Everyone needs a reality check!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello MB forum mates!😊

Let me introduce myself as I have never been involved in any discussions on this forum since the show started. I am HJ and a fan of DD since Geet-Hui Sabse Parayi. Ofcourse I like Vivian as RK too. Above all I love this show as though it has negative characters but still they are interesting & they don't keep on dragging one track for long. Well, that's the only reason I watch this show & rarely miss it (just in case if I have exams).


I do visit this forum on mostly regular basis but don't read much posts & so I don't comment & give my expert view😆.
But since many weeks I have seen members are divided into groups of MB-RK & MB-SULTAN. Well, everyone has their own opinion so I will never comment on it. I respect everyone's POV. Even members are arguing on the topic "who is right in the show?" so I decided to give my view also.😛

Well anyway, let me start with what I want to share with you all.

I watched almost all the episodes again after reading the posts in this forum about whether RK is right or MB is right or whether MB should forgive him or not or MB should move on with Sultan or not, etc. By looking at the current track going everyone is upset with the character portray of RK. Until now I have not seen post on MB character bashing. Well, that is good. Mostly we have girls in the forum & I am happy they all are supporting a woman😊 ( I hope I am not wrong in this).

So let me come back. After watching the episodes & going through the story of the show I think that both MB & RK needs a reality check. People like RK do exist in this world & I have come across such people who are very disturbed because of their past & the incidences which took place in their life. RK is simply very disturbed & if he is not treated in time, he can completely go mad. The things which happened to him were worst. So, obviously he is going to be like this only. He not at all trust love & people now. He has already lost it when he lost his father & then mother & then his love. He had too much faith in love but the incidences made him lose the faith. So, now he can never trust anyone who loves him even truly. He still thinks that MB will leave him in between. He confessed his love for her but after that he realized that he had done a big mistake as he can't trust MB inspite of her promises. He is so depressed that he can't hear the voice of his heart & inner conscience. He wants to trust MB but his mind is coming in between. He can't see her go but his mind is stopping him from not bringing her back. And because of all this that happened in his life, he had made himself like this. He has himself created so much of ego inside him that he can't even listen to his inner voice. Because he did not want to be ditched again he is making his ego larger than his love. He knows this but still he does not want to understand it. This happens with us many times in life too. I am sure because it happened with me many times where I know the reality but don't want to accept it.
RK is passing through the worst time of his life right now. Earlier he was alone with this memories of past but MB made him started loving again & that is the reason he is facing such situation. But the only thing he does not know is that in the process of fulfilling his ego, he may lose the most precious thing in his life & that is, Madhubala.
A person should sometimes take risk & trust his/her heart. Though the result will not be immediate but you will definitely end up happy by choosing your heart.

As for Madhu, the day she met RK she came to know how the guy is. So, she does not needed anyone to tell her how he can be! She is mature enough to know how the person is! Though she was staying with him forcefully because of the contract but she showed the concern for him from the very first day on the sets when she rescued him from the light. She has a helping nature & inspite of him torturing her she behaved as a wife from the beginning. She knew that he throw lot of tantrums but still she cared for him. Moreover, when he narrated his whole life story to her she became more concerned for him thinking that what he has gone through has made me this kind of person. She made him realize his mistake of talking rudely with his mother. Inspite of every negative point he had, she loved him & still loves him. Well, okay I don't say that what RK did to her is right because he is mad so he can do anything but MB should understand that the trauma he has passed through is not minor one. No doubt, even she went through lot of pain in her childhood but she had many to support her & RK did not. So she should think on that note. I don't say she is not doing right by not staying with him right now but she should deal with him very carefully & try to make him a Human Being again. On the other hand, even RK should realize that MB is not like others who left him in between so he should not treat her this way. If he really loves her, he should confess it. Even in today's episode he made her say those 3 words & he himself didn't say. This shows how much he is insecure of his feelings for MB. Atleast now he should understand that MB is not a fake lover.

But I would like to say one thing to MB, that if she is concerned for every human being then she should show concern for RK too. She should help him come out from his ego problem & arrogant nature.

The only thing I am wondering is why is he talking properly to his mother? MB made him patch up with his mother then why he is still maintaining the relation with his mother? This shows that the revenge thing is totally wrong. He is not taking revenge from MB. It is the only problem of his past that is making him do such heinous thing.

Sometimes we don't know how much we hurt the person we love and it is the same with RK. He tried to make MB hate him so that he could feel good thinking how people who loved him to the core hurt him & he did the same with MB who also loved him like anything but in the process he did not came to know that how much he started loving MB. Now that he could not see her with someone else he is forcing her to be his only. As said by MB, he is definitely a sadist. The person who has been hurt a lot, automatically becomes a sadist. Very few people can overcome the hurt, hatred & the pain they faced in their life.

And at last, even we the viewers needs to be patient with what CVs have to show. I am sure they visit the forum & that is why they suddenly brought back Sultan even after he said alvida to MB. So, they also know what we want & how much we love our DD & VD. Let them frame the story as they have thought of. Till now they have never disappointed us with unnecessary dragging or even typical negative track where the protagonists are tortured by antagonists continuously. So I am sure they will never disappoint in future too.😊

One humble request to CVs that please try to cover each & every track which is pending & don't add illogical tracks as they did in Geet serial.🤢
We trust you & you are handling the show well so keep it up! Don't disappoint us! 😆



Well, that's all for now. If I think I need to reappear I will be back again with a long post like this. Please bear with me. Please do share your views. Whether you agree or not, you are free to comment.


