posting...

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

Completely agree. What's with all this nonsense past crap??


Madhu should tolerate his crap because he has a dark past or she loves him crap?? 🤢



Fabulous post Arnav!

Lol late entry 🤣 Thanx madzz

Originally posted by: Arnav90

Rk's very phamouss Dark Past Issue -

1st Issue -

Poor Rishu's father did suicide 😭 😭 and he lost his father along with Ganpati bappa 😭 😭

2nd Issue -

Poor Rishu lost his mother who did 2nd marrige for his sake 😭 😭

3rd Issue -

Rishu gone big n fell in love with Deepali but lost her 😭 😭

OMG meri toh aankhein barr aayi itna saara dark baalti bar bar ke dark past RK ka 😭 😭

Then comes the Mr. Rk, Are'nt you forgetting something that Mr. RK urf dark past wala Rishu used his past issue's to trap Madhu, If his dark past is so painful then How is it so easy for him to use it for making a girl fall in his love, He used his dark past so easily and make part of his plan to take revenge (Oh wowww such a painful past is so easy to use)

If Rk has so called barry barry hurting Dark past that does'nt mean Madhu have to take all the crap from him, That does'nt mean She should forgive n go sleep with him 🤢 🤢 🤢

Nice post Arnav!!

It's all in the attitude!

Rk has a victim mindset, that's why he doesn't move beyond his betrayals and seeks to hurt others - read Madhubala... aww he's the bechara with all the pain of the world on his shoulders..😊

Madhubala has a survivor mindset.. she tries to be strong in front of problems/ overcome them. That doesn't make Rk's actions any less horrendous/ the pain he dealt her any less.
And of course, she doesn't deserve to be hurt time and again to heal the Dark Lord...😆