Episode 242 Discussion: 10th April 2013 - Page 12

Originally posted by: leelaa9

Guys, I think what is most needed of both Radha and Padmini for at least the next hour in the MEIEJverse is their *absence*.
Both women have a mutual bond of deep love with their children, and yet ironically have never instilled any faith in their children in their respective mothers' good sense.
Both Madhu and RK - and even Trishna - listen to their mothers' advice on a future course of action only when they themselves agree with what they are being told.


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Fabulous analysis from everyone as usual. Today's scenes were by no means hilarious. RK's famous dialogues could not mask the gravity of his desperate situation however he tried.Everyone agrees he needs help but there is no one who can really help him. The 2 candidates Radha and Madhu are no good right now. So how can we make RK take his medicine? Bring the 3rd person in, a stranger who is no way connected to him, who will threaten to take away his favorite toy from him maybe by holding him at gunpoint.

There is a saying in marathi called "Sonarane kaan tochane". It means for ear piercing ceremony the jeweler (Leela or Ananya can help me with the exact word here) is brought home. He does not waste time in pampering the child thinking oh will it hurt him or not.He just pierces the ears, gives back the crying child to his mother and goes away. RK needs that shock treatment. The realization that there exists someone powerful (maybe more than him) who can take away Madhu from him if he does not recover from this self-destructive phase and get back to relationship rebuilding phase with Madhu.

I feel that is the purpose of having Sultan loitering around in this love story. To give a hard kick to RK to bring him back to his senses. Just my opinion. CVs as usual will have something else planned for RK.

Originally posted by: minu_8

Re: similarities to the drunken night that day when RK says to bittuji mere ghar madhu has a slight frown and then when he days hamare ghar she nods and smiles. Today also he says the same but the way he says it is so different and he reaction is equally different.
Also RK didn't say his usual Tum sirf meri ho or sirf mera haq hai... he said Tum meri apni ho.. Don't know if it means anything different.. I didnt mind it as much as his mera haq hai routine

Originally posted by: leelaa9

Guys, I think what is most needed of both Radha and Padmini for at least the next hour in the MEIEJverse is their *absence*.

Radha and Padmini can assuredly be useful as a catalyst in getting the couple closer.
But any actual effect on RK and Madhu is only through each other.
The mothers are valued by both in crisis not as guide against their own inclinations but only as a support in the course of action they themselves wish to undertake.
And as such, it is in that role that each mother has proven most effective.




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Exactly what I'm trying to say as well...Madhu and Padmini are used as catalysts from time to time but the only ppl who can REALLY get through to each other RK and Madhu...they need time though...and for good or bad, RK bringing Madhu home is giving them that time with each other, in each other's presence.

Originally posted by: blacklambo

The way RK said "dil hai mere paas" when he was publicly humiliating Madhu for Sultan breaking the windshield of his car, made me think that at least he remembers the events of the drunk night. He was talking in a loud enough sound for everyone present to hear but he lowered his voice just to say those 4 words to Madhu as if they were said for her benefit alone. Or am I mistaken?

No, RK doesn't remember the events of that night clearly...they both have very hazy memories...if RK remembered, he'd have pointed out the TIGHT WAALI HUG from that night to Madhu too I bet😆😆

Originally posted by: MarathiMulgi

There is a saying in marathi called "Sonarane kaan tochane". It means for ear piercing ceremony the jeweler (Leela or Ananya can help me with the exact word here) is brought home. He does not waste time in pampering the child thinking oh will it hurt him or not.He just pierces the ears, gives back the crying child to his mother and goes away. RK needs that shock treatment. The realization that there exists someone powerful (maybe more than him) who can take away Madhu from him if he does not recover from this self-destructive phase and get back to relationship rebuilding phase with Madhu.

MM,

You translated perfectly. 👏 What do you need us for? 😆
But you came up with an apt saying for him. The man needs a shock treatment. It might come in the form of Sultan pointing a gun at him, thereby showing him that there is someone else apart from him, who cares for Madhu. That is no longer is copyright.

As you all must be aware of my morning's fiasco with MAIN forum perceived propriety, where I have been advised about several things ...and one of which happens to be for me "to go and look for meaning of psychopath..."

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

The way I see it, to cope up with his situation, Rishabh Kundra needs FAMILY CARE now and not Madhu. She is the reason of his pain and he cannot demand anything from her. And seriously where is his Family or Mother.

Sorry, I am harping on the same thing, as if I have gone mad.

Shri,

I believe during time of crisis and calamity any type of positive support is necessary, it helps greatly with the healing process. However, source of support is not limited to family; at times we could find a shoulder to lean on outside our family circle. Currently, RK has two people who genuinely care for him: Radha and Bittuji; however, the man not too often willingly accepts help or any advice.

Today he appeared to me as a long string of firecracker that was bursting nonstop. The desperation in him was being masked by: drastic set of actions, and nonstop flow of sarcastic dialogues. In the midst of all this chaos, Radha might be able to offer some peace but the question is will he let her advice him? I do agree with you, he needs to snap out of this state mind (the faster the better)'

@RK=Crazy, RK agrees with your labeling 😆. In today's episode, he declared himself as up-normal, rather then a psychopath.