The dance: Disgust vs. Passion(REPLIES on Pg:4-6) - Page 3

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Parts of it made me feel uneasy. Especially the part where he was touching her arm, straight after she pushed him away. It felt forced and wrong. She wasn't all that happy.

She is not his wife anymore so what right does he have to go and touch a woman who is no longer related to him?
You can't tell someone to get lost one day and the get so physically close to them the next day, especially after verbally abusing them and humiliating them.

More often than not all I see is RK's junoon, but not his Ishq. Junoon is not great on it's own, it is dangerous and harmful and RK proved that today. He doesn't respect Madhu and nor did he care about her feelings and emotions, all that mattered was that he wanted her.

It's all about me, myself and I..

Romance is nice to watch, but not when it is demeaning a woman.
Edited by butterfly15.. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@butterfly- oh I so agree with what you said! It seems more like a cold obsession to satisfy his need to win, to alleviate his bruised ego.. his 'love' is devoid of warmth and empathy, and compassion entirely right now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: Shreya_94

I wish RK would try to understand Madhu once.
I like your analysis.


I feel that time will come soon...i still haven't forgiven RK for what he did to her...he still has to prove to me (mostly madhu) that he is worth her love and forgiveness...but since he so lost in his junoon and possessiveness he acted roughly with her...as times that made me cringe more than once. but then i know he loves her like crazy...just can't show it like a gentleman...and instead shows it like a janwar...but he is only Madhu's janwar ❤️ My heart just goes to the couple who are made for each other...yet aren't together...they ache for the other...yet won't surrender.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He was so helpless he was angry to see his biwi with that stupid sultan..who was laughing with strangers like perfect family...rk did was not wrong from my side..


nice post
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: DushtDanaf.

Agreed. Compared to what he's done in the past, i think he was really calm and collected today. i mean before he only suspected there being something fishy between the two and he went off the hook, but today when he was being real genuine and went to put color on her with no ill intent in his heart yet all his suspicions were proven correct, he remained pretty steadfast and in control. he only ever let go of his anger once, when he told Sultan "Biwi hai meri!" and throughout the song he was smiling. I mean this is RK we're talking about, so when Sultan put color on her first you EXPECT there to be some huge outburst, and the fact that there wasn't is an accomplishment in and of itself. Doesn't mean i like all the pushing and shoving, but then again i truly don't believe there was intent to harm behind it all.


I was seriously thinking he was going to go punch sultan..and the sultan would take out his gun( i guess it's too early for Cv's to play that card..but i waiting for it)...that's a scene i want to see...

Will madhu stop sultan...?Will she go in front of the gun? That moment will prove to everyone...and mostly importantly to herself...if she garners more hatred or love for her right kameena!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed. Compared to what he's done in the past, i think he was really calm and collected today. i mean before he only suspected there being something fishy between the two and he went off the hook, but today when he was being real genuine and went to put color on her with no ill intent in his heart yet all his suspicions were proven correct, he remained pretty steadfast and in control. he only ever let go of his anger once, when he told Sultan "Biwi hai meri!" and throughout the song he was smiling. I mean this is RK we're talking about, so when Sultan put color on her first you EXPECT there to be some huge outburst, and the fact that there wasn't is an accomplishment in and of itself. Doesn't mean i like all the pushing and shoving, but then again i truly don't believe there was intent to harm behind it all. [/QUOTE

There was anger and disgust on R.K.'s face and the question is not whether he wanted to harm her it was that he does not care enough about how she is feeling when he is pushing and shoving her around when clearly she was uncomfortable. Loving someone is reading the other person and reacting appropriately. When we say R.K. will be R.K. we are enabling him in his behaviour to do as he pleases and I did not see him smile as much as smirk that once again "I " (R.K.) can get away with treating you any way I want.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: ninand

The problem here is not that we don't understand RK.. The problem is, we accept that RK is dark, but why is it wrong to tell him what is wrong about him?! I mean that is what being 'dark' is all about, isn't it?


Besides, The problem isn't even in the show. the main problem is in the forum. When people question "RK' or his actions, it is meant to be. Of course, arrogance, conceit, and egotism are to be questioned and RK is full of it. Doesn't mean we want to be done with him ! Doesn't mean we dislike Vivian,
In fact, majority of those who were skeptical of Viv being RK in the beginning, accept that no one could have played it better than him.