Love,
HJ😊

P.S. Moderators, I am sure I have not bashed any character or member in my post. If I have then do inform me.😊


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anamika143.. thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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u hv portrayed rk madhus character very well!!!
nice post👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anamika143..

u hv portrayed rk madhus character very well!!!
nice post👏



Thank you for liking it. I hope I have understood the psychology of both😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good post,

And like yourself i have only recently caught up with all the episodes of MB so have been watching it on a continuous time lime and you when you watch it like that you get to understand the characters and the story a bit better.

Throughout the marriage there were subtle indications that RK was planning something but at the same time there were also subtle moments when you could see that he had genuine affection for Madhu.

And yes he has maintained and fixed his relationship with his mother, but that too in a realistic RK manner in that he's not become some perfect son he still is working on it but he has begun to respect his mother and appreciate her.

He also has maintained his relationship with Bitto Ji despite the momentary lapse, because he feels that bond of brotherhood with Bitto Ji.

That leaves Madhu and his love for her, and yes because of his past he is slightly jarred and probably cannot trust himself fully to love someone like Madhu without fear of her leaving him. And i think he does realise that what he did was wrong but because of his naive petulant nature he feels he can rectify things his usual forceful way.

Let's not forget that he is a superstar, he is used to people just agreeing to his every whim, even his mother gave into his stubbornness and attitude therefore he doesn't know any better.

He needs Madhu to help him realise his true self, the Rishab that used to confide in his dad, she pretty much fixed Sultan and made him be a better dad so why can't she help RK.

Not to say that Madhu should forget everything, obviously she deserves to be treated well and respected with love and RK needs to earn that, but before he can even think about doing that Madhu needs to soften just a little bit and give him an opportunity to illustrate if in fact his intentions are honourable and true this time.

Otherwise she will drown in her heartbreak and be bitter about love for a very long time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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really awsome post dear 🤗🤗🤗🤗

u portrayed rk character well.
yes rk was feeing insecure bcoz of his past betrayals...

madhu should help him...she have to teach him how to trust relationships?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -HJ-



Thank you for liking it. I hope I have understood the psychology of both😊



ya actually ppl lyk rk do exist...n all ppl luv themselves d most in d world...
n kind ppl lyk madhu also existss
but since dis is an daily soap, kindness n evilness r shown in extremesss
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post
agree with u..rk is scared scared to trust anyone anymore..3 imp people ditched him how can he trust anyone ? today when madhu said she loves only rk & she cant love anyone anymore !! rk lost lost n that words..his exprsn was like he got his fav candy..he ddnt heared anythng aftr that..not even whn madhu said becoz u broked me..rk was lost on those ilu words..his mind was stuck he was so happy ki he ddnt heared anythng thatz y he said acha laga sun ke aur bolo na ? he refered to ilu & only being his ! but here people things he was happy coz of madhus pain ? bullshit o_O dear no one can undrstnd this becoz they r blind in love with MSK part 2 aka sultan ...
Edited by mariya354 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nazmobile

Good post,


And like yourself i have only recently caught up with all the episodes of MB so have been watching it on a continuous time lime and you when you watch it like that you get to understand the characters and the story a bit better.

Throughout the marriage there were subtle indications that RK was planning something but at the same time there were also subtle moments when you could see that he had genuine affection for Madhu.

And yes he has maintained and fixed his relationship with his mother, but that too in a realistic RK manner in that he's not become some perfect son he still is working on it but he has begun to respect his mother and appreciate her.

He also has maintained his relationship with Bitto Ji despite the momentary lapse, because he feels that bond of brotherhood with Bitto Ji.

That leaves Madhu and his love for her, and yes because of his past he is slightly jarred and probably cannot trust himself fully to love someone like Madhu without fear of her leaving him. And i think he does realise that what he did was wrong but because of his naive petulant nature he feels he can rectify things his usual forceful way.

Let's not forget that he is a superstar, he is used to people just agreeing to his every whim, even his mother gave into his stubbornness and attitude therefore he doesn't know any better.

He needs Madhu to help him realise his true self, the Rishab that used to confide in his dad, she pretty much fixed Sultan and made him be a better dad so why can't she help RK.

Not to say that Madhu should forget everything, obviously she deserves to be treated well and respected with love and RK needs to earn that, but before he can even think about doing that Madhu needs to soften just a little bit and give him an opportunity to illustrate if in fact his intentions are honourable and true this time.

Otherwise she will drown in her heartbreak and be bitter about love for a very long time.




Very nicely written😊
Every single word you said is perfect. If CVs show the story this way then it would definitely be something realistic. We viewers often portray ourselves with the on-screen characters either in movies or daily soaps. So without showing too much of fiction its better to show something realistic. This story if handled well can be a real life story. Everytime it is not necessary to show something impossible. We should also be able to relate it with our lives.

Thanks for sharing your lovely view😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sai.janu350

really awsome post dear 🤗

u portrayed rk character well.
yes rk was feeing insecure bcoz of his past betrayals...

madhu should help him...she have to teach him how to trust relationships?



Thank you so much 😊

🤗

yeah definitely she should teach that😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mariya354

Nice post
agree with u..rk is scared scared to trust anyone anymore..3 imp people ditched him how can he trust anyone ? today when madhu said she loves only rk & she cant love anyone anymore !! rk lost lost n that words..his exprsn was like he got his fav candy..he ddnt heared anythng aftr that..not even whn madhu said becoz u broked me..rk was lost on those ilu words..his mind was stuck he was so happy ki he ddnt heared anythng thatz y he said acha laga sun ke aur bolo na ? he refered to ilu & only being his ! but here people things he was happy coz of madhus pain ? bullshit o_O dear no one can undrstnd this becoz they r blind in love with MSK part 2 aka sultan ...



haha...agree with you.

Well, lets not think of anything except the show & trust the CVs😃

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