But when he' s(RK's) wrong, why can't people discuss his being wrong? Isn't that the story? Many here start getting personal when RK is discussed.. From what I decipher, one can only applaud RK's 'bajaoing' and be called constructive, rest , his crtique, his analysis in conjunction with the story and other characters is merely 'bashing'.

On top of it. Madhu gets bashed for no reason. She stands up to him she gets bashed, she cries for him and people find it boring, in fact Madhu can never do anything right for some here.(Then they make it clear it isn't about the show or the character)..

Once again, if RK can go to extreme in passion and arrogance cause that's his 'character' then why should Madhu not go to extreme in her kindness?

As for today's dance segment, its was no doubt beautifully shot, and the best part about it was , besides passion the major theme was conflict and tension..and I liked that vein.

The three looked gorgeous, but what worked best for the song was RK was gulaal'ed.. yeh..despite not liking his claim-staking on Madhu, there was something about the song I truly liked.

(PS; that dance gif in your post is absolutely stunning.)


Ummm most of this comment has nothing to do with what i said...but it's okay you are free to vent it here. I agree and disagree with you.

Yes, i too also feel that madhu is blamed for everything she does, while RK get's off the hook for his arrogance..most of the time.

I see of it as a battle of fandoms actually...and well i have given up on this forum...so i am just gonna give my insight and ignore everything else.

But coming to the dance...yes it was BEAUTIFUL <3 Even the pushing and pulling had it's own emotional turmoil and passion in it. oh i didn't look at it that way...i love that analysis of seeing it as conflict and tension!

I admit there were points where RK did make me cringe...and i just wished he would stop pulling her like that...but he is RK...sigh ! I love him, yet i wonder if he will ever completely change. He just hasn't hit his head hard on the ground yet to realize what he is doing will only make him lose her.

I like the dynamic of this love triangle though...and the cv's are very smart and sly! I knew sultan would be the one to put raang on madhu...that way both sulbala and rishbala fan groups are on their toes...not knowing if their favorite couple will end up making it all the way to the end or not.

But definitely i am loving the show!!! The spice is back!
Edited by Mrs.ZSK - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry but can't agree completely with you.RK should' nt have tugged n pulled her like that n the way he is touching her, when she is trying to free herself from him is not so pleasant to watch.he ditches her on one day n becomes physical the other day even without any apologies is not digestable.men can't treat a woman the way they want,even she is ur biwi but here RK already broke with her.he is just exercising his rights without his partners opinion.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: punam2712

IT WAS NOT DISGUST, IT WAS HELPLESSNESS

MADHU CANT DO ANYTHING, RK IS DEEP INSIDE HER AND SHE CANT STOP HIM OR HERSELF
RK IS A MAD EGOISTIC POSSESSIVE GUY AND HE LOVES THE SAME WAY
HIS LOVE IS NOT LIKE THE ROSES BUT LIKE THORNS - IT WILL HURT HER
BUT THEN THE JUNNON BETWEEN THEM IS UNMATCHED
AND THE RED HOT PASSION - IT BURNED THE SCREEN TODAY AND SHOWED WHAT THE SHOW IS ALL ABOUT


I agree...Madhu knew from day one he was a monster...a devil...yet she still fell for him...i almost feel like madhu is attracted to danger ...ever since RK entered her life...that's why she is helping a gangster out.😉 Yeah maybe that's a stretch😆

i find their love story so powerful and gripping...i look at the ache and the turmoil of the hearts...because what's shown outside is just a facade.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Shiva.

awesome post👏

i don't think rk was disgusting at all. he is rk the one who is possessive and very intense. he does not do sweet talks or sweet gestures his way of showing love is intense and intense to core we saw that today.



i am glad you put this avi's b/c it shows she regist him at one point b/c she is mad but her love wins over her hatred for rk. look at the way she let's him feel his intensity for her. she give up to her love and surrender herself to her bad boy rk.

i don't get why rk is being bashed? if he came and stand there silently then people would have liked that i guess then him taking an action and going for his BIWI. he took a step toward madhu not back steps i am glad for that.


thank you bani 😳I
For once they are showing such a dark character...and with it a dark and intense love story, ppl just can't seem to accept and enjoy it. I mean if we are going to apply this in real life terms neither is there someone like RK nor Madhu.

I for one would never just move on but get revenge if anyone broke my heart like that. If Madhu is such an angel...then RK is that much worse of a devil...polar opposite's with a nuclear atomic attraction for the other.


